when ever im out I always attract guys. guys always tell me that im really good looking and I always get asked out.
however, this guy who i really fancy has told me that he thinks im really good looking etc etc but he hasnt asked me out!we only meet up by chance if we are out in town on the same night!this has gone on for over a year now!
we have kissed.
why hasnt he asked me out???
i met this guy through my ex fiance. he knows a ended my past 6 year relationship over a year ago now. is this why he hasnt asked me out???
he used to work with my ex. they were not friends and my ex has moved away.
2007-06-24 21:13:26 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did ask me out when i was in my past relationship but i turned him down because of my relationship. this was some time ago now. could this be a reason?
2007-06-24 21:14:27 · update #1
you answered your own question....you are going to have to make the first move.
2007-06-24 21:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by El Zacatecas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you he sounds like her is is just playing hard to get... if you really like him then ask him out... you can't always wait around for a guy to do it and there is no harm in a girl asking out a boy once in a while.
Either that or maybe he has found someone else that he likes, doesn;t mean that there is anything wrong with you. Try getting in touh with him and arrange to go out somewhere... somthing he'll like but is a causal thing. chat to him and ask questions, dont seem to needy but most of all be yourself!
2007-06-25 04:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he knows too much about you from your ex. They didn't have to be friends. Guys talk.
Or maybe he's just not attracted to pretty girls long-term. Some guys think a pretty girl is conceited or unfaithful.
Or maybe that kiss was a real turn-off for him. Maybe he prefers a chase, or maybe he thought you were a bad kisser or too experienced a kisser.
Or maybe he's working through some emotional problems.
Or maybe he's bisexual, and he just happens to be more into guys than girls.
Or maybe he's afraid of rejection.
2007-06-25 04:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've got to ask him out for a coffee/drink. Keep it casual. One of you has got to take the bull by the horns.
2007-06-25 04:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jane G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...well don't expect every boy u lyk to ask u out- when the time comes-he will ask u out. And to save trouble for him-you can always ask him out=)
2007-06-25 04:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by CountDownToFriday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out why wait for him to do the chasing get on with it and bite the bullet thats what he may be waiting for you dont know you may miss your chance if you dont
2007-06-25 04:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by dr strangelove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you start flirting with him to get more attention, and see how he responds,or try asking him.
2007-06-25 04:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you turned him down once he won,t ask again you ask him he my give you a chance
2007-06-25 05:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it could be because he is scared of you turning him down again. my suggestoin is that you make the first move. good luck babe!
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2007-06-25 04:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥x.haylz.x♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you are a floozy - why would he ask you out? He knows if he randomly bumps into you he can make out with you and not spend money on dinner.
2007-06-25 04:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋