Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

I went out with a guy and had some fun and now he tells me that he needs some time. what the hell is that suppose to mean?

2007-06-20 05:25:56 · 21 answers · asked by yellowrose_2006_87 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently this guy from school text me, n confess he really likes me. I do not know him personally, just seen him around the campus, i rejected him nicely.

But he kept asking for a chance take me out. Eventually, i agreed, but only as friends. Over the past few weeks we went out 4x, on our last "date" he again tell me how much he likes me, i told him i need a little more time, n he seems fine with that. He text me the same night n say, its not n issue, he is willing to wait.

He still continue to text me the next day, till now i've always replied whenever he contacts me. We were getting on fine. But he stop texting me the past 3 days, only 2 text in total n its no longer sweet n caring its kind of .. indifferent. Didnt hear from him at all yesterday n today.

I'm confused, everything seems fine, we had no arguements or anything like that. What cause the sudden change in attitude? Should i text him first, if so what should i say to him? Should i completely ignore this.

??? :'(

2007-06-20 05:25:14 · 24 answers · asked by Jordaan 5 in Singles & Dating

his name is walter battle he lives in aurora his phone nimber is 1630-201-5113 his wife name is tiresha why is he cheating if he really love her they live in aurora illinois do you know him if you do ask him and tell that ***** *** wife of his she ant ****

2007-06-20 05:23:15 · 6 answers · asked by ieshya b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cake in the closet with her ex.. she told me they were just having a taste test in private... should i tell her I will try to be a better fiancee?

2007-06-20 05:20:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a loving wife, but she has devolped a problem lately and it's arguments and which leads into fight. The worst part is that when we meet a discuss later on, she forgets most of the things, she says that she never said that. All she remember, what i said, but don't remember what she said. I know that she is forgetting for real. Is she depressed ? She is 31 years old

2007-06-20 05:19:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i make girls not feel jealous of me? my best girl friend is extremely jealous of me and always trying to outdo me in the man department always trying to hook up with really cute guys.

my female coworker is always trying to outdress me to the point where we sometimes come to work with VERY similar offits on (i can't do or say anything cuz she is my manager)

i know what i need to do. can someone please relate? thank you

2007-06-20 05:17:49 · 47 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i have tried for about 2 years out our 3yrs of marriage to resolve this problem. she has 3 children from a previous relationship and i accept, provide and care for them all like my own.

2007-06-20 05:17:47 · 41 answers · asked by stunna1roy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my girlfriend told me she has had sex forced on her by her ex boyfriend collectivly for the past 3 years. He's never quite forced her to have sex with her, but made her feel like she's had to once or twice, and countless times fooling around and it's ALWAYS made her feel uncomfortable. This kid is a clepto in my opinion. And her other friend is in the same position, but he is more abusive with her. They each broke up with him a couple years ago, but he still trys stuff with them once and a while. I'm told he's afraid of me, so he won't go after my girlfriend but what he doesn't understand is that ******* with her friend is still a way of f**king with her, and they both know I'm not letting that fly.

They don't have any evidence of what's been done to them, so they're afraid if they say something, nothing will come of it and just make matters worse. I want to kill this kid, and I'm afraid of what'll happen if he EVER touches her again. She told me not to tell..but..I need help

2007-06-20 05:16:00 · 1 answers · asked by j_a_dore 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, my boyfriends older brother and his girlfriend have been dating for almost four years. And they're already talking about marriage. But the thing is, and this might be really awful of me, but I've always wanted to be married first. If they do it first, it seems like mine and my boyfriends wedding won't be as important. I really dont want his brother getting married before we do. It would take away from EVERYTHING I want. I can't stand her, but that's only because his parents worship her. They think she's freaking perfect, and I feel like I'm not good enough in their eyes by comparison. I dont know what to do! I wish they would just break up.

2007-06-20 05:15:55 · 31 answers · asked by bobby w 1 in Weddings

I have been in a relatoinship with my fianance now (in total ) for over a year, until recently, she has had a difficult time controlling her anger and emotions. I was the one who stepped back and made the responsible decision (we are both 26 years old) that we both were not obviously ready for marriage, and that we should think about it more before planning a wedding.

SHe went on a big tirade and even ripped her dress, and screamed and yelled, before grasping numerous kitchen knives (large ones), and pointing them at her chest. I had to forcefully remove them from her, at which point I notified her doctor and parents, she kept telling me over and over that she wanted to die.

I have decided that I am in a really bad situation and am moving out this Friday (without her knowing). I do not simply feel safe in my own home. she has done very little to correct it, and her mother is convinced that she is fine. Am I doing the right thing here?

2007-06-20 05:15:38 · 24 answers · asked by B B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Keyword "Deserve". Do they still deserve it if they can't pay for it?

2007-06-20 05:15:17 · 19 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Weddings

It depends on the restaurant I take my wife, sometimes food is bad, sometimes very bad.

2007-06-20 05:13:41 · 11 answers · asked by alfred pimples 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's driving my poor boyfriend crazy! He is on the verge of leaving me.
We had a big blow-up yesterday and he told me that I'm not the same person I was when we met- that I've become a control freak. I argued with him because, well, I'm always right! Haha just kidding. He made me realize that I AM a control freak in every aspect of my life and I want to change.
My question is, how? Where do I start? I pay so much attention to what he does with his free time, and need to know everything. I get really jealous when he hangs out with his friends. I don't let him clean, do laundry, cook, anything. I thought I did it out of love, but now that I think about it, I do it because I want it to be done right! It's actually caused him to be more lazy and just sit around all the time because he knows I'll get everything done!
I don't know, if anyone has been through this before and has figured it out, I'd really appreciate some help. Help me save my relationship. I know he is THE ONE. Thank you

2007-06-20 05:10:57 · 36 answers · asked by Melissa♡ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Here goes..Me n my LDR (long distance relationship) B/F hav known each other about a 1yr N hav been dating about 6months of it.He's an X-Marine of 8years N just now has started skool agin(which i think is great).Even tho he had told me tat he wasnt lookin 4a relationship at the time, 4months later we start'd datin.Everything has been goin great,but recently the LD has been wearin on me.I miss him horribly,we've seen each other 4x's in 11months N he's been goin to skool the whole time.Once he starts a semester he doesnt have very much time 2talk 2me(which is all we hav,tat N the internet).Im not blamin him or sayin tat its his fault, but we'd hav 2wait at least 4yrs b4 we could B 2gether.N i just met this guy this past weekend tat seems really sweet N Im slightly intrigued by him.So i told my B/F we need'd a break 2figure out wat we're goin 2do about our relationship.I think i did the rite thing,(But did i?)i dont want 2endup cheatin on him.How long should i take this break?What now?

2007-06-20 05:09:40 · 9 answers · asked by la_bluegrrl02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my bf(of one month) keeps saying oh..well. im gonna go hangout at umm.. erin or georgia's house(whatever...these r just random names) and he keeps asking if he can do stuff with them..and saying he's going to...some of my friends say he's a scum bag....but IF he is just joking i dont wanna dump him b/c he is USUALLY a rlly good guy

2007-06-20 05:05:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you did, how long did you stay? Where children involved? Do you still love them?

2007-06-20 05:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by K B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 05:04:46 · 29 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my retainer. I feel awful and I'm really scared to tell my parents right now. I didn't sleep at all last night and I can't eat. I'm just really worried. I know I need to tell them, but I'm afriad of them. I get in trouble over stuff I couldn't control, they always say I'm not responsible enough. I'm never good enough, but that sisn't bug me cause they had no reason to say it. Now they do. They're use this agianst me forever. I just don't know what to do. It's gonna cost me so money to get new ones, and I can't get a job. I'm just so scared right now. I've already went through everything in my room, and cleaned every draw so when my dad tears through it, he won't get mad about the mess, but what else can I do? Please help me.

2007-06-20 05:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy M 2 in Family

just wonderin?

2007-06-20 05:02:35 · 5 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering. I am planning on getting a 2 bed room apartment with my boyfriend & 2 year old. We have been together for a year. We talk about marriage & forever but we aren't trying to rush. We do want our own place though, mainly because we both live with our parents and we can't afford a place by ourselves. Besides we both sleep better when we are together.

2007-06-20 05:02:10 · 18 answers · asked by Ang3l-Uh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i stop my girlfriend from crying about her parents recent devorse? i have tryed almost everything

2007-06-20 05:00:14 · 7 answers · asked by Lewis Central Titan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me. A co-worker corners me at my desk and insists on telling me monotonous accounts of text messages he received from his gf, intimate situations and arguments, asks me to look at countless pictures of her on his cell phone. I have been direct with this person and told him certain things should be private.

I am happy to be a good listener, but after 30 or 45 minutes it is nice t/b able to comment or change to a more neutral subject.

We had a decent friendship, and I was supportive when they first got together. But this is exhausting.

Please give me some constructive critism on how to handle this. Thanks for listening ~

2007-06-20 04:58:40 · 3 answers · asked by yoak 6 in Friends

How do you kindly tell someone that the wig they are wearing looks a terrible mess without being rude or hurting their feelings?

2007-06-20 04:57:45 · 1 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2 in Friends

I am from a very rich family...my parents r spending alot for me...but, i m in love with my mom's cousine...we married secretly..he can live without me and i cant...but, its bit abnormal in society to marry mom's cousine.....i dont want to give such insults to my parents..they dont deserve it...but, i love him a lot and we r already married......am i doing wrong? people will say bed...should i sacrifice our both's life for people?? i m in very mental pressure...plz advicee me....in one side my love, another side my parents's pride..if u were in my place, what would u do?

2007-06-20 04:56:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my mom has a handi-capped son ,he's 28 now. about 2 months ago she moved in to my appartment complex not to far from me. but ever since i got a boyfriend ( which is now my husband) and my drivers licence she wants me to do everything for her i mean i take her to the store... i have to help her do her laundry ....i do EVERYTHING she has no independance what so ever.....well my husband and i both work at walmart overnight 10pm-7am .....well she wants us to go over there and for him to watch my brother and me to drive her to the store even on the days we work!....well we only have 2 days off a week and almost everyone one of our "weekends" we have to go over there and i take her to the store and help with laundry.....well this last weekend i didnt we went to an arcade and played all day one day then the next we kinda just slept and lounged around....well to day i got this call frommy mom telling me how im not reliable and how im such a horrible daughter!...for not taking her anywhere

2007-06-20 04:53:39 · 30 answers · asked by aidanshope 2 in Family

I am 25 yrs of age and my fiance is 19 and we have a one month old. She is from a small town. I just got out of the military. I live in a state where the jobs are scarce. I have exhausted all of my efforts in finding a decent paying job. (Most around here want to pay you $10 an hr). I have told my fiance that I have to start looking out of state for a job. She does not want to move but she says she will if we have to. I come to find out that her mother has been trying to talk her out of marrying me. While I would never force her to do anything, what ever happend to the notion that when you get married you end a life with your parents and begin one with your spouce? What should I do? Is our relationship doomed?

2007-06-20 04:50:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Finally got out of a really baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad relationship and was raped.

I want to hang out with other guys (in a fun get to know you way). I want sex too, but I know it's way too soon for that?

Anyway advice from anyone who has been in my position. How long should I wait to date?

2007-06-20 04:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am short of the required income level so i need to know if that extra income (child support) can be used

2007-06-20 04:48:33 · 4 answers · asked by wyc_pet23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 04:48:21 · 13 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and have been broken up for about 2 years.It was my decision to end things. In that time I met my husband and we were married 3 months ago.I love my husband very much and I am very happy with him. I don't want to be with my ex but sometimes I miss him alot. A lot of times I will have random dreams about my ex and alot of times its about becoming friends again. Sometimes there are dreams where we just hug, and in my dream I am still aware and in love with my husband, but I am also happy to have made ammends with my ex. He pretty much hates me and wont talk to me so how do I get over wanting to make friends with him? I don't know how to forget about him.

2007-06-20 04:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by missmae 1 in Marriage & Divorce