2007-06-24 12:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have proof that he lies or do you just believe that he is?
Has he given you reason not to trust him?
What are the lies about?
Without trust, your relationship can not last. You need to talk to him. Communication is key to any relationship.
2007-06-24 12:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he lies to you all the time? Are you sure of this? (Have you got proof that he is in one place when he says he's in another, for example?)
If you don't trust your husband, sorry to say this, but this doesn't look good! A marriage is teamwork, it is constant effort and really trying to make things work for both spouses.
If this has been going on for some time already, and you haven't sat down with him to talk things over, maybe he figures its OK with you for him to act this way.
He should know how you feel, and if you don't trust him then I'd say separate and think things over. Communication and honesty are basic here....You need to know where you stand.
If you feel like you still love each other perhaps you could try counseling...But if things have gotten to this point already I guess it'll be hard to rebuild that trust you lost.
Good luck...
2007-06-24 12:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a loaded question with alot to consider. How are you sure he lies to you? Love em or leave em ? Risk vs reward? Is he worth it? I think if you set your goals in this matter, your answer to what you should do will be clear. Is it to gain satisfaction? Do you want to remain committed? For the kids? Are you just pissed and want him to admit it? Do you know for certain you will achieve peace and happiness one way or another- ie. even if he cleans up his act, will you ever really trust him again? I think once you answer these questions to yourself, you'll know exactly what to do.
2007-06-24 12:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by YeLl_0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you have to be sure that he is lieing to you.Be sneaky and try to catch him in it cause it will never work out if you do not trust him. But i just got out of a relationship like that so I kow how you feel but i caught him and I will never have another man lie yto me i will walk out first. But set him up if you have to and I hope it all works out for you
2007-06-24 12:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In not trusting your husband you are doubting yourself and your love for him. Put the green-eyed monster back in the closet and talk to him.
2007-06-24 12:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with her, if you KNOW he's lying why are you letting it happen?........be upfront and discuss it and if you bot agree get therapy or move on........a compulsive liar is a selfish person who has regard for anyone but themself, you need to stand up and take control of yourself....life is too short not to be happy
2007-06-24 12:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Billy B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get couples counseling to help sort things out.
2007-06-24 13:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Ed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think it over, if he's lying and you know it.. why are you still there? misery loves company
2007-06-24 12:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by shelly v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
open the lines of communications
get therapy
2007-06-24 12:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋