because it really does! it makes me feel so gross about it i kind of dont want to touch him. what kind of woman has xxx with a 17 yr old? what kind of 17 yr old has xxx with a 35yr old woman mother of 2? it seems so sick to me - am i overreacting?
2007-07-13 05:05:54 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.... She might have taught him something
2007-07-13 05:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are overreacting. Every high school boys wants to brag about being with an older woman. Women can be hot at any age look at Angelina Jolie (32) Nicole Kidman (40) Demi Moore (44) Trust me the kids were the last thing on his mind. I do however think it was very wrong of the 35 yr old. Don't think about his past think about your future.
2007-07-13 05:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you are not over reacting, but its natural for a 17 year old to want to have sex with ANYTHING, including a 35 year old woman. Its also natural for a 35 year old woman to want to have sex with a younger man. Woman reach a sexual peak at around 30-35 the same as a teenage boy going into adulthood. You just need to look past your narrow minded taboos and accept your boyfriend for who he is and not what hes done in the past, especially at the age of 17.
2007-07-13 05:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by malachi_1616 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think a 35 year old might be taking advantage of the 17 yr. old (so I wouldn't like to be with someone like that), but if he's really okay with it I don't think it would bother me any more than if he had sex with someone else. At least he wasn't having xxx with a 14 yr. old .... that's just wrong.
2007-07-13 05:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Dreams♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more sick on her part than him! For a 17yr old boy that is the jackpot! That's so awesome! I'm assuming she was attractive though!?!? If not than it's kinda gross. If my gf had to know about every skank I've banged she would be grossed out too! I even get grossed out when I think upon it too long! :) yikes!
It may be unpleasant but it's in the past now. Time will make you not care eventually!
2007-07-13 05:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much more gross is the 35 yr old who wants to sleep w/ a 17 yr old! Ew! You can't judge him on soley that alone. It sounds like he's not 17 anymore? it's a past mistake that can be forgiven...it doesn't define who he is.
17 yr old boys have soooo many hormone issues....at that time, especially, older women are "hot" (see music video "Stacy's Mom") or something, and she could've been a sicko who came onto him. Or, quite honestly, he could be lying through his teeth....seen that too.
2007-07-13 05:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he find any of your prior activity "gross?"
The news is filled with with age miss-matched couples - Kutcher and Demi Moore?
I rasther suspect that you feel threatened by a more experienced woman. A young man's fantacy is having sex with a sexy teacher. You ever get buzzed by someone like Sean Conery, or Brad Pitt?
It's hard to do, but prior experiences are best forgotton. I am somewhat wondering why he even told you - that may be a deal-breaker, but not that he did it. Why did he tell you that? Maybe because he wanted to be honest?
Ron.
2007-07-13 05:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really alot of guys expericance this thing when they are younger where they are attrached to older woman and alot of times things do happen! It's called a MILF. same thing happend to my guy! I do know where you are coming from about what kind of woman would have sex w/ a kid, but there are some freaks out there!!!
I would just drop it, it was in his past and he has moved on you should feel lucky he even told you about it. If you worried about all the things in the past then you will never be able to have a future. I would recommend him getting tested before having sex w/ him yourself it's always safe to know your partners past offer to go have it done togther let him know it's important to you!!
Good luck.
2007-07-13 05:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by We're Engaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, what precisely is creepy approximately it? Are you in addition to mght 17? Cuz in case you have been, that is creepy. specific, i understand you're actually not 17. needless to say. besides, that's a very offensive question, and that i'm not truthfully indignant. besides the indisputable fact that, i'm 35. So there.
2016-09-29 22:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by geissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he now? I once met a guy that wanted to introduce me to his son, who was 18 years old. He had met my children, and we were planing an outing together. (We had been going out for 3 months to the beach fishing, to a few movies, and for long walks. I never asked him his age.)
When I went over to meet his son, I also met his son's mother.
She was almost 60 years old!! Okay I was only 36, so I asked them how old he was, the reply 33 years old. He had gotten a 40 year old woman pregnant on his fifteenth birthday!! Yikes!! I really overreacted !!
2007-07-13 05:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by V B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, why is this guy your boyfriend? A lot of young men have fantasies about sex with an older woman and a lot of women have fantasies about sex with a younger man. As one who as gone past that stage I can tell you that mothers in their mid 30s are among the sexiest women on earth! I'll bet you will be too when you get there.
2007-07-13 05:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋