I am in touch with this person I love, but who isn't reciprocating with feelings but stays in touch with me. I am continuing with my hope. Everytime I even start dating someone half-heartedly, I eventually return to him in the end. Am I living in some fantasy that this means something? Should I really continue pursuing? Not in a psycho way, but in a gentle hands-off way.
I am someone who follows my heart. But I wonder, what if one day I realize, I have used up my entire life just hoping.
2007-06-22 06:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You enjoy the emotional fulfillment of yearning for someone. However, it is obvious this person does not feel romantic towards you or they would reciprocate. You are living in a fantasy in your mind and you get pleasure from the yearning that you do. However, if you want to live in reality, find a real person in the real world who likes you and enjoys being with you. It is safer to pine away for someone who does not want you than to be in a real relationship. Do you want to go through life alone? Or are you afraid of a real relationship? Examine why you want to be in a one-sided self-created relationship.
2007-06-22 07:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Orion777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't feel the same way or at least isn't interested in you, you'll only hurt yourself. You should get out.
Get a new email account, tell everyone the new email except him. Tell him that you have to cut off contact with him because you don't want to hurt anymore than you have to. Have a friend go into all the email accounts that he contacts you in and change the password so you can't get his emails. Delete his number!
I've been down that road, you'll only end up waiting for a long time and your heart will continue to break until there's nothing left.
2007-06-22 13:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by seaelven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you just need to find the right person who will reciprocate. is the other person in a relationship or already taken? or does he really even know you that well? just some stuff to consider.
best of luck.
2007-06-22 14:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by RATM_17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap out of it. Start living your life. He might come back one day and he might not. You can't stop living your life because you have a dream that your prince charming is gonna ride up and swoop you off your feet and make you his queen. You gonna miss out on opportunities that one day you'll regret!
2007-06-22 13:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by tender loving dyke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone truly cares for you they will demonstrate that threw their behavior towards you*.. If you do not see it, it does not exist*.. Love is a two way street*.. If it is only one way it is meaningless and is wasted because it is not being returned*...
2007-06-22 13:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart can lead you astray. Unless you are really enjoying this torture, you will definitely regret it someday. You may need some help getting on a new path.
2007-06-22 13:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by bebop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she is not interested, then they are not interested. Move on, find someone else. Eventually, they may come around, but don't waste your energy on something that probably won't happen.
2007-06-22 13:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ham B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard...but if he doesnt feel love for u...u cant just sit around waiting for him to come to u...just go on with life and if he does come around....take it from there...but u deserve better than a guy that just wants to be friends..but im glad u follow ur heart! never loose hope!
2007-06-22 13:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
2007-06-22 13:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Twilighter♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋