ok so she does her thing with the ex's fine but from the littlest to the biggest im always scared. scared someone will take my one true love away from me? isnt that humane nature? the more u love somethin gor someone the more u fear of losing it.
shes my one and only and ive never did anything to hurt her in any way and i love her and always will.we just got engaged and now its worse.im always on the look out. i find myself watching over her like a child.always concerned who shes talking to or hanging out with she kinda understands how i feel about being so protective.im always in fear that someone will take her away. she loves me more then i love her.i mean she gave alot up for me as i did in return.i know she will never cheat on me but i cant shake the fear and the jealousy. hwat should i do?
2007-06-24 20:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by Spike S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your level of self worth is not right and if you don't get a grip you will lose, just not to someone else but to the very person who you want her to be with.
2007-06-24 20:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your either over commited or shes under commited or both, relax, stop being protective of her and if she gets away from you she never was ment for you in the first place, and take any hints along the way that she might be tooling you and drop it if it starts coming to that. Don't get angry, simply become complacant about your relationship if its going downhill and start seeking out those girls who treat you the right way.
2007-06-25 03:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to tellher how you feel, apologize about being overprotective nad insecure, and then back off, tell her to tell you when you are going overboard, listen to her, and back off, if you realy trust her as much as you said then it shouldn't be a problem for you to back off and give her some breathing room.
2007-06-25 03:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u realize that things will get worse if you keep this paranoa up when actually get married.........i dont really think its a trust issue completely...but eventually your going to have trust and believe that she'd never do what you imagine she would.....try thinking of her as yourself...you'd never cheat on her and she trusts and believes that you wouldn't....so do the same for her........................................or try electroshock therapy
2007-06-25 03:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋