Family & Relationships - 24 June 2007

when ever im out I always attract guys. guys always tell me that im really good looking and I always get asked out.

however, this guy who i really fancy has told me that he thinks im really good looking etc etc but he hasnt asked me out!we only meet up by chance if we are out in town on the same night!this has gone on for over a year now!

we have kissed.

why hasnt he asked me out???

i met this guy through my ex fiance. he knows a ended my past 6 year relationship over a year ago now. is this why he hasnt asked me out???

he used to work with my ex. they were not friends and my ex has moved away.

2007-06-24 21:13:26 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

well i ahve a friend but i really really like him now. and all summer i can't stop thinking about him and i can't sleep because i'm thinking about him... i really think i love him... but im not sure.is it love or am i desperate plz be honest! p.s i can't call him cuz he got a new phone and i didn't ask him 4 the #...

2007-06-24 21:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by SamaraSecurity 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls I want your opinions please - so be very honest.

Look at the guy in the photo in the link below and be very honest and say what you think of his looks.

1) Is he attractive?
2) Is he likely to have a girlfriend?
3) Describe his face.
4) HOW OLD DO YOU THINK HE IS?
5) If this guy came up to you in a night club and started
chatting you up - what would be your reaction?
6) Please ASK YOUR FRIENDS what they all think.
7) What are his chances of getting a date?

Now for this survey - please say where you are from and your age.

Thank you...

http://i198.photobucket.com/albums/aa301/thesurvey2007/ToDaY.jpg

2007-06-24 21:10:34 · 16 answers · asked by thesurvey2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing a man that is going through a divorce. We both have agreed to keep it casual until the stress of the divorce is finalized. I want to be a friend to him first and foremost... and we both agreed that we want things to be mellow and stress free.
I think I have fallen for him and now I find myself kind of sad about it all. That when you finally find a great guy, and you can't tell him how you feel. I have to hold back and be the cool chick that gets to see him every so often. We talk almost everyday on the phone and text. And see each other once in a while... and now I want more. But I have to wait.

Any suggestions on how to make it through this period of the relationship?

He is worth it. He is a kind, sweet, handsome, and all around nice guy. When I first met him I said no way.. he is too nice of a guy and I wasn't that attracted to him. Now that I gave him a chance... I have fallen. I usually date the jerks... so I don't want to loose this one.

2007-06-24 21:10:27 · 4 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 2yrs straight living with eachother. We have sex about 4times a week is that normal or do am I just worrying? Sometimes when he is hard and laying in bed beside me he wont even try to make love says he aches to bad from work. He works 8hrs on concrete floor and we usually stay up till 3am and he gets up at 9am so does 4times a week sound ok? you think he really is to tired its just when we first started dating no matter what time or what he had to do he would attack me but now if its too late or he has worked to long he is to tired.

2007-06-24 21:07:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am white and my husband is black. my father won't stop calling our children "niglets" in public like it's their nickname. what should i do?

2007-06-24 21:02:33 · 15 answers · asked by diddy 1 in Family

How did you know you could trust your b/f or g/f?
How do you let your guard down?

2007-06-24 20:59:06 · 15 answers · asked by wanderin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 20:58:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my current GF on spring break last year.. anyways, she is 16 and i am 19.. I didnt care at the time because i was just trying to get with chicks.. But somehow i got really involved with her, and i feel bad.. =/ i kinda feel like i am taking advantage of her.. I told her, and she said it was rediculus, but i think she is just to young to understand maybe?? Anyways any help would be nice =D

2007-06-24 20:58:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently met a ex girlfriend she was pregnant this made me sad I feel like I could have prevented that, We had a quite a long relationship. I have droped very special women in fear of making a life time mistake. Despite loving them I just feel first things first and sacrifices must be made. I'm only twenty one, A variety of my friends have already been married or have a child. ''every rose has it's thorn'' Should I just let go of these past lovers? any comments much appreciated.

2007-06-24 20:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Doyle 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out that your boyfriend or brother or a close friend was a crossdresser, what would you do? Would you try to distance yourself? Would you want to talk about it or avoid the subject? Would you try to help him or be involved or would you rather pretend you just never found out about it? I know your answers will probably vary but I'd like to hear some opinions. Thanks.

2007-06-24 20:53:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-24 20:51:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've dated a guy for about 2-3 weeks; he seemed rather interested in me (approached me initially and was very enthusiastic). Suddenly he broke off, saying that he was attracted to me, but as time passed, he realized he did not feel physical chemistry between us. I am confused: does he mean he did not find me physically attractive, or something else is the matter?

2007-06-24 20:50:40 · 3 answers · asked by wnd 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends all say i love to flirt. For a while, i had a very serious crush on one of my good friends. now i am going out with a guy, but still find myself atracted to my friend. does that mean i don't like my boyfriend? ah! i need input!

2007-06-24 20:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im crushing on this girl that im really close to. we've been through a lot. but recently, it seems like she doesnt even want to be my friend anymore. i feel like im doing tons of the work just to keep the friendship going. im really confused because she says im her closest guy friend, yet at the same time, she always goes to this other guy who im "rivals" with. She donest know I see him as a rival though . soemtimes it feels like if i didnt exist, it really woulndt matter to her. and lately, it seems like i annoy her very easily so i dont evne talk to her (evne though i try, she just turns it away) can anyone help me get us back on track as friends. i fear im going insane about it and the fact that in 9 days im leaving for europe for an entire 6 weeks gives me this insane fear that when i get back, we wont even be freinds anymore. waht should i do!?!?!?! Im not super interested in dating her, just for those with “love” advice.

2007-06-24 20:43:48 · 6 answers · asked by PiXeL_PuNk001001 4 in Friends

ok so she does her thing with the ex's fine but from the littlest to the biggest im always scared. scared someone will take my one true love away from me? isnt that humane nature? the more u love somethin gor someone the more u fear of losing it.
shes my one and only and ive never did anything to hurt her in any way and i love her and always will.we just got engaged and now its worse.im always on the look out. i find myself watching over her like a child.always concerned who shes talking to or hanging out with she kinda understands how i feel about being so protective.im always in fear that someone will take her away. she loves me more then i love her.i mean she gave alot up for me as i did in return.i know she will never cheat on me but i cant shake the fear and the jealousy. hwat should i do?

2007-06-24 20:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by Spike S 1 in Singles & Dating

HE IS FROM PAKISTAN

2007-06-24 20:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by jenni_ajaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does it really make a difference guys?

2007-06-24 20:35:45 · 26 answers · asked by HB 2 in Singles & Dating

you back and tells you he cant sleep

2007-06-24 20:34:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do if u want a guy to know you're interested in him without telling him. He is like the hottest guy ever he is mixed race and every girl would kill to pash him! He showed me his interested once but i think i played hard to get, i regret it now! they are friends with my brother and i think he is getting less interested! HELP ME

2007-06-24 20:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents are divorced. my mom has severe deppression. she gets mad and yells very easily. but she seems to only get mad @@ me, not my younger sibs. Any advise??

2007-06-24 20:30:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i was in the 8th grade, my girlfriend forced me onto a bed and tried to have sex with me. i did not want to because i knew it would make her pregnant. now i have a distorted view on sex and relationships. can someone please help me? how bad should i (19 year old male) want sex? cuz i dont really want to have sex and i feel like im ridiculous!

2007-06-24 20:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by luke, luke, luke, luke, luke, lu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 20:06:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to walk somewhere quiet... and not even talk... i cannot find one human being to walk with me...

2007-06-24 20:02:07 · 32 answers · asked by simonyx 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-24 20:00:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am stuck living with my mom and dad for awhile, about to graduate college.

My father does multiple things that are annoying.

1. Buys gift certificates for a pizza place on the internet and the pizza is terrible. Nobody in the house lieks it either.

2. Does the worst job ever on the laundry and grilling. He overflows the washing machine and shrinks all my shirts. Even when I tell him how to do the laundry correctly he doesn't listen. I am forced to make sure my laundry does not wind up with his and hide them from him. He also burns everything on the grill, so I am just going to take the grilling duties away from him.

3. Does not help me at all when something goes wrong in life. Impossible to talk to with any problems and will not listen. Only talks about himself and is constantly revealing too much information to people and trying to fix me up with my sisters friends. It creates a very awkward and embarssing scene.

Any tips to deal with my dad?

2007-06-24 19:57:28 · 8 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2 in Family

We are hindu of Andhra Pradesh. My father expired on 3-6-07
without writting will. I am married in 1982. age 44 years woman. we hv properity in Andhra and in mumbai one flat. My mother alive and one elder brother. Mumbai flat in the society documents mother and borther name mention as nominee 50% each. Andhra property one my mother and father's name .
and also fixed deposits. The property is own acquired by my father not fore father's property. In my veiw I hav equal share but I have doubt about Mumbai flat pl. give suggestion how to approach for my right.

2007-06-24 19:56:33 · 4 answers · asked by paddu 1 in Family

Tomorrow i have to make the TOUGHEST decision i will ever make and im only 12.

Either have a dad but live with emotional abuse from my dad and my stepmom

or

Not live with abuse but never see my dad, my stepmom, or my 2 half siblings (2 yr old boy and 3 yr old girl). or any of my other 41 relatives/cousins/family ever again, well if i do get to it will be like really hard. PLEASE HELP ME i really dont want to screw up this decision.. :(

2007-06-24 19:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-24 19:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by Sara H 1 in Friends

Condoms, pills, what is the best if any?

2007-06-24 19:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating