Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

What about raising your children, will they suffer?

2007-06-22 06:59:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

School is over im going into seventh grade in september and I have a friend ( who is a girl) who I like so much. The both of us are friends. But the problem is that she is talking to her other friends more then she is to me. I dont know how to get her to like me more then them. And I cant stop thinking of her in my head . I am just desperate to go back to school so i can talk to her but I have to wait all summer . What should i do?

2007-06-22 06:59:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We recently got onto the subject of threesomes and my girl told me she would love to see me with another women. At first i never said anything as i thought it was some sort of test.
Since then we have disscused it furthur and i have told her i would do it if that is what she wanted. I love my girlfriend so much we have been together for 7 yrs. I have thought about this a lot and would also love to do this (what man would'nt), i know it would not split us up and know we could both handle this.
Has anyone got any advice, tips info? Has anyone done this and what did they/g/f think? How do you arrange this?
She has said i need to arrange this but have no idea!

2007-06-22 06:59:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a really great boyfriend, but lately, he has been really protective of me. Its like he is always watching me. When I talk to other guys he just gives me this look like, "You better stop talking to him." Its almost like he thinks I am his possession. I appreciate the fact that he cares about me so much, but I think this is just going to far. I have already talked to him about but that doesn't seem to do anything. What should I do?!?

2007-06-22 06:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's just something there. But I think somethings bothering her. I don't know if I should tell her right now.

2007-06-22 06:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by killer P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-22 06:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by Dalila 1 in Friends

My boyfriend conviently leaves out a lot of what he is out doing. (Ususally when he is hanging with his ex) When I found out and ask him why he lied, he says "I am not lying, I just didn't tell you". What's your opinion? Is this lying?

2007-06-22 06:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this flirting, especially if earlier in the conversation you told her jokingly you wanted to **** her, bc she said she didn't have many guy friends cuz most guys want to **** her. yes, i know her in person but we live far from each other.

2007-06-22 06:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past two months my now ex boyfriend had been talking more and more to his other ex. she decided that she wanted him to be "dad" to her 3 year old and he excepted. I was completly fine with it untill, they started going places together and it was like my son and I were out of the picture. He was planning to go into business with her and I exploded. It was like we wern't even around any more. I broke up with him and now I feel like I made a mistake, my whole family say's i did. he swore up and down it had nothing to do with her and I just couldn't handle his life style... ugh

2007-06-22 06:56:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be truthfull

2007-06-22 06:56:05 · 2 answers · asked by errrika. 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do some people automatically stereotype on here>? FOr example if a girl that's in her 20s asks about dating older men half her age everyone on here automatically assumes she's just in it for the money.

Or if a girl is wondering why she attracts players and rapists people automatically assume she's a whore, dresses like a skank and wants nothing but attention but most of the time you're wrong??

2007-06-22 06:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Juliet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should I wear/do/say???


=)

2007-06-22 06:54:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 06:54:14 · 16 answers · asked by cheree_1969 1 in Weddings

I have noticed this has happend to at least one person I know In fact 3 or more from different family's I was wondering what are the odds this will happen? Has it happened to someone you know or knew? Also why do most family's remain " Hush Hush" about it? What do you think?

2007-06-22 06:54:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need a sweet guy e-mail me any offers...lol

2007-06-22 06:53:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had a bad breakup and only speak when we're around mutual friends. She's asked me to come to her wedding, then had her best friend ask me, then sent me a voicemail asking me to come. Every time I tell her no. Why does she insist?

I don't approve of her wedding, so I just want to leave it alone, but she keeps asking me. What's her deal?

2007-06-22 06:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Weddings

im 18 and in love with a wonderful guy he is the best and i truly love him i have had alot of boyfriends before but have never had this feeling before he told my friend and asked my mom if we can get engaged after high school,but the problem is my mom wants to immegrate and i dont want to go i want to stay with him he's mom said i can stay with them and he also doesnt want me to go...what sould i do?? stay with my true love or let my mom take me away from him??

2007-06-22 06:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by Kyle's_Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm married to a wonderful man, and he loves me more than life itself. I've never been very physically attracted to him, but I love him a ton otherwise. I met a guy a while ago, and I'm really stuggling with him. He seems like a better guy than my hubbie. I'm a Christian, and I've always been faithful. I definatly want to stay married and I don't want to cheat. How can I control my affections for this other guy. He likes me and I can't avoid seeing him.

2007-06-22 06:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen L 1 in Singles & Dating

Like 20 minutes ago I was talking on my cell on the staircase in my office building...I mentioned to my Friend that Dr. _________ is HOT!! So I blab on for like 3 minutes and then Dr.__________ walks up the stairs to where I am!! With a big smile on his face! He didn't say anything but I was like,"Where did you come from!?" he was like, " I went for my walk" I was sooo embarassed What am I gonna do later when we're the only ones in the office??!!! How can I look at him now that he know's my mind is in the gutter?!!

2007-06-22 06:50:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

games, but mistreat men who are loyal, good to them and respect women. After they mistreat the good man and get treated badly by the doggish ones, they claim all men are no good. Explain that.

I consider my self a good man. Would never have more than one woman on my at one time and I take good care of that woman. But I seem to lose that woman to the dudes who ain't worth s**t. But then they come back around talking about how men are no good and only want one thing.

2007-06-22 06:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by itsjustme 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like one guy from the uni, he's one year older than me, and he's on another faculty. as far as i understood he's a very shy one. we don't know each other. i've noticed him only because i thought he noticed me. he usually tried to be around me, and watches me. especially when we were at the canteen, he sat with his mates silent and watched me. He sometimes feels uncomfortable when he looks at me, coz it's hard for him to look subtle coz of his height. we have one coomon friend, but he only says hi to him, nothing more. and i'm not THAT close with that other guy to ask him to introduce us.
DO U THINK HE LIKES ME?

2007-06-22 06:49:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you find attractive about girls like me?

2007-06-22 06:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by ~Moi~ 2 in Singles & Dating

When you are happy and you know it does your face infact surely show it

2007-06-22 06:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I made up names
Aaron told my friend Kaylee he liked me and he also knew I liked him. And then at a party, he made out with me. But later I also hooked up with someone else because I was drunk. Aaron didn't seem to care about that though since he told me we needed to hang out and asked for my number

Then we made plans but at last minute he lied and said he couldn't go. I know he lied because I asked Kaylee who is friends with Aaron's brother and his brother's girlfriend and she said that he might've lied to cover up something he didn't want to tell me.

She also said that after the party, he told his brother and his brother's gf that he still really liked me. But Kaylee, Aaron's brother and Aaron's brother's gf are all out of town so they haven't talked to Aaron for a few days.

I don't understand why he would say he liked me but then ditch me later. Could he have changed his mind in the past two days? He hasn't talked to me these past days. I want to know if I'm wasting my time

2007-06-22 06:45:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in touch with this person I love, but who isn't reciprocating with feelings but stays in touch with me. I am continuing with my hope. Everytime I even start dating someone half-heartedly, I eventually return to him in the end. Am I living in some fantasy that this means something? Should I really continue pursuing? Not in a psycho way, but in a gentle hands-off way.

I am someone who follows my heart. But I wonder, what if one day I realize, I have used up my entire life just hoping.

2007-06-22 06:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I know this is the wrong section, but it's where I thought I would get the best responses.

What would be a good way to thank a manager for an interview of a job you really wanted?

2007-06-22 06:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

got engaged october of last year. i moved 1000 across the country last year to live with her mom & her temporarily until we got our own place. its been 6 months & unfortunately i have had surgery, missed time from work , & have had to deal with her 2 kids (7 & 4) giving me no respect & they hit me even though i've tried to be there for them. when i tell her of this she blows it off like its nothing. she ever wants to talk to me alone about the other issues we have in our relationship. she has blown her money & is now broke. it seems like its nt important. their father lives in town & never sees them. she wants to get married before we move into our own place. i want to get our own place first & solve our probs before we get married. she's mad about that. deep down inside i feel she just wants me to be a stand in dad & be "just the husband." i thought she wanted to be with me when i decided to move down there. i'm so sad & hurt. what should i do--- leave her or try to work it out?

2007-06-22 06:41:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy on a dating website, and we've been talking for over a month. He lives in Indy but is working in San Francisco right now. Last week an opportunity came up because of an error on his works scheduling that allowed him to fly me out to SF last weekend instead of him coming home here. I thought the weekend went great, but he didn't once make a move....not holding hands, kissing, anything. I stayed at his apt with him. I just assumed he didn't feel a connection and backed off a little by the end of the weekend. On Monday he told me that he had made himself a promise before I got there to not let anything happen as this was our 1st date. He is still calling and IMing me every day, and we have plans for his next weekend home. But I'm confused as to not even a kiss goodbye at the airport? Am I thinking about this way too much?

As a side note, we realized early on that we knew each other when we were kids (like ages 8-14). Things feel okay, but still confused.

2007-06-22 06:39:30 · 6 answers · asked by Scrapper 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 06:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by WALLACE M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I are getting married in less then 5 weeks. When we first started dating we told each other how many people we were with before we got together, he has only been with a handful, where I have been with triple more then him if not a bit more. I am not a slu* or anything, he is just very shy, and I have always been popular and have always had a bf. I was also younger then as well, so I started before him. We have been together for almost 8 years, 2 children later, should I come clean before the wedding or just never say anything. If I say nothing he would never know, but I don't know if I should come clean or not? Please HELP!!!!!!!

2007-06-22 06:39:00 · 14 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Singles & Dating