hi....my friends said some mean things to me and really hurt me and she is sorry, should i forgive her? she was being rude and i don't know what to do.........natalie if this is u i don't know if we can continue being BFF'S
2007-07-13 05:41:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it all depends why the friend said all those mean things to you... then u have to decide wheather or not to forgive.. was it out of meanness, ? was it to intentionally hurt you? was she being rude for a reason you don't understand? is she a good friend to you... like you are to her?/ Is she really your friend? friends do not hurt friends, they are there through thick and thin...... You have to decide if u are loosing anything or gaining anything to forgive her....
You can not loose anything that u didn't have in the first place,,, so if she was not a good friend... u r not loosing much... hope this helps... don't ever allow people to run over you... just to have friends,, you can always make new ones, even if u do forgive her.... good luck
2007-07-13 06:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did she say those mean things? Is she jealous? Ask her why she had an outburst toward you. Maybe she told you how she really feels about you or it was stuff that she has been holding back on saying. The most important thing is to find out WHY she said what she did. You should always give a person a second chance but be wary and wise in doing so.
2007-07-13 12:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can definitly forgive her.
The two of you just need to talk it out first.
Friends get in fights at times, and that's normal. So I say you forgive her :]
2007-07-13 13:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by hannah :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋