We had a bad breakup and only speak when we're around mutual friends. She's asked me to come to her wedding, then had her best friend ask me, then sent me a voicemail asking me to come. Every time I tell her no. Why does she insist?
I don't approve of her wedding, so I just want to leave it alone, but she keeps asking me. What's her deal?
2007-06-22 06:53:13 · 19 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sounds like she is in need of your approval. You should just keep doing what you're doing and let her alone. Even if she insists on you attending, there is no reason to put yourself in any compromising or uncomfortable positions.
2007-06-22 09:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to show you that she's happy and has had a successful love life after. Or she could want to see your reaction - whether you'll be jealous or not that she's found someone new. Just keep telling her no and when the day comes and goes, she'll drop it. If she asks why you're not coming, tell her it's not appropriate and you wouldn't feel comfortable with it.
2007-06-22 16:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring a hot girl to the wedding and go around at the reception saying "look what I got now, I almost ended up with your fugly relative that got married today."
2007-06-22 14:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by dr_tom_cruise_md 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have thought she was doing just to be friendly...but the fact that she insists...i know she is up to no good, make other plans that day, it shouldn't dissapointher long as the groom shows up
2007-06-22 14:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Minx B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either she wants to rub it in your face that she is happy with someone else that does want her forever....or....she truly wants you there because even though you are not together any more, she still cares about you as a person, and wants you to be a part of her special day.
2007-06-22 13:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To remind you how right you are that you are not with her anymore. You should be happy. This is closure that most people crave but don't get. Go to a strip club on that very day.
2007-06-22 14:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Fred 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to throw it in your face and show you what you lost?
She wants to inivite everybody she's ever known?
I couldn't say...just keep telling her no. If you really want to shut her up then say yes and cancel the week before.
2007-06-22 13:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me also. They want to shove it in your face.
Just ignore and tell her friend if she asks again, wish her well
and say your going on vacation with your girlfriend
2007-06-22 15:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kat G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
obviously she doesnt care if your hurting or not, she just cares about herself or maybe she wants to make fun of you, or make you hurt more. she might be thinking that if you come to her wedding, she'll be like(in her mind) "look at me, you could have have me, but not! aint I beautiful?"
2007-06-22 13:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guess she wants some drama at her wedding.
Ignore her.
2007-06-22 14:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋