How did you know you could trust your b/f or g/f?
How do you let your guard down?
2007-06-24 20:59:06 · 15 answers · asked by wanderin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, you don't. That questions goes along with all the other "if's" we ask from time to time. Relationship comes with heart ache and broken trust - it's one of the ways to learn. You have to let your guard down in order to let somebody in - thereby giving them some degree of trust.
2007-06-24 21:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a trust problem with my bf a short while ago
if you've just starting seeing each other it may take a while for you to trust them
if they've never cheated i supposse that means that you can trust them
there is no rush really if you feel you can trust them then trust them if you don't ask yourself why and try and see if its just you being paranoid and afraid
if there is a reason then again it may take time if theres not then try and relax and let you're guard down
if youdo get hurt youre not alone, many people let thier guard down and get hurt its part of lifes experience i guess and you'll move on
good luck in you're relationship:)
2007-06-24 21:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by jen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one I'm 28 and I don't know. There's been to many people that I trusted and put my guard down as you said and I just end up hurt.
If you figure it out you can let me know too.
2007-06-24 21:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I could trust my bf/ now husband because he put my needs before his own. When someone will protect you at all cost you know that you can trust them with your life. The point where you let your guard down is when you realise that they care about you more than you can imagine.
2007-06-24 21:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not in a great position to be giving relationship advice seeing as i've been cheated on twice so my answer might be more glass half empty.
you'll know when its time to trust you bf/gf it really depends on how much your willing to "let down" you'll know when its time and when your person is ready to accept everything about you, the good and the bad and everything else and not going to hurt you.
2007-06-24 21:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually you trust people with small things when you don't know them well. You learn to trust people more and with more important things when you get to know them better and you have seen how they behave in a variety of situations, and you have seen how they treat other people in their lives. I think that a person you don't know very well, doesn't really qualify to be your boyfriend or girlfriend.
2007-06-24 21:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hard to say...when u really feel like ur in love and u believe that person will never hurt u thats when u can let ur guard down...Good Luck!!
2007-06-24 21:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by A.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved the fact that your boyfriend is a bad boy you are already hurting yourself.
2007-06-24 21:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by tarquinn j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can happen anytime, people lie more these days better to prepare for the fact it might happen but just keep it in mind
2007-06-24 21:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by andy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER you dont.... what I mean is... Never make someone your everything because when they leave you have nothing.... in other words just be open but on your toes
2007-06-24 21:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by another brick in the wall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋