I have a really great boyfriend, but lately, he has been really protective of me. Its like he is always watching me. When I talk to other guys he just gives me this look like, "You better stop talking to him." Its almost like he thinks I am his possession. I appreciate the fact that he cares about me so much, but I think this is just going to far. I have already talked to him about but that doesn't seem to do anything. What should I do?!?
2007-06-22 06:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've voiced your concerns, and he has no reason not to trust you, and his possessive actions have reached the point where they are disruptive to your relationship...then I say its time for a change. No girl should have to worry about getting in trouble for who she talks to. I had a friend who had an incredibly jealous bf. He tried to control everything she did. Even told her if she pursued bartending, which she really wanted to do, or modeling, which is her dream, he would break up with her, bc he didn't like the idea of her out in the spotlight in front of guys. He put down her choices, but she stayed with him, cuz she thought she could change him. She had never had a bf who didn't fall all over her, and couldn't believe he didn't do the same. Eventually, she realized how unhappy he made her, and that she didn't deserve that treatment. She broke up with him seven or eight times before it stuck. She just thought that if she left he would miss her and change his behavior. Since she realized that would never happen, and left for good, she has meant many nice guys who treat her much better. If this sounds at all like your bf, then say goodbye for good, you deserve better.
2007-06-22 07:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, ewww..when they start getting possesive, thats a clear sign to let them fly...it will only get worse, i have been in that position twice..it only causes more and more heartache in the end.
2007-06-22 14:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by blpc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quick question have you ever thought that he has had that happened to him b4 maybe he is going threw a stage i mean im not saying it's ur fault did you try to talk to him calmly.
2007-06-22 16:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by taylor_lawson10105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl you have to dump up you can't be with a man who tries to control you dump him before it's 2 late.!! hope this helps.!!
2007-06-22 14:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You don't want to end up in a big mess that you'll regret. Good luck!!!=]
2007-06-22 14:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2007-06-22 14:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him....next thing you know he could be trying to murder you cuz he is getting so mad
2007-06-22 14:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up
2007-06-22 14:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bill B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋