In a marriage which comes first..Friend or Lover?

Question

Let me explain a little more. thank you all for your answer but whati mean is.....who do you put first.....When your heart is broken because of your lover or when your frustrated becasue of your friend...who comes first ( ie,...the lover and friend are the same person...which comes first?)

Which would you be?

Answer 1

My opinion is ..... listen like a friend would.... and provide comfort & security as a lover could. Thats just how i view it, so a bit of both to balance it all out. :o) Take care and good luck.

Answer 2

You really need both but a friend should come first. that is what holds the relationship together. Lover just adds to it like a bonus.

Answer 3

The friend ! Your lover is only sometimes but your friend should be 24/7.

Answer 4

Friend. Because becoming a lover doesn't last as long as being a friend.

I would be friends before becoming lovers with someone.

Answer 5

Friend! You can't have a solid relationship until you are friends and you can communicate everything with each other.
Friends make good lovers!

Answer 6

in order for a marriage to successfully work you must be friends passion to become a lover comes from friendship

Answer 7

Friend comes first, then he becomes your best friend and sometime later your lover.

Answer 8

Friend and then prenuptial agreement...... protect what you brought into the relationship to be always yours regardless if things should turn out sour later. According to stats..... almost 60 % of marriages fail in the first seven years.

Answer 9

Friend.. the lover is an added bonus.

Answer 10

Friend. No matter how good a relationship you have, the passion will dull and fade, so the friendship is what will keep you together and happy.