what does this guy mean and how does he feel?

Question

I made up names
Aaron told my friend Kaylee he liked me and he also knew I liked him. And then at a party, he made out with me. But later I also hooked up with someone else because I was drunk. Aaron didn't seem to care about that though since he told me we needed to hang out and asked for my number

Then we made plans but at last minute he lied and said he couldn't go. I know he lied because I asked Kaylee who is friends with Aaron's brother and his brother's girlfriend and she said that he might've lied to cover up something he didn't want to tell me.

She also said that after the party, he told his brother and his brother's gf that he still really liked me. But Kaylee, Aaron's brother and Aaron's brother's gf are all out of town so they haven't talked to Aaron for a few days.

I don't understand why he would say he liked me but then ditch me later. Could he have changed his mind in the past two days? He hasn't talked to me these past days. I want to know if I'm wasting my time

Answer 1

Let me put it this way. Lets say yes he likes you, yes he'll sleep with you and try for a relationship, lets just give you that. Now understand that he didn't even have the balls to be straight with you outside the relationship, what makes you think he can hold his own within one? Weather he likes you or not, this is a waste of your time.... learn to love yourself a little bit more before you loss your head over the just the possiblilty of someone "maybe" liking you. Do you really think you deserve that? I don't even know you and I can tell you deserve better then that. Until he grows up and stands by what he loves (or like you darn kids and your terms...) he isn't going to be worth more then heart-ache, better yet you time. Learn that the only thing that divides men from boys is a males ability to stand up for what he believes in. So ether he is man that doesn't believe you'll fit the bill, or a little boy who doesn't care or no bettter, ether way leave it be, much better out there.