(For women 20-30) What do women really want from men?

Question

Ya, you ladies all say the same thing. You want a good listener; someone who will be there for you; honesty is the best policy. Yaddayadda. Now, what is it that REALLY attracts you to a guy. Is it that hot bod? His eyes? The way he looks at you? The six pack? His shapely bottom? His dimples? The fact that he can cook? The way he treats others? The fact that he can make you laugh? His sense of style? The way he talks to you? The experiences that you share? Things you have in common? His unique talents/qualities? His car and his wallet (his position of power)? His outrageous self confidence? The fact that you have to call him? That he makes YOU chase him? - And is it true you ladies are better at repressing your sexual desires than us guys? How do you do it? I'd really like some insight on all this. Feel free to post personal stories etc. Please specify your preferences in order and use specic examples/details!

Answer 1

I am 24 and what am looking for is a man who has a good education, a career, not playing any games, takes care of himself (healthy lifestyle), respects me, takes responsibility for his actions and is not afraid of commitment. and he has to be at least as tall as me (I'm 6ft tall).

Answer 2

Well... I have been with my bf for about a year. At first I wasn't attracted to him. It all started with him teaching me how to drive. His car is stick so that was interesting. He was very patient every time I made his car turn off or shake like crazy... lol ... I don't know how but he just won me over. He has a sense of humor.. Always knows how to make me laugh. He can be a big head sometimes but I knock some sense into him and he comes around. He does not smother me and gives me space. Unlike previous relationships where I feel overwhlmed and end up breakin up with the guy...
I love the way he puts his arm around my waist when we walk side by side. I always said I wanted a guy who was taller than I but He is the total opposite. I'm slightly taller than he is but he's a total sweetheart... I like the fact that I can play rough with him and I know I wont hurt him... lol eventhough sometimes I think I do.... lol
He doesn't have a brand new car but that's not important to me... I make more money than he does so it's not about his wallet... He can be a tease... And it irritates me but I guess I kinda like it too... lol He doesn't have a six pack but I love his belly and his booty! lol And I could just get lost in his eyes...
I could go on and on.. lol but in a nut shell thats what I think about him... ;)

Answer 3

Actually it is very true that women really do want a good listener, someone they can depend on and have complete trust in. We would like someone who appreciates our strengths, yet is there to help us feel protected in our weakness. I personally find it very attractive when I see a man treating others (young, old, good looking, not so good looking) with respect and attentiveness. It shows that he is a caring person in general and not just when he's interested in a girl. A sense of humor and a dose of healthy confidence is also very appreciated and helps put me at ease. Of course physical attributes will play a role, but these are different for everyone. For me, a look of sincerity and gentleness in his eyes tells me that he cares for me and makes me want to get to know him better.

Answer 4

this is so EASY. ... it's SECURITY of MONEY and LOOKS, sometimes PERSONALITY. Can the guy support himself and a significant other. That's all women go for these days... money and looks.... it makes me SICK.