lets say your real popular with the ladies, good lookin guy, popular, awesome car, a bunch of girls want ya, you end fallin for an ugly girl, unpopular, you have a good heart so your not really shallow , you fall for this ugly girl then she turns you down and laughs at you, you have a bunch of women throwin themselves at you all the time but the ugly girl turned you down, how'd that happen? How could she not be grateful?
2007-06-24 11:40:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she treated me like i was 'the ugly one bothering her'
2007-06-24 11:46:08 · update #1
it isnt a joke, its like the ugly unpopular one is playing the 'joke' on me
2007-06-24 11:50:07 · update #2
no, this person was always on the unnatractive side but i saw through it to the person underneath, what i thought was underneath was crap too
2007-06-24 15:55:31 · update #3
She might be ugly but has a lot of brains, if you know what I mean. She might be the type of person who looks at life and relationships on a totally different perspective. She is smart and knows exactly what she wants in life.
2007-06-24 11:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Belen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you presented yourself to her as you were a gift? Did you make her feel "unworthy" and that you were better because she wasn't as popular and good looking? Sometimes people give off a sense of higher self worth and that can be a turn off. When you say "how could she not be grateful", that makes me think she made the right decision. Try looking at it from her side. Just some advise from a former wallflower.
2007-06-24 11:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetpea4517 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're an arrogant one.
Just because she's ugly you think she should have been "grateful" for your attention. Obviously you're lacking in the personality department. Look at the good qualities you listed for yourself: Good looking, popular, awesome car. No mention of who you are. Are you smart, funny, charming? Probably not. The girls that want you are probably just as superficial as you are, so stick with that.
2007-06-24 11:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably either thought it was a joke, and a lot of ugly/unpopular girls hate good looking/popular guys for some reason. That my observations.
2007-06-24 11:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you think she's ugly, doesn't mean she thinks of herself as ugly. Also, just because you think she's ugly doesn't mean other guys think she's ugly. This good looking guy you're talking about is a little full of himself it sounds like. Maybe she sensed that he really wasn't attracted to her, and obviously he wasn't if he thought she was truly "ugly." I have a feeling she was considered "ugly" when this so-called good looking, popular guy got dumped.
2007-06-24 11:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ida T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING APPARENTLY YOU THINK YOUR GOOD LOOK IN SO SHE TURNED YOU DOWN AND YOU SAY SHE'S UGLY YOU GOT REJECTED HOW DOES IT FEEL DO YOU THINK THE GIRL IS SO STUPID THAT SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON? IF YOU REALLY LIKE THE UGLY GIRL YOU NEED TO PROVE IT WHAT DO YOU MEAN GRATEFUL? HOW CONCEDED MAYBE THAT'S WHAT SHE SAW THINK ABOUT IT THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL FOR YOU
2007-06-24 11:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't grateful because she thinks that it is just a joke. Mean jokes like that get played all the time or maybe she thinks that you will hurt her because you have women after you all the time. Honestly most women don't like men like you because of the fear of getting hurt. I know plenty of girls who will not date popular guys for that reason.
2007-06-24 11:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sees you for who you really are, cocky and overly confident. Don't be so shallow, just because you fell in love with an "ugly" girl doesn't mean you have a good heart. You just realize you can actually fall for someone's great personality. Get over her, and get over yourself!
2007-06-24 11:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anna C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people have no clue...the beautiful ones think they are ugly and the ugly think they are all that
or maybe she felt you looked down on her before, like you were out of her league? and she doesn't believe it's for real
2007-06-24 11:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she thinks the guy is shallow. Maybe you should prove yourself to her? Maybe you just arent her type. Why dont you talk to her about it and become her friend? let her get to know you. Plus, if you really like someone you would think they are pretty even if they arent. Good Luck! : D
2007-06-24 11:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Aman((duh!)) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋