Go down on me? We've been married for 3 yrs now and he won't do it. I go down on him. He said he tried it once when he was a teenager (about 10 yrs ago) and didn't like it. Any suggestions?
2007-06-24 12:24:06 · 27 answers · asked by lippy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try a garnishment like chocolate or crushed pineapple find his favorite dessert and pile it on. Cherries? Make sure its all clean , make sure HE enjoys the experience.
2007-06-24 12:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of decent answers here.
First, make sure you are very clean.
Second, tell him what to do (preferably in the heat of passion)
Try to paint him the picture during pillow/dirty talk. That can set the expectation of experimentation. Some people are nervous that they'll screw it up, although that would be very difficult. Just tell him no teeth first, lol.
Past that, it may just be something he won't do, or that he'll have to be made jealous to do. Tell him that your friend had it done to her and she couldn't stop talking and how her boyfriend is the "talk of the town" amongst your friends...blah blah blah.
In the end, some people just won't do it. If that is the case, there isn't anything that can be done. Empathize with him as there are some things that you are probably not willing to do for him if he were to ask.
2007-06-26 17:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan_Hood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a guy, but I am bisexual and I have gone down on girls before, so hopefully that counts for something. Anyway, about your problem.
If you really want him to go down on you, but he doesn't because of a past situation where he didn't enjoy it, tell him it won't be the same now because he has more experience with that region of your body, and tastes change over time. It's basically like it's been long enough for his tastes to change completely, but he says he won't do it because of a psychological thing.
Just tell him it won't be the same as the first time...
He might like it this time, he might not. Hopefully it's something you both are willing to chance.
Good luck to ya!
2007-06-24 19:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by xXLadyBladeXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have several ideas, none of which I can type on here. They could be offensive to some, because they are fairly descriptive and very possibly down right dirty.
You could however experiment with food, such as whipped cream, chocolate sauce, strawberry jam, or some other sweet sticky dessert.
There is also not putting out until you get what you want.
2007-06-24 19:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by badmfbri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably had no idea what he was doing ten yrs ago did not get the reaction he was expecting if he will let you tell him how to do it right and see how much you enjoy it (toe curling leg shaking enjoymet) i promise he will like and want to do it more often.put some of his favorite syrup or icecream topping on it(whipcream,cherry,carmel.chocholate syrup)i agree with the others that said if he refuses to go down you refuse to go down on him it has to be a two way street or a noway street plain and simple.
2007-06-24 20:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you have married the wrong person for you.
Stop going down on him. If he can not give you the pleasure you need from him.
What is the point?
A real man that loves his wife will want to do anything to please her in love making.
That goes both ways or The marriage is just a piece of paper.
2007-06-24 19:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by ronkpaws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I wish I knew what to tell you.I am in the same boat but we have only been together for 2 years. But try it like this if you go down on him tell him that you will not do it again unless he at least tries. It is different with everybody. So who knows he may just like it with you. Good luck and if you get a good answer to this question please share it with me.
2007-06-24 19:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor guy doesn't know what he's missing. Going down on a woman is such a fine art and is a HUGE turn-on. Oh well. Some guys just go through life clueless, I guess.
2007-06-24 19:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men do not like hair in that general area. (My hubby does and gets mad when I shave)
Try going for the bald look and wash well and then i advise a
HONEY DRIP!
Start at your bosom and work your way down! Oh, how delicious!
My hubby cannot get enough...of course I like a "Banana split" myself! LOL
2007-06-24 19:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the honest answer is that there is nothing in it for the guy...specially now when he is done impressing you. i am the same way....so i don't blame your husband but at the same time i dont mind doing it...i think instead of trying all the 'gay' stuff like eating strawberries and chocolate...which by the way shouldn't work unless he is gay...........you just gotta take control....thats what my girl friend did and i kinda like that.....one night, after setting the mood....just force yourself on him and make him do it...guaranteed it will work or your money back.
2007-06-25 02:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋