Family & Relationships - 13 July 2007

2007-07-13 05:28:07 · 59 answers · asked by anna_brooks_leah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i hav bin tgether for 6mos.evn fr that short tym, we had shared lots of good memories tgether nd i hav felt his love for me. wen we wer stil tgether, i treated him lyk my husband and took care of him wyl her mom can't because of work abroad. we didn't hav prblems tgether.wen sudenly, he told me he can't go on.i didn't knw the rison. he juz told me he wants tym for himself.i didn't see third party bt i can see that he has bin so attached to his boy- friend. and he has bin drinking too much with his friends lately. we're in same school and he still treats me lyk his girl. he asks me out, treats me snacks, and do some of the things we used to do tgether.it's bin 2wiks since he broke up with me. last night he sent a msg on my mobile fone that he loves me so much bt it's hard for him to go back to me. i'm so confused.and i'm really hurt of wat's happening . i'm so empty.i don't know what to do.

2007-07-13 05:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've heard this rumor before and I want to know whether it is true, or whether it is indeed just a rumor.

2007-07-13 05:26:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love one, and care deeply for the other. and can't seem to break up with either of them.

2007-07-13 05:24:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work for the Humane Society, I love all animals. My boyfriend is a wonderful guy, artistic, intelligent. He is just a little strange, kind of artsy strange, but he loves Ozzy Osbourne. I have cats and dogs, he cusses them out and he hates them and yells, but is never cruel. But my fish and birds are another story. He swallows my fish whole, he says it's sushi and he likes the wiggle as it goes down. And he has bitten the heads off two of my parakeets, like Ozzy did he says. What am I supposd to do??? I love him, but I can't stand kissing him since he bit the heads off my birds and my birds and fish aren't safe. I hate to lose him over this, but???

2007-07-13 05:24:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this normal and how do i deal with it?
i love him and know he loves me but it seems he cant stop doing it. im an independent person who hasnt done badly in life so there is no need for his behaviour. i wonder if he simply doesnt love me anymore or if his family are interfering and saying negative things about me to him...help! any (good) suggestions appreciated..perhaps im over reacting or i wonder if it is his own problem with self confidence, if so i wonder how to tackle this

2007-07-13 05:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sex life is great. You have all the fun when you are in the dating period. But can it get better once you get married? Can marriage offers something more on the sexual experience? If so, what are those? This question is not for those who would wait to have sex until marriage.

2007-07-13 05:20:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my baby's father is broken up... while we were broken up for at least 3 1/2 months I moved on to another guy... me and that guy didn't work so I'm back single. My baby's father wants to get back with me and is really trying now. But I had sex with another guy. He recently asked my that question Did I do it to anyone else? He said if my answer is yes then he's going to move on. If my answer is no then he's going to make it work with me.. What should I do? In addition I kept asking him do he do anything with anyone else and he said no he's not fast.. That makes it worst..

2007-07-13 05:20:31 · 33 answers · asked by mamas_love2u 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys... what don't you get about women?? Gals... what dont you get about guys??
ie. from a man's persepctive.... why are women so emotional ( when they just said another woman was beautiful and then told their partner she looks like she's gained weight). This is just one example, tell me out your personal experiences. I'd love a guys perspective too on the silly things women do too!

2007-07-13 05:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i've a friend...she has this heart disease but she went for surgery when she was a little kid..but now,she said,she can taste some blood in her mouth and she said she can even feel something in her oesophagus..i asked her wether she told her parents or not,and she said no and she said she want to die..i really dont want to lose her..i asked her to promise me to tell her parents bout this and she said yes but with a bad-mood looking on her face..im scared she just wont tell her parents or neither any of her family..tell me what should i do...i said to my other friend that i'm gonna call her family if she still doesnt tell her parents bout this,but i know this will make her angry at me...WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2007-07-13 05:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by musicLOVER 1 in Friends

My husband is eager to please me but he says I am going to kill him one day. I could have sex AT LEAST twice a day and I have multiple orgasms. I enjoy every minute of it and crave more even when he can't continue. He thinks that he can't satisfy me because I want more but I orgasm sometimes 4 or 5 times before he does. Sometimes I feel like I am addicted but I didn't used to be like this. Before my husband, no one had ever given me an orgasm, let alone MULTIPLES. What do you think?

2007-07-13 05:18:39 · 23 answers · asked by *~PEACHY~* (^_^) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it did, but my bf refuses to think so. we have been dating for 7 months now and about 2 months ago because of my work schedule (we hardly ever get to see each other) he wanted to take a "break". The break did not last long at all, he comes crying back telling me it was mistake and what not. He said alot of hurtful things to me and I think that moment ruined our relationship. Now I cant even be around him for a long period of time or anything. But he is even more in love with me than before the break. Its hard for me to get over what he said and get back emotionally where we were before the break. Why did the roles switch? Is there anything I can do to repair it? I dont wanna hurt him but I am afraid this is the end.

2007-07-13 05:18:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A month ago my boyfriend of 2 yrs. and I moved in together. I have been on my own for almost 10 yrs. and he lived at home with his parents his entire life (30 yrs). He was hit by a car when he was 10 and suffered a closed head injury. So his parents have been overprotective and had no faith that he would ever be on his own,until now. Since we have moved in together it seems like we have been fighting more and I am feeling like I do everything work, clean, shop, pay the bills..everything. He just goes to work and comes home, occasionaly stopping to play pool after work (I work days he works nights.) So I confronted him nicely and it blew up from there, him saying well I have never had to do this stuff and then he said Maybe this was a bad idea to live together. I broke down, then he said it was because he didnt know what to do, he had lived at home and this was a huge change. He says he loves me and wants to marry me. He still said he wants to stay with me ....Im very hurt

2007-07-13 05:15:40 · 14 answers · asked by pinkfrizzle78 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically, she is aching for a cat. She says she loves them and since we don't want children, she at least wants a pet. She tells me I can take allergy medcine, but I HATE cats. They are sneaky and ugly and they scare me. Plus I sneeze and get so sick. We live in the city, so it would have to stay indoors. I don't want to lose her. What can I do???

2007-07-13 05:14:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has been ignoring me and being rude so I emailed her and confronted her and she never replied. I also realized on her myspace that she talks and comments all her friends but me but I know if I confront her she either wont say anything or won't reply and I am really hurt. She only hangs out with me when her friends aren't around or are mad at her. Also I told my parents I want to break the friendship but he said no and it is stupid if I do that but we never hang out anymore and my dad says in another 3 weeks she will want me to be her friend again which is what happens I dont exist when she has friends but I do when she doesnt have any. What do I do?

2007-07-13 05:13:31 · 8 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Friends

Ummm... How do I put this?

I'm 13, and recently me and my girlfriend had sex, please dont criticize me for this, as it was my choise...

It spead around school, and the teachers found out...

They said i've got a week to tell my parents, but im not sure how...

I'd prefure to tell my mum, and let her tell my dad...

The girl isnt pregant or anything...

2007-07-13 05:11:51 · 70 answers · asked by Draak Rosso! 1 in Family

i.e. Mr. & Mrs. John Doe or John and Jane Doe?

2007-07-13 05:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by dpcf36 1 in Weddings

Rate my appearance please, I know it's shallow but I'm curious. Scale of 1-10, with 10 being hi..

I already know my personality is off the scale...LOL

2007-07-13 05:11:15 · 42 answers · asked by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me coz i in dilemma. I got a marriege proposal from muslim kashmiri man. I am malaysian. So far he is a nice man and coz of long distance we only met 2 times only when he coming to indonesia. he said he love me and want to marry me. Please help me to make decision. I admit that i really love him and afraid if i take a wrong decision to marry him. i heard people (internationally) said if a foreigner want to marry local (myself), they only want to get PR. Some people said foreigner want to marry malaysian because they want to stay in a peace country. I also heard people (not only malaysian said) indian man love to play with LOVE words. They are always successful when they use their love words. Please help me. I really need advise from all of you before i said yes to his proposal. Thank you.

2007-07-13 05:10:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my fiance since we were freshmen in high school. He is not a bad person wouldn't hurt a fly. Just got involved with the wrong person and made a bad choice (robbed a bank). We have 10 month old twin boy's together. He is a great father to those boy's they love their dad very much. The thing is we are very yung only 19 years old. I want to stay with him it is just very hard. Please someone i need advice. Again he is not a bad person so don't say oh hunny you have to think what if he gets out and hurts you, he is not like that. He just made a stupid mistake.

2007-07-13 05:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know S.S. and DL, and financial inst. but what else?

2007-07-13 05:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by lilirodal81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

because it really does! it makes me feel so gross about it i kind of dont want to touch him. what kind of woman has xxx with a 17 yr old? what kind of 17 yr old has xxx with a 35yr old woman mother of 2? it seems so sick to me - am i overreacting?

2007-07-13 05:05:54 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. My boyfriend and I passed up the friend and kissing stage of our 4 year realisonship (Im 24 he's 25)( 2 monthes apart)We both live alone but like 2 minutes by car away. So here's the problem. I dont know how for him to aprove or "clear" the sexual stage. AND NO I WILL NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM!! SHould I show him something or let him ***** me! Plz not smart a.ss answers. I really am confused.

2007-07-13 05:04:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together 2 years and he cheated then with someone who had the same first name& oh yeah we were engaged also. I stayed with him, things started to go great now we have 2 wonderful kids. Just after we had been together 7 years we got married & things were still great then about 7 months after that I noticed he was acting funny. He was talk to a girl who lived in Washington and we live in Michigan. He had to order parts from her over the phone for his job, after talking to her daily for 6 months they started to get a bit close and then they decided to meet. He took our money from our family and spent over a thousand dollars to meet her in Vegas 1 week before our 1st wedding anniversary. So anyway, I figured it all out on my own before it went down but he insisted on going up North to someones cabin from work anyway because of all the problems we were having.Now 1 year later we work for the same place and the co worker said he never went up there.Do I ask him about it or let it go?

2007-07-13 05:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by so lost in life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has a an ex girl that keeps calling and txting...and now there's this girl who has surfaced saying he's tryed to get with her...she has my number too and has been sending me threatening txt's (to him too). Should I just end things with him to spare myself the suffering if I let it go any further? (we've been together officially for a month, but I knew him since 7th grade) I've already had guys play me, so I really dont want to suffer like this anymore...please advise me on what you would do, or think I should do? Oh, and those psycho b*tches are threatening my life...talking bout they're gonna hurt me an kill me...and blah blah blah. I'm sooo confused because what I'm wondering most of all is how the hell did that girl get my number?....for real, like how?...the only way I come up with is that she's seen his phone and has actually looked into it...so it means she's that close to him, or that she's telling the truth...right?

2007-07-13 05:03:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ingenua...or something like it 3 in Singles & Dating

Whcih would you rather be, wealthy with basically no family( siblings, cousin's uncles etc like myself. You get everything you want, or average kid with siblings and extended family members

2007-07-13 05:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So often in this forum, there is all the divorce talk. My marriage is great, we have our moments, but things are wonderful. We have three wonderful children together and in October we will celebrate 11 years married. I have yet to find a woman who could possibly come close to be a better match for me. My wife is my best friend, the best lover, my greatest supporter, the best mother and the best person I have ever known. I have posted this question a while back, but I love to hear the good side of marriage since there is so much negativity on this forum. Tell me your good marriage stories.

2007-07-13 04:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by YouWishYouWereMe 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My niece is 13 years old. Since it's difficult to find babysitters, she was elected by the family to become one.

My niece was babysitting 4 children (age 8 and below, her cousins) The children are really good kids - independent and tends to play with each other. All that is necessary for them is to make sure they don't get any cuts and bruises, and feed them, nothing troublesome.

Well, she decides to take the bus over to my house, bring her 12 year old friend (and the child she was babysitting), drop them off, and go watch a movie with her friend.

Luckily, it was my day off, and I managed to notice these 5 kids running around my house.

This is outrageous! How do I get it into her mind how dangerous that was?! What can I do? Is there any way I can get law enforcement or some place that can talk to her?

2007-07-13 04:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by Joey T 3 in Family

2007-07-13 04:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by La Princesa 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I are going through a divorce. He left me 2 1/2 months ago for another woman who is now pregnant, possibly with his kid. our legal separation will be official on Tuesday. This past Tuesday, he send me a text message talking about how he can't get a job, he's going to go bankrupt, he's going to have a nervous break down, he's more & more depressed every day, that he knows he brought it all on himself, & that he "wakes up every morning feeling like a worthless piece of crap". this came COMPLETELY out of the blue. Then on Wednesday, when I saw him, he acted like nothing at all was wrong. & again yesterday afternoon -- like nothing was wrong. him & i were just talking away as if nothing ever changed. then last night, he called me crying. for 30 minutes he went on about how he's so sorry for ruining our 2 y/o daughter's life & how he wants to go to sleep and never wake up again. i did my best to console him as this makes me think he's suicidal. (see below for more)

2007-07-13 04:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce