I always seem to have problems when it comes to making friends with the same gender. I just encounter lots of jealousy and bitchiness, and backstabbing. Are girls difficult to make friends with. I sthere anybody who doesnt have any girl mates or chooses to not make friends with girls???
2007-06-24 11:46:05 · 31 answers · asked by sarah 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mates were and still are all male, girls are heinous, I have 3 boys and believe me they are the best.
2007-06-24 11:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by pups 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always found it hard to make friends with girls. I have 3 close female friends and all the rest of my friends are blokes. They are easier to get along with, don't ***** as much and generally just like to have fun. I also find girls, or at least the ones i know, like to cause trouble and spoil a good night out. Blokes just make better mates all round.
2007-06-25 11:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by BigFish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, it's learned behavior, whether it's from friends, family, or the media. So the blame is not all on them. The only blame that can be placed is when they find out that the way they act is hurtful and immature, and they do nothing to change it. A large amount of females I know are very bitchy, so I limit my time with them. I sure if you really want female companionship, you'll find a cool chick eventually. Otherwise, just hang with guys. Males are much easier to deal with if they can respect your body and personal space.
2007-06-24 18:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Faye 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I agree with you girls are most of the time real bitchy and they usually talk ***t behind your back. I also find it hard to make friends with girls. Good luck because there are very few who will actually be awesome to talk and hang out with. I know I still haven't found any.
2007-06-24 18:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Gorda666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls have different methods of competing with each other.
Guys tend to try to prove their own superiority. That's why guys get hurt doing stupid things. They're just trying to do better than the last guy.
Girls tend to try to prove the other girl's inferiority. So they attack the other girl's flaws to make them look bad. Then, by comparison, they look better themselves.
Best you can do is to just not lower yourself to those tactics. Eventually you'll find friends of the same mindset and will have a great time. Don't compromise yourself, in the end you'll be unhappy.
2007-06-24 18:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
hi, i know what you mean and you are right,i tend to get on better with men and always have,cant be doing with bitchiness and backstabbing,no thanks,men are easier to deal with in ways more straight forward,its great to have a few close friends to have a laugh and girlie talk with,but quality rather then quantity right.best of luck
2007-06-24 18:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by starfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find girls bitchy because you subconciously invite them to be bitchy towards you. Maybe they see you as a more contented person - your body language can easily convey that. Or maybe they perceive you as better educated, and therefore a threat.
Bitchy behaviour is essentially a protective device, an invisible shield so to speak, to keep away people who may be perceived as threats to self esteem.
Maybe you do appear a little patronising towards others. Think about this aspect too.
2007-06-24 20:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes I used to have this problem and have more male friends than female friends because of it. I find making friends with fellow tom boys works as treat as ya both have the same thinking level and are on the same wavelength. Don't worry about not having beitchy girls as mates as believe me its their problem and their loss not yours
2007-06-24 19:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is really difficult to make friends with girls if you are also a girl because they tend to become too competitive about everything. A true friend is a rare breed.
2007-06-24 18:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls are competitive. But the ones that do not act phony are usually true friends. Good luck. There are some girls that I do nto choose to associate with cuz they act that way and I cannot stand it.
2007-06-24 18:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by whisper2ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever try making friends with people that are popular they are always the bitchy ones i have my best friend and about 5 other main friends that are all girls are i made friends with them through school.
you will find the right friends dont worry
Sarah x
2007-06-24 18:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋