I love My BEstfriend More Than Myself,But iam scared to tell!!
2007-07-13 05:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by lourenz101091 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love My BEstfriend More Than Myself,But iam scared to tell!! HEr!!!!
2007-07-13 15:05:04 · update #1
Well, first of all, these feelings are not always mutual. the friend may want to remain just that---a friend. There is also the discomfort that occurs when the other person knows you feel "differently." Oftentimes he or she feels guilty or maybe even threatened. Whatever it is that the other is feeling, it can become very complicated.
Once again, honesty is always the best policy. Even if it seems like being honest will mess things up, possibly even destroy a perfectly good friendship, it is always best way to go. In the long run, you won't regret it.
I know of many times when friends have become girlfriend and boyfriend, and everyone ended up happy. But, even when the relationship thing doesn't work out, with honesty, the friendship can survive and even become stronger.
So, if you like your friend as more than a friend, hang in there. Don't ever give up hope. Things will work out...one way or another.
ravishingV
2007-07-20 08:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you can start by telling her that you love having her as a friend and then go by you want to be more than friends. But first maybe you should talk to her friends and see if she likes you too. If her friends say yes then you can ask her if they say no, then still give it a shot, you will never know. When you tell your friend, do it somewhere nice where you are alone. When you tell her look straight at her don't be looking somewhere else cause then she will know somethings up. You just say you love having her as a friend but you want to be more than that. Then you wait and see what she has to tell you. If she say yes then great, if no then say well that's OK i understand.. then say we can still be friends though right then she will answer you yes. After that leave it like that, you just have to wait until she has feelings for you. But don't ever give up on her cause one day she will come around.
2007-07-13 05:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loving someone more than yourself will not make a healthy relationship maybe you need to take a few steps back and focus on yourself a little more before you consider telling her. It's ok to love someone but the kind of love you have ends in obsession.
2007-07-19 14:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT tell her. Just go with the flow and make really small moves that may be mistaken as just being a good friend, a lot of them! she will get the point and if she starts doing them back then come out and say it. if not then just leave it how it is and save the awkardness and your friendship.
2007-07-19 15:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shud tell her. Not telling her is like cheating her as a friend and keeping an impure relationship. Better tell her if she is not ready then just be a best friend. And being a best friend u shud b able to tell her everything.
2007-07-13 05:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I withdraw my original answer, since you have misrepresented yourself.
You should ask under a different catagory, since your interest is in someone of the same gender, and I have no advice to offer to you that you would like.
071307 11:50
2007-07-13 05:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you can't only tell her, but you can show her by doing the things she likes most and showing how much you appreciate her.
2007-07-13 05:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um Thats my problem too. And how I get threw it is I call them and say what i want to say or right them a note and mail it or i give them a email about it! I tell you something its alot easier to right to them then to tell them in person!
2007-07-13 05:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you are having feelings for her that you can't ignore any longer. She probably feels the same way.
2007-07-18 17:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by jbug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww bless your soul. There is no need to tell him/her. Just remember actions speak louder....
2007-07-13 05:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by joulsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋