He has a an ex girl that keeps calling and txting...and now there's this girl who has surfaced saying he's tryed to get with her...she has my number too and has been sending me threatening txt's (to him too). Should I just end things with him to spare myself the suffering if I let it go any further? (we've been together officially for a month, but I knew him since 7th grade) I've already had guys play me, so I really dont want to suffer like this anymore...please advise me on what you would do, or think I should do? Oh, and those psycho b*tches are threatening my life...talking bout they're gonna hurt me an kill me...and blah blah blah. I'm sooo confused because what I'm wondering most of all is how the hell did that girl get my number?....for real, like how?...the only way I come up with is that she's seen his phone and has actually looked into it...so it means she's that close to him, or that she's telling the truth...right?
2007-07-13 05:03:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ingenua...or something like it 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're both 20, and those girls are like 17 and 19.
2007-07-13 05:04:26 · update #1
Looks like I wasn't the only one with good advice.... =X!!!
2007-07-13 07:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Papi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're right. The only way that she could've gotten your number is if she went through his phone...so they've seen each other...behind your back, if you knew you wouldn't be wondering how she got your number in the first place. So there's point one. (He hides things from you). What she says about him and her--don't take too serious, but either way, he's not being loyal. You've been hurt before and you don't want to through it again, point two (don't let this one hurt you). Get out of it while you can. I had this crush on a guy since 4 grade...moved from school, never saw him again. My sophomore year I saw him and we hooked up. Broke up with me two weeks later with stupid excuse..."It's not you, it's me, I'm not ready for a committment..." and that was the end of it. Consider the fact that they threatened you...shouldn't be around this situation if you don't want to be in it and if there are others telling you to mind it. Don't be a mat to this guy and set your $ h i t straight with him. You don't even have to explain why you think things won't work out.
Oh. and if he's letting her access his phone and take your phone number, he has no respect regarding your privacy or opinion. Find a man that can handle a real woman. Good luck with this and change your number--it won't stop.
2007-07-13 12:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really end this now. It is very clear he is cheating on you with other woman. The best way to handle this is to confront him and tell him what you know about the woman and how they threaten you. This is the only way you will get all that stuff off your back. If you continue with this it might get worse and those woman can really do something to you. This is the best way to do it, and another thing you might want to do is change your number so you won't get threatened anymore.
2007-07-13 12:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
It's time to severe ties with the guy. It seems like he doesn't know what he wants either, (If this is the same guy from before.)
I see a bunch of head aches in the future with this relationship. If you think it'll work out then make sure you go in wearing strong armor before going to battle. It sounds like it will be a long battle.
Being in a relationship shouldn't be that hard. It should be fun easy, and full of heart. If its not there, then dont bother with it. take the easy way out on this one.
Miss ya! see you later.
2007-07-13 15:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many good men out there and you usually find them when you're not even looking for them....This man is not geared for a one-woman relationship yet, and if that's what you're after, disassociate yourself from him. Also, it doesn't appear that he is hooking up with the right kind of people to be going in a positive direction, either--threats??? Come on, no class there.
You're better than that! Prove it, and dump him.
2007-07-13 12:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. Too much drama around this guy! And I agree with you, this girl has obviously been close enough to him to get your number off his phone. Find yourself a real man.
2007-07-13 12:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short!!!! You can get a better man! It takes time but you will find him. You should not deal with that girl talking to you like that! Just get away from both of them and move on! Good luck!!!!!
2007-07-13 12:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by *Mrs.Shaw* TTC since May 16, 2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Goodbye! And leave him. No man is worth what he 's putting you through. That comes from a man.
2007-07-13 12:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by George P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him sleep with the 17 year old and then call the cops
2007-07-13 12:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time to get out of Dodge*... Its not worth staying around this guy*...
2007-07-13 12:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋