Family & Relationships - 24 June 2007

My sister and I got into a big fight yesterday. It all started because she left her 2 year old son home alone! at night so she could go out. I come to find out no one was watching him and was very angry. I called her to see where she was and and asked why he was left home alone. She lied and said a friend was supposed to be there babysitting. When I went into her bedroom, i saw pillows arranged to be a body. She came home and still out on the act of her friend supposed to be babysitting and how glad she was that i came home when i did. she asked me not to say anything to anyone until she straigtened things out with her "friend". I decided to tell her father of her baby and she soom found out and said i backstabbed and betrayed her by ratting her out. Am i in the wrong? She certainly thinks so. I only told him in the interest of my nephew's safety. it wasn't like i just decided...oh today i feel like ruining my sister's life. What do you think??

2007-06-24 19:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this question seems silly, but since I've never had a girlfriend I have yet to know what people I always see at the movie theaters and on the side of the streets are saying to one another.
When a guy is leaning into the girls ear...whispering "sweet nothings" into her ear...what pray-tell might it be about? Is it light & romantic or personal? Is there a boundary...

2007-06-24 19:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Stephen J 3 in Singles & Dating

I JUST MET THIS BOY AND HE IS ALREADY TELLING ME HE LOVES ME MY BESTFRIEND IS TELLING ME THAT HE JUST WANT ME 4 MY GOODIES, BUT I WANT 2 REALLY KNOW IF HE LOVES ME.

2007-06-24 19:41:29 · 8 answers · asked by sha pooh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am extremely shy and I don't usually get the girl she gets me is there any way I can reverse this and get in the drivers seat so that I can start making the moves?

2007-06-24 19:26:28 · 5 answers · asked by Kenneth B 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend james is crazy and one day he bit a man on the street for looking at him funny.I know its wrong but Is there any way to tell him that he's crazy without getting bit myself?Also if he does bite me do I have any kind of court case against him?

2007-06-24 19:21:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kenneth B 1 in Friends

I'm head over heels crazy over a particular guy... he's sweet, sensitive, perfect, attractive, everything I could ever want in a guy... And no, I did not just meet him, I've known him for over a year and I have absolutely no doubt that he's THE one.

A couple of minor details, though... I'm Catholic, he's not. He's divorced. These things don't bug me at all, because we respect each other's differences. However, I've had some people tell me that Catholics can't marry non-Catholics within the church... also, there's the little rule about divorced people remarrying becoming adultery/fornication?

I'm sure there must be some way to work around these things, STILL get married in the Catholic church (my family will shun me if I don't) and NOT get excommunicated....

Any help or suggestions greatly appreciated!!!

2007-06-24 19:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by ashleythequestionasker 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a 37 yr old women i am in a bad time my life with the loss of my family and ending a 20 yr marriage 4 yrs ago i so hate being alone and have been dating so many men keep hurting me or wanting one thing so i did the unthinkable i fell for a married man he is 28 so much younger then men we see each other everyday and both admit we are in love i really cant ask him to leave his wife for me he does have two kids and i dont want to be the reason but i cant stop seeing him either it has been better then being alone so im not sure what to do

2007-06-24 19:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by wantedacowboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and my boyfriend we always seeing eachother in the halls and in class while we r in school. now i havnt seen him since graduation adn i really miss him. i saw him last week for a beseball game but he was playing then he left. and i saw him on saturday for a game but he left and it was raining and everything. i really like him and he says he really likes me. i really miss him and he says he really misses me. i have called him and text him and nothing from him and same with our friends. they havnt heard anything eather. should i be freaked?

2007-06-24 19:07:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi there
my brother has a drug problem, and we want to destroy his cell phone and his sim card without him knowing it because we dont want him talking to his shady friends no more, the aim of the game is to get rid of all the numbers.
also we dont want it too look like we have tampered with it. so no permanent physical signs of us tampering with it...
any ideas for both a phone and a sim card?
water can be used, ill just dry it off before he finds it.... any others?

2007-06-24 19:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I recently met a guy that I really like. We've been out together, talk all the time, etc. Things are going wonderfully, but I think things are TOO good. In the past, when i've liked a person as much as I like him, things don't work out, and something happens to where we no longer keep in contact anymore. None of my relationships have really lasted. I can tell this guy likes me too, just by the way he is around me, and the way we are together. My problem is I am very scared things aren't going to work out and that he and I are going to end up like me and all the other guys. So I was just wondering what should I do? Should I talk to him less and stop spending so much time with him? I don't want to hurt him but I also don't want to be hurt either. It sucks to find someone you really like, only to have that fall apart afterwards.

2007-06-24 19:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by Class_Act83 1 in Singles & Dating

Ya, you ladies all say the same thing. You want a good listener; someone who will be there for you; honesty is the best policy. Yaddayadda. Now, what is it that REALLY attracts you to a guy. Is it that hot bod? His eyes? The way he looks at you? The six pack? His shapely bottom? His dimples? The fact that he can cook? The way he treats others? The fact that he can make you laugh? His sense of style? The way he talks to you? The experiences that you share? Things you have in common? His unique talents/qualities? His car and his wallet (his position of power)? His outrageous self confidence? The fact that you have to call him? That he makes YOU chase him? - And is it true you ladies are better at repressing your sexual desires than us guys? How do you do it? I'd really like some insight on all this. Feel free to post personal stories etc. Please specify your preferences in order and use specic examples/details!

2007-06-24 19:02:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband treats my daughter like a girlfriend, gives her money- like $100 if she wants, takes her shopping, lets her get away with lying and staying out late.

He spends little time with me. My husband yells at me and throws fits if I insist on some structure. It wastes a lot of my time and energy.

I remove priviledges if she lies or doesn't stick to the plan- where she's going, when she'll be home.

Then Dad says it's OK. Teen hates me. I love her, I drive her to her social things, school, have sleepovers, bringing her cold drinks, hanging out around the house.

I know she has to be her own be her own self, but I can't get my own work done because of the chaos.

Any tips? Leave them to work it out without me?

2007-06-24 18:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Eve 3 in Family

the person is single and really wants to meet the person but has no reasons why.... why could that be?

2007-06-24 18:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by avocadoadam 4 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and i kinda wish i didn't. i've known him for awhile now and i've liked him for months. we tried dating once but neither one of us had time so we ended it. he says he really likes me and he said he thinks he loves me. i want to believe him and i want to be with him but sometimes he can be so mean to me. he has weird mood swings like one minute we'll be laughing it up having a great time and he'll go off like "your so gay" or "your an emo whore" i asked him not to and everything and he said thats how he gets around girls he likes. it really hurts me thats why i dont want to like him anymore really and i've asked him to stop but he wont. he also tries to make me jealous commenting on other girls. i just idk if he really does like me or if he's just playing with my heart. i've spent so many nights crying over him. i'm 14 and he's 16, i dont see how someone like him could like me either....please anyone please tell me what i should do, or how 2 get over him if i shud

2007-06-24 18:49:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 18:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by topink 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-24 18:35:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I decided to try out the swinging lifestyle. We both were curious. We tried it a couple times. Turns out I really like it and she really hates it. Can't really find a way to comprise....What should we do?

2007-06-24 18:32:57 · 16 answers · asked by Big Easy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had cases of the woman I have been with flirt to much or have cheated. So now I am labeled as the jelous angry guy in my new relationship because I don't allow certain things like night clubs or drinking without me around. So my question is should I just sit around and act like I don't care when she flirts with guy's or hangs around them. Or should I dump her and not be in a commited relationship with a flirty woman. To many times have i seen friends cheated on and them not know it, including myself.

2007-06-24 18:32:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

almost lady like lesbans than man real give hurt of heart life it they lady like easy smoth make good love and sex what ever it

2007-06-24 18:29:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend still keeps in contact from time to time with his 2nd ex's mother and he lets her keep a child he had from his 1st marriage. i dont like it because its annoying how people from the past should go away and they don't. one time it got really bad and the ex-mother-in-law kept calling him multiple times a day, so i called her and asked why and she said it was none of my buisness. keep in mind that he was only married to the 2nd ex for only 1 year.

2007-06-24 18:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by jaynell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22 and I like this girl but I found out that she likes older guys; I'm talking 11-17 years older. She says they are more mature, arn't as focused on sex, etc... So apparently it's going to be hard for me to turn her.
I cannot even begin to fathom why a girl would even consider going out with a guy near the age of her father; it makes completely no sense to me. My range for women is like 18-25.
These older guys must just be after the sex, or something...?
What is with you girls? How can you rather be with such an older guy than one your own age?

2007-06-24 18:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know you cant for no reason but is it possible to be like raped or something during the night and not know and become pregnant from it???

2007-06-24 18:24:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When ever i am talking to women that i find attractive I seem to keep checking them out and keep thinking about having sex with them. I really hate that i do this.. How can i stop and stop thinking this way ?

2007-06-24 18:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-24 18:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe that pregnancy, child birth and babies are very 'icky'. Using the logic of the masses, does that mean that having children is morally wrong?

Let's outlaw children!!

2007-06-24 18:08:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For example I get sooo mad when he bites my nose or face and he just thinks it is funny to make me mad. He doesn't seem to understand that it hurts. Then on top of it he says he has no conscious. So I can't guilt him into stopping, in fact he turns it all around on me and plays his guilty games. I don't play guilt games with him, but I'm sure with a normal person it would be guilt of hurting someone that would make them stop. One day he brought me divorce papers and told me that if I was so unhappy that I could divorce him and have everything. I don't want a divorce I just want him to stop. How do I get him to stop when he doesn't have a conscious and just doesn't get it.

2007-06-24 18:07:28 · 37 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my wife for less than two years and we are 22 and 21 years old. Yes, I know that is pretty young. And, I was wondering how many times per week people have sex who have been married about the same amount of time. For us, it is very rarely because she just doesn't seem to want to....ever. We have sex maybe once every two or three weeks and I initiate it 100% of the time. She is not adventurous, so she absolutely refuses to try new things and she won't tell me what she likes.

For a while, we had sex every day (for about the first three months of our marriage). Then, suddenly, my wife just decided she didn't want to have sex any more and it takes a VERY special occasion or three hours of begging and another hour of listening to her complain before we actually have sex. And the funny thing is, that most of the time, she "enjoys" herself.

I'm basically wondering if a total loss of a sex drive is normal for women this early in marriage.

2007-06-24 18:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by beef6703 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i really need some advice..
This guys ex- girlfriend is one of my good friends too. And he's asked me out on a date but i cant be honest with him because hes to emotional and will cry. What would you do?

2007-06-24 18:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by katiee (: 4 in Singles & Dating

I love him ..I do so much. He went away this week and I miss him terribly I email him everyday. He went out with another girl and I wanted to rip her guts out. He tells me I'm the one that I'm the only one he wants, but yet I broke up with him, I broke his heart. But I still love him and he still wants me, y can't I just be with him. My family doesn't like him and yes I had my reasons but when I miss him so much I can't remember y I broke it off and I don't care I just want him back, but then when I'm around him for along time for like days at a time I remember. Whats wrong with me!

2007-06-24 18:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Singles & Dating

He always teases me and he is very nosy.
He wants to know everything i do on my computer
He is watching type this right now/
He always makes stuff up about me.
He steals my gum and other stuff that i save for my friends.
UGH
He annoys my freinds when they are there.
He always makes sound effects and say random stuff
That doesnt sound annoying but once you here it he does it costantly and it will get stuck in your head.
He is afriad of the dark - which is cute- but the problem is he will not sleep wether he is tired or not- he will come to some one's room and ask if he could sleep with them.
And so he has to sleep in my room. And i dont get privacy.
Is this a typical brother?
Or ishe just weird
He doesnt have any medical problems.
But to be honest, it seems like he has A.D.H.D

2007-06-24 18:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 4 in Family