He's jealous, I can't do anything without practically his approval. He's always accusing me of cheating. Should I flip the script.
2007-06-22 03:27:00 · 21 answers · asked by sOfeDuPwitHheRcRap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes jealousy is a good thing. It lets you know he cares. But if he is taking is jealousy, to a more serious level, and hes trying to control your life..i would sit him down and tell him if he doent stop, it could potentially ruin your relationship. and expain this to him in an informative way, but in a way that tells him you would still like him, you just want a little change. If he doesnt change, then thats up to you..but i would leave him. No realationship can be healthy, and striving, when one is trying to control the other's life. Good luck!
Oh. I didnt understand the flipping the script part..but now i do. That could also be a very helpful thing to do. show him how it feels...and if he takes offense, he will probably realize what he is doing, could be destructive.
2007-06-22 03:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by anna p 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave him. Today's not too soon.
People who need to control others and who can't give the most basic trust are not people you want a relationship with. When it's a family member, you're kind of stuck, but a boyfriend? Try not to whistle on your way out as you approach better times and guys.
2007-06-22 03:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I married my boyfriend who I KNEW was controlling but I loved him. I thought once I married him and showed him he was my one and only, it would get better. It doesn't!! Two years later with a child...I'm leaving him. It's gotten so bad, I can't even shave my legs anymore without telling him WHY I am doing it. Nothing to do with, I'm a female and it's 100 degrees outside, I'd like to wear shorts. Leave him while you still have the strength.
2007-06-22 03:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. People can't be radically changed to be different from what they naturally are. Leave him. If you're the type that doesn't like being controlled, then it will never work out. Leave him. He was born that way and will always be that way. Leave him.
Did I mention 'leave him'? No? Leave him. You can do better.
~ Jon
2007-06-22 03:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave now before you get in to deep. I married one and it took forever to get away and I don't think I'll ever feel safe. Things just got worse not better they won't change unless they truly want to and then it' s a long hard battle for him and you Good luck
2007-06-22 03:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch out alot of times that turns into abuse. Maybe he's cheating and wants to make you feel guilty because he does.
I would back off from him if I were you, before things get crazy.
2007-06-22 03:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by anosey1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he seems unable to grow up then dump him. He will only get worse in his actions and it is downhill from there. You are not a slave, object or possession belonging to him. Men have to be reminded that they are the puppet with strings that you pull and make jump at your slightest whim.
2007-06-22 03:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't flip it just leave it. if he can't trust you it is time to go. there is no way you could ever be happy with someone always accusing you of doing wrong.
2007-06-22 03:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Yes I am here!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is the foundation of any long term relationship. So, since he can't trust you, it won't be a long term relationship =)
Ask yourself what you want? commited relationship or not? and act accordingly
2007-06-22 03:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jared 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he loves u and doesnt want to lose you, maybe he has sacrificed evrything for you...i dont think u should flip it, u can talk 2 him about his over concern
2007-06-22 03:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by badGuy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋