I recently met a ex girlfriend she was pregnant this made me sad I feel like I could have prevented that, We had a quite a long relationship. I have droped very special women in fear of making a life time mistake. Despite loving them I just feel first things first and sacrifices must be made. I'm only twenty one, A variety of my friends have already been married or have a child. ''every rose has it's thorn'' Should I just let go of these past lovers? any comments much appreciated.
2007-06-24 20:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Doyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes they were not worth your salt! as the saying goes. Find the one who wants you loves you and wont let you gono matter what even if tom cruise begs them on his knees... a strong resilient woman who dotes on you. Thats the woman you end up marrying
2007-06-24 20:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre 21, but you make yourself seem like you're past your dating prime and in your 50's! Calm down, for christs sake.
I would dare to say that at that age, you have a LOT to learn about relationships still.
People come and go, like everything else. Don't look back on your mistakes because they'll only hurt--just make sure you learn from them, and remember what it feels like to be apart from someone you care for!
The younger you are when you get married/have children, the more likely it is you'll be divorced *very* soon. It should be a once in a lifetime pact, so theres no worry in taking time to make sure its the right person!
2007-06-24 21:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have to let go of our past and move on in life. Problems arise within ourselves if we cannot let go for ourselves. Each day is a new day - experience in life shapes us. If you have nice memories you don't need to forget totally but you have to move on
2007-06-24 21:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by See it as 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard man... i know how you feel
been in a same sorta situation
but yah your gonna have to let them go
your a good person
you cares about others
thats good
but you're moving on... the future ahead of you has so much to offer
you dont need to look back
or have any regrets
if they need help.. offer it but their choices in life (her gettig pregnant) was not your fault
You just gotta choose to live the way you want to
and thats awsome!
Lifes to short to live one day twice sweetie
2007-06-24 21:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by BAnana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn to live the fact that people make mistakes..besides if you would have stayed with ur ex- it might have been ur kid she's carrying
2007-06-24 21:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that may be true but not classic 'Bronx tale' find what works for u
2007-06-24 20:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe
2007-06-24 20:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have loved these women, none of them have been the one for you. When you find the "one" you want to spend your life with, you will never want to let her go.
You are only 21. It takes some men longer to find their love. Just be patient....Go on with making your life the way you want it to be. She will find you when you least expect it.
2007-06-24 21:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman and commit to her...we all go through tough times...it is unavoidable........trying to make things perfect will only lead to suffering.....
2007-06-24 20:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since they are past lovers, no use keeping them.
http://www.yourromanceguide.com/articles/break-up/
2007-06-24 20:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋