Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

my boyfriend is turning 17, and i have been with him for a very long time and i have no idea what to buy him anymore? any ideas?

2007-06-22 03:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by ericarivera19 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i work with this guy who is a lot older than me I'm 18 and he's 35 i look a lot older and he looks a lot younger I think something will end up happening but if it did it would just be a one of thing is there to much of an age gap...We somtimes work together on a farm and he is one of those rugged good looking types...? i know it is just lust i think its the same for him as well so here are no crossed wires! deep down i know he is to old for me bu i just want him thats not wrong is it???

2007-06-22 03:54:00 · 32 answers · asked by %getupkids% 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 03:51:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well this guy keeps on telling me he has strong feelings for me ,likes me aa fair bit ,what does he mean ?

2007-06-22 03:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to know cuz i don't want to lose it at a young age then i look like a slut!

2007-06-22 03:45:03 · 33 answers · asked by ~ Justine and Lil p forever ~ 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married in 6 weeks. my whole life i've always looked at my boyfriend as though there will never be a permanent fix in my life. i think i must have that ingrained in my head pretty deep cuz with my fiance, i sometimes forget that this is for good. he's the one i;m going to grow old with and it's scary sometimes.
sometimes when we fight, i find myself thinking "that's ok. it's not like he'll be around forever." and i'll catch myself thinking that and it shocks me why i think that still towards a man i'm about to marry.
what's wrong w/ me? am i thinking like this is 'cuz i've had this way of thinking for over 15 years of my dating life? or am i thinking this way is cuz he's not the one for me? but i know i love him more than life itself?
i'm confused???

please, serious answers only

2007-06-22 03:43:46 · 13 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that it only helps the cheater when you tell your spouse you've cheated. It hurts the hell out of them but your conscience is clear i dunno what do u think

2007-06-22 03:40:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK! We are having a hen party at the Brides House (I am chief bridesmaid). However, she is pregnant, so can't drink.

15 hens will be in attendance. We have manicures, pedicures & back/shoulder massages. Tarot readings. Buffet and drinks!!

However, do you have any extra ideas that will make the party go with a bang! Bear in mind - we won't be venturing out, as the bride is 5 months preggers and can't do all that... and there will be no men! Also NO STRIPPER!!

Any ingenious suggestions would be most welcome. Thanks to one and all....

2007-06-22 03:36:07 · 14 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 5 in Weddings

I'm just beginning to plan my wedding and would like to budget wisely and have a fun, memorable time. Any advice on a facet of your wedding that really made your day and/or tips on budjeting well?

2007-06-22 03:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by dally 2 in Weddings

2007-06-22 03:31:38 · 27 answers · asked by froglover 1 in Singles & Dating

As a bride, did you/are you going to change your name? I know it's traditional to take the man's last name, but I love my name and don't want to change it. I love my guy to death, but my name is part of my identity. So, do you think changing your name is a good thing or a bad thing?

2007-06-22 03:31:01 · 29 answers · asked by Natalia 3 in Weddings

2007-06-22 03:30:35 · 25 answers · asked by froglover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's jealous, I can't do anything without practically his approval. He's always accusing me of cheating. Should I flip the script.

2007-06-22 03:27:00 · 21 answers · asked by sOfeDuPwitHheRcRap 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were having a debate. She said when she goes out with her friends it is ok for her to accept drinks from another man. However she feels it is not approriate for me to buy other women drinks when I go out with my friends. I think the two scenarios are similar enough that if one is not appropriate, neither is the other.

2007-06-22 03:26:23 · 20 answers · asked by __Rudii 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Honestly, I see these girls wearing low cut tops, short skirts, or revealing clothes that leave very little to the imagination. Then she'll complain and get mad if I look at the body she's purposely showing. How am I supposed to keep eye contact when she's half naked. Honestly, would a girl who's chatting w/ a naked guy (stranger) be always looking at his eyes and not sneak a peak?

2007-06-22 03:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by Jared 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you get your friend not to lie to you?

2007-06-22 03:25:23 · 11 answers · asked by selenacarroll@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

is it because we did the same mistake again in a different way?

2007-06-22 03:25:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with D for almost 3 years. While we've had our differences we've always resolved them and we are very much in love.
He and his family are rich conservative all american white collar people. He is very sheltered and conservative as well. I dress gothic/emo, I have piercings and tattoos, etc. and I was in the foster system.
Despite how different we are, we love each other more than life itself; we know we're the ones for each other.
His family has been supportive of me but always weary... until they got into my livejournal (now deleted) and saw the communities, music, movies I was into. It scared them.
I explained to them the best I could. His mom hates me and thinks I'm a horrible person and a horrible influence and that I should never see her son again. His dad respects his wishes, but is skeptical. His stepmom is weary.
D stood up for me and his mom pretty much disowned him. What should we do?
How can I earn their trust back?

2007-06-22 03:25:00 · 5 answers · asked by orangeflavoredfairy 2 in Family

I met a dude and we met up onec and talked on the phone he seemed nice and he came over last nite. Before he came over he said he wanted us to have sex and etc i said ok I dont know hy guess was just lonely from my ex etc. So any way he came over and he got upset when i said i had changed my mind he said he didnt like being lied to and left. He then txt saying to delete his numebr to which i replied ok then take care all the best. Part of me thinks i should have said what the hell and had no strings sex and get my ex out my system once and for all part of me thinks i dont know! Do you think i should call him or just be lonely and hung up over the ex?

I dont really meet loads of guys and i am tired of being alone!

2007-06-22 03:24:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 14 turning 15 this year and my dad still doesn't let me go on sleepover,go to friends birthday parties,hand at the mall with friends,i've never even been allow to go trick or treating. He evens still gives me a bedtime at 9:30.Another thing is that my allowance is $10.00 a month. I can't eve afford to buy a shirt.I'm not even allowed to have a boyfriends til i'm 18 in college(and he's still thinking about hanging that to after college.)But still it gets so lonely now cuz all my friends stop inviting me to there parties and stop talking to them because i never get to hang with them afterschool. I tried to explained to HIM HOW IT FEELS BUT HE JUST SAID"FORGET IT" So he went on a buisness trip for the whole summer so i thought that I could get like some type of freedom well its like June 22 and he just call and said that he's be coming back on the 29. My whole family keeps talking about how they miss him. Am i a horrible person for wanting him to stay longer?

2007-06-22 03:18:16 · 48 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Family

2007-06-22 03:15:23 · 10 answers · asked by qwertatious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Our marriage of 6 years has been rocky off and on, but the last couple years the best yet. My husbands makes an excellent living while I gave up my career to care for our baby who is now 2. Six weeks ago he insisted I go back to work so we can better prepare for the future and so the baby can go to daycare and be around other kids. This has caused a major rift. He spends money excessively and I resent I have to go back. I wanted to return to my career in 2-3 years when the baby starts school. We agreed on these family values before we even got married. Now that the rug has been pulled out from under me I'm at a loss...devastated that I return to work in August and will have limited time with my daughter. We fight constantly and have discussed divorce many times. Counseling doesn't seem to be helping. His family values have changed and he admits it. He tells me things change and I need to just deal with it. I'm emotional about leaving the baby and have lost trust in him.

2007-06-22 03:12:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you done it? does it make you feel better or worse? i still love her

2007-06-22 03:11:05 · 37 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 03:10:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aside from out guests, who must we buy dinner for? i.e. officiant, photographer, dj, etc.

2007-06-22 03:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Any suggestions on where to have it?? i was thinking on the beach somewhere.....i have no idea where to start......

2007-06-22 02:54:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

husband stops talking all of a sudden, he will eat the food i cook and drop me at work but won't talk to me.

2007-06-22 02:50:39 · 37 answers · asked by abi darling 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if I have to notify anyone when making my name double barrelled when I marry.

When I say notify anyone, I mean, do I have to tell the registrar marrying us of my intention?

2007-06-22 02:48:28 · 11 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

What the tackiest thing you have ever seen??
My favorite is always the Xbox or video games.... now granted I know they get coupons later for it if no one buys it... so I just laugh about the big screen TV on people registries.... but what has been the worst thing you have seen?

2007-06-22 02:34:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know there's kits out there to buy, but I read many reviews and alot of people say they're a waste of money. I heard you can find everything you need online instead. Is there a site that anyone has found to be helpful? A list of things to change and possibly forms to assist?

2007-06-22 02:32:19 · 9 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings