i've a friend...she has this heart disease but she went for surgery when she was a little kid..but now,she said,she can taste some blood in her mouth and she said she can even feel something in her oesophagus..i asked her wether she told her parents or not,and she said no and she said she want to die..i really dont want to lose her..i asked her to promise me to tell her parents bout this and she said yes but with a bad-mood looking on her face..im scared she just wont tell her parents or neither any of her family..tell me what should i do...i said to my other friend that i'm gonna call her family if she still doesnt tell her parents bout this,but i know this will make her angry at me...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2007-07-13 05:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by musicLOVER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what is right, not what is easy.
2007-07-13 05:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by bongernet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend is she has told her parents, then tell her that you are going to tell them. She might get mad at you, but you could be saving her life. It might not be about her heart, it could be something that would leave her in really bad shape and not kill her. I don't think she would want to live her whole life like that and you would feel guilty that you didn't make sure she was taken care of.
2007-07-13 05:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell your friends parents what's happening. She may be mad at you at first, but you could be saving her life. You know it's the right thing to do and eventually, she will not only Thank you for it, but also be incredibly grateful for it. If she really means as much to you as you say she does, then you should be a good friend tell her parents.
2007-07-13 05:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Missy Jean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O dear. I am very sorry you are going through this. That has to be the hardest thing you have had to decide on what to do. I understand that you do not want to lose her, but you have to understand she has been dealing with this problem since she was a child. It has taken a huge toll on her. She probably is not thinking rationally right now. The best thing you can do is sit down and have a meaningfull convo with her.
2007-07-13 05:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You neglected to mention her age, but, if she is truly adamant about not wanting her parents to know, it might be best to remain silent. I'm sure if her parents are watching her, they might be aware of the difference in her. I'd wait a little longer, then, if I was really convinced she wasn't going to come forth with these symptoms, I'd risk losing her friendship and tell her parents to hopefully save her life.
2007-07-13 05:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. I think I would rather possibly save someones life than worry about if they are mad at me. You'll know you did the right thing and she'll thank you later on in life.
2007-07-13 05:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is gonna be hard to do...but you gotta tell someone.A family member or a close friend.They can help keep it anonymous.They can schedule an appointment with the doctor,and then the doctor can help out.
2007-07-13 05:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care so much for your friend you will tell her family. Would you rather lose her or have her mad at you? One day she will thank you for it, even though it may take time for her to realize that you did it because you care about her.
2007-07-13 05:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Villa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tricky one but i have to say i would tell her family. This sounds serious you sound like a really good friend and I'm sure she would understand your reasons. When it comes to someones health its always important to get the right people involved! good luck
2007-07-13 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to lose a friendship than to lose a friend to death. if u don't tell her parents and get her some help, you will feel guilty for as long as u live. because u could've prevented her planed death and trust me that's worst than losing a friendship. something is wrong other than her health. get her some help before its too late.
2007-07-15 11:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her parents. If it will save her isnt that what matters? Plus even if she wants to die she won't unless God allows it.
Call her parents asap. She may be mad but when she is an adult she will thank you.
2007-07-13 05:23:40 · answer #11 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋