my bf and i hav bin tgether for 6mos.evn fr that short tym, we had shared lots of good memories tgether nd i hav felt his love for me. wen we wer stil tgether, i treated him lyk my husband and took care of him wyl her mom can't because of work abroad. we didn't hav prblems tgether.wen sudenly, he told me he can't go on.i didn't knw the rison. he juz told me he wants tym for himself.i didn't see third party bt i can see that he has bin so attached to his boy- friend. and he has bin drinking too much with his friends lately. we're in same school and he still treats me lyk his girl. he asks me out, treats me snacks, and do some of the things we used to do tgether.it's bin 2wiks since he broke up with me. last night he sent a msg on my mobile fone that he loves me so much bt it's hard for him to go back to me. i'm so confused.and i'm really hurt of wat's happening . i'm so empty.i don't know what to do.
2007-07-13 05:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It might be a good idea to take some REAL time off from this guy. No going out.......no snacks......let his calls go to voicemail.
Time for himself? Let him have it! ;-)
Take some time for YOURself....to clear your head, and to watch what happens. Spend time with your friends, or on your own hobbies, etc. With time away, your feelings for him will become clearer one way or the other.
The drinking really is a concern. **Beware.**
2007-07-21 00:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by mvm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in this exact situation just a few months ago. She broke up with me, after 4 months because she claimed she couldn't get over the age difference and didn't think she was being a good girlfriend. I never gave up on her. I persisted I always told her I loved her and remained her best friend. We never really ended, were were off and on during that time and finally after almost three months she came back around. She's better than ever now in most ways, so I say if he's worth it, don't let him slip away.
I loved her. It's that simple. She consumed my every thought and movement, I needed her and was not whole without her, this made her worth my while and wait.
Unfortunately it seems some things are harder to reconstruct after the foundation has been altered. Getting BACK together is very hard work. You have to get through struggles of anger, resentment, and pain. You have to be very strong, and very patient. Nothings impossible, but you should pay attention to be sure that it's worth it.
Hang in there. You'll make it.
2007-07-13 12:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chad B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me like he is playing mind games. Treat him like it doesn't matter that you are not together, Don't always agree to do everything that he wants to do. Make him work for you. If you make it to easy he might lose interest and look else where. Really if he truely loves you he wouldn't treat you in this manner.
2007-07-13 12:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Glenda R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has developed a drinking habit and has other bad habits all of the sudden, he must have some "issue" which he is trying to avoid?
i can't think of another reason.
ask yourself if you need or want to be involved with someone who is unkind to HIMSELF...
take care
2007-07-13 12:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please write your question using full words and sentences. I gave up trying to understand what you wrote after the first sentence. Freaky shorthand words are only semi-appropriate for text messages over a phone.
2007-07-13 12:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends
2007-07-13 12:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jay V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF, learn to type if you really want help.
2007-07-13 12:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by malachi_1616 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋