Family & Relationships - 24 June 2007

2007-06-24 12:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Go down on me? We've been married for 3 yrs now and he won't do it. I go down on him. He said he tried it once when he was a teenager (about 10 yrs ago) and didn't like it. Any suggestions?

2007-06-24 12:24:06 · 27 answers · asked by lippy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have been married for 15 years, and I've always seen them fight (Verbally, not abusively) and it always seemed like they had a strained marriage. My mom would always yell at my Dad for somthing he did, and I used to think she'd just over react to everything, but as I've gotten older I've found out some pretty sick things. He was married before, he had a drug problem, he looks at porn behind my moms back, etc. And this was shocking because we are like an example of a perfect family. So recently, my mom found porn on our family PC. Now my mom is dicussing divorce. Now theres basically a battle between my moms side of the family and my Dad's side, and of course, now I view my dad as a total creep. I told my mom it would be better for me and my brother (whos 11) if they stayed together till were out of the house. Now I'm starting to doubt that, and I'm uncovering even more lies. Do I tell my mom to leave him? This would be financially horrible to us. What do I do?

2007-06-24 11:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are many fathers out there who are worthless..but why are the ones who do pay thier child supoort an do vist thier kids an DO stay a part of the childs life still considered deadbeats.I witnessed a father who loves his child an pays his support being told by the child support division that if he would step up as a father he wouldnt be paying child support?..how are these good fathers deadbeats?

2007-06-24 11:52:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

body will take to decompose, I know I'm not the perfect b/f but should I be scared?

2007-06-24 11:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by Russ 3 in Singles & Dating

They are a few things that am told of him that his:-
1, chinese
2, he is from the U.S
3, he was working in a bank
4, he met my mum in Uganda
5, they went out briefly
6, and that his name is Choi Chang Ching, however am not sure of the combination ofthe names but i know those are his three names.

2007-06-24 11:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by choi 2 in Family

I always seem to have problems when it comes to making friends with the same gender. I just encounter lots of jealousy and bitchiness, and backstabbing. Are girls difficult to make friends with. I sthere anybody who doesnt have any girl mates or chooses to not make friends with girls???

2007-06-24 11:46:05 · 31 answers · asked by sarah 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 11:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lets say your real popular with the ladies, good lookin guy, popular, awesome car, a bunch of girls want ya, you end fallin for an ugly girl, unpopular, you have a good heart so your not really shallow , you fall for this ugly girl then she turns you down and laughs at you, you have a bunch of women throwin themselves at you all the time but the ugly girl turned you down, how'd that happen? How could she not be grateful?

2007-06-24 11:40:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I got back from church today with a few questions regarding the homily of the priest... he stated that all humans are born pure hearted and without the blemish of a sin -- that is, when a baby is born he/she has no sin... yet. However, I am confused since I read in the Bible that sin have been sinced transgressed down from generations to generations since the days of Adam & Eve. Can someone please explain this?

2007-06-24 11:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by ♣ ♦ ♥ ♠ 3 in Friends

2007-06-24 11:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I 'm Katie,38 yrw old and my bf is 27.At first,he thought i was 26-27 as i look very young but after i month of dating i told him my age.He was shocked and very disappointed(he even checked my ID)and,first, he asked me to break up.Later,he said he was confused but he didn't want to lose me.Before,he presented me to his friends,his family knew about me,we spent 2 much together and we match mentally and sexually.It's been a week since he learnt about my age and,although,we continue together,he's somehow distant.He says that he found out sby to match in every way but this age gap is big issue and he can't see this ending to a marriage.I spent this weekend in his house ,mostly, to find out how things are going now.He has changed a little bc of this,as he said.All these days,he keeps saying that 1 day we'll break up for sure bc of the age gap.I don't know if i have to give him sometime to realise what he wants or to stop seeing him.

2007-06-24 11:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Omg I was at my friend's house and we acidently called 911 but we meant to call my friends # which is ***-911*. The police tracked my friends house and asked me for my name, dob, where i live and they asked the same for her step-dad. Will I get a fine for this or get a criminal record? What's gunna happen?!!?! We told them we didn't mean too and they know that...but I'm still ultimatly worried...

2007-06-24 11:25:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

High School Juniors & Seniors- What attracts you to college sophomores & juniors?
why are you so interested in older women? is it the taboo, the sexual confidence women get when they're older or...what? honest answers please. thanks! :) when i say attracted, i mean like bf/gf, dating seriously/casually not just for hookups though

2007-06-24 11:21:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The question is list any gifts you have made without the consent of your spouse in the past 24 months. I gave money gift to my nieces and nephews. Should I list it? What's the advantage of listing it or not listing it. How would that help or not help my divorce?

2007-06-24 11:20:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you find it hard or easy to forgive people that have hurt you, family or friends...
and why?

2007-06-24 11:19:06 · 13 answers · asked by Angelbaby7 6 in Family

When I look back on my marriage, I was never able to adjust to my mother-in-law. I wonder if this relationship is ever smooth.

I remember one incident. We had gone to my my In-laws to discuss planning my daughter's 9th birthday party. My ex-husband was talking to his father.

I was sitting quietly. My mother-in-law came up to me and said "Can you talk, maam?" Then, my ex-husband joined in and said this is the problem with me - I never communicate.

They ganged up on me and so I got upset and left their apartment. I wanted to take my daughter with me and my mother-in-law said "No, she is going to stay here."

My father-in-law was nice and he came downstairs from their apartment with me and showed me the Serenity Prayer which was on the wall.

I wonder what I could have done to make the relationship smoother.

Now, my mother-in-law wants me to get back together with her son. I think that she is worried about his life and wants to see it stabilized.

2007-06-24 11:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

2007-06-24 11:15:51 · 54 answers · asked by simon_cowell17 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this weird? I'm over 21, under 25... so I'm still fairly young, but most people I know have settled with a GF. I've done the opposite: I had girlfriends since I was 9 years old (no I'm not joking it happened), and then I woke up one day and was focused on working like 3 jobs and school. And I don't want anything to do with dates. Well, has anyone been through a period like that or is?

2007-06-24 11:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by Juke Nibi! 4 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if every time you try to show or talk about something that you think is important for you to your brother he always says no?
I feel so bad about that.

2007-06-24 11:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. it is a long story..but just listen. I have this male friend. he is married. BUT i knew him before he got married. we had feelings for eachother..but then we lost touch. wella couple months ago we ran into eachother. i gave him my number..we would talk on the phone. he called me last night bcuz his wife is out of town and he wanted me to come over. I am not trying to be a homewrecker..so please no mean things about that. but i told him i couldnt go over there..he was acting really paranoid bcuz he knew he was doing something wrong. he was like well i will talk to you later.i was like ok. then i sent him this text message "Listen, dont call me. I care about you ALOT. I always have..but I dont want to ruin anything with you and your wife.Im sorry, just dont ever call me again." And as soon as i sent that..he called. I didnt answer it...but he called a second time. so i answered it. he asked me why i was being like that. He cares about me too and that he would call me 2morrow..

2007-06-24 11:12:20 · 28 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The bachelor party is going to be in Atlantic City and I don't drink or gamble and don't think strip clubs are cool, so I would have a terrible time and just waste my money chipping in for everybody else's expenses. I'm in my brother's wedding party despite not being very close with him. He knows that I don't have any other plans that night. He'll probably be offended if I don't go, but I'll be miserable if I do go. How should I go about getting out of it?

2007-06-24 11:06:18 · 19 answers · asked by Mechanical 7 in Weddings

After I found out that my wife was cheating and had posted a profile in several dating websites. I dumped her ASAP and the divorce is well in process. Within a month after the breakup she was already in a serious relationship with yet a different man. My daughter said to me they’ve been going for trips to the casino with this new guy, my daughter and my Ex-wife’s parents. NOW! Is it ethical to have my daughter sleep in the same bed with this guy and my Ex in one bed and her parents in the other bed at a hotel room?
Legally can I stop this behavior, do I have the rights to demand this guy’s background info in the state of Mass for the best interest of my 4 yrs old daughter's safety. Obviously this relationship seem not right?

2007-06-24 10:57:23 · 35 answers · asked by sprinkler747 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if any of you would see your SO as "damage goods" and leave him/her because of it?

2007-06-24 10:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

be honest!

2007-06-24 10:55:54 · 8 answers · asked by tinkie1992 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Only a light hearted question so don't take it to heart, just wondered ?

2007-06-24 10:50:36 · 29 answers · asked by pups 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I felt abandoned and walked the street and no one rescued me. How do i now appologize for some misbehaviors while drunk? Although i may have slammed a couple coupboards while feling emotional i did not expect those family members to completely abandone me in my time of need. I was sick and now it feels that i have to sen myself a get well card and then appologize for being sick. Even the ants on the street pick up their wounded why not humans?

2007-06-24 10:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm divorcing my husband on the grounds of adultery and have 3 kids from him, but all of a sudden, just out of spite he has asked me to do a DNA test which i don't think i should have to considering it was him cheating on me while i was hospitalised for one year wtih post natal depression. He is now saying to do the test to be cruel and because my youngest child has a sickel cell trait, that i made a my husband aware of and made a fuss over and also nither of us have. But this can still skip genrations and i was faithful to my husband. can the law make me do it even if he put in a request and i refuse as he is denying the son who loves him and this is so painful?

2007-06-24 10:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by cleopatra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do wen u find out dat a boy dat u thought was jus playin games really lykes....but da thing is he is movin and u really want him bac....
and he wont talk 2 u cuz u broke his heart....

2007-06-24 10:44:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 10:39:14 · 25 answers · asked by . S 2 in Marriage & Divorce