Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

2007-06-20 03:58:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As a guest

2007-06-20 03:57:47 · 49 answers · asked by myson_012001 1 in Weddings

My wedding will be on Dec 22 and I am having a hard time deciding what colors to use (for bridesmaid's dresses, accents, etc.). I do NOT want to use Christmas colors at all...no red or dark green. Are there any other colors that would be good for a winter wedding?

2007-06-20 03:56:48 · 63 answers · asked by Amanda 3 in Weddings

masterbation...???

2007-06-20 03:54:06 · 28 answers · asked by Mee~mOe~ 5 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I are very close. Actually i have fell in love with her. she has a boyfriend, his name is derrick. She loves derrick with all her heart. I make derrick when i talk about him to be the worst guy in the world and he is not. I still don't think that their relationship is in the best intrest for her. I told her how i felt about her and she told me had she not found him first she be happier with me. I'm so confused i don't know what to do. I don't want to loose our friendship but i hate seing them two together. Expecially the way he treats her sometimes. He is not violent but he treats her like a possesion not a person. Somthing that after awhile he gets bored and pisses her off just to have some fun. Please someone help me here cuz i want to hurt him, and save my bestfriend from making a huge mistake.

2007-06-20 03:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and doesnt want to look at other women while in a relationship? its just like every time i see someone with their gf they are checking women out. i mean, why do men do this? i dont think every man does it, but who does not do it?

2007-06-20 03:53:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a really good looking girl - we hung out a couple times. The other day we went back to my place and she spent the night with me.. we didn't want to move too fast so nothing serious really happened. She was sick with a pretty bad cold also..
The next morning I drive her home and head off to work. Since I hardly got any sleep (maybe 2 hours) and the night before I was up all night also - I was out of it and I didn't even ask her how she was feeling..
So the day goes by and around 3pm I talk to her - I ask her how she was feeling - and find out she's no longer interested because I had not asked her how she was feeling SOONER..

So now I look like the guy who wanted to hook up with her for her looks and dont care about her... any advice on getting out of this hole? .. she wants to remain friends but told me she's disappointed with me for not calling sooner or asking how she felt earlier..

2007-06-20 03:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by some guy needing help... 1 in Singles & Dating

My loving girlfriend of almost 4months
is very much in love with me however
before me she dated this guy naturally they broke up because she got "raped" but her mom
told me she was a big flirt.
And her mom said to me that she got raped because shes always running around flirting with
random guys. And she said that my girlfriend
slept with the guy then she went back and tease
him and then he raped her but my gf told me
something different should i trust her mom?
better yet should i tell her what her mom said?
But she told me a different story was she went
to a friends house this guy was feeling on her
and she didnt like it
but she didnt tell anyone then she went back
over there in some bootie shorts and
he raped her.
But i dont believe that one bit
so knowhing she cheated on her ex
will she cheat on me too? or am i just being
insecure

2007-06-20 03:52:13 · 24 answers · asked by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 03:50:53 · 28 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom takes care of my dads step father..he had a stroke about 10 years ago and hes had colon cancer..he is peg tube fed and is on a colostomy bag my mom has been back and forth to the hospital with him for about 10 years now.she has put up with him being rebellious, she recently had stomach cancer and is now in remission my dad hurt his back at work and now is disable he got steel rods in his back. My mom constantly worries aboout my stepgrandfather she continues to lose weight as well because she goes without eating being up at the hospital ..It seems as if she puts my dads stepfather first before anyone else I guess my question is am i being mean and selfish if i tell her she needs to put my step grandfather in a nursing home and focus more on her own health and enjoying the rest of her life as a grandmother.. my wife and i just had our second kid and she's maybe seen him twice.how do i go about showing her the big picture without hurtin her feelings.. Thanks for your comments

2007-06-20 03:49:45 · 3 answers · asked by DR 2 in Family

A friend of mine is receiving child support from her EX. His payments would be cut in half if she tells him about the big raise she got. Should she tell him?

2007-06-20 03:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, if your boyfriend, husband, significant other had a nickname "The Otter" would you find that sexy? A turn on? Explain.

2007-06-20 03:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by cold runner 5 in Singles & Dating

After few year marriage life, couple usually stop kissing (tongue kissing)why? when making love, how many couple do it with out kissing their wife or husband?

2007-06-20 03:45:34 · 19 answers · asked by sarah@520 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been happily married for many years. I've never thought of cheating on my husband. We sold a house to a man, all I had to do was sign the papers, I hadn't met this man before. When we met, before even saying hello, my knees started to shake, my heart started having palpatations, I was sweating, and could only stutter. I affected him in some way also, he didn't speak to anyone but me, kept staring at me, and standing close enough to touch me. I haven't seen him since. I'm bumfuzzled as to what happened. I don't belive in reincarnation or anything like that. This will puzzle me to my dying day. I could have easily just climbed in his arms.... and I'm not like that!!!!Please let me know if anything has ever happened to you like that.

2007-06-20 03:43:36 · 10 answers · asked by ransomschoice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He knows I do this often, but I'm not finding anything....does he have a fake profile?

2007-06-20 03:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 30, gf is 27. we are best friends and do everything together, same hobbies and get along great. however there is no passion and sex is barely ok. its like we are friends who have sex. we live together and she would have no where to go if we did break up. new woman is 37 w/ 2 kids, we have been friends for 6 months, kissing for 2. we havent had sex but have heavy makeout sessions. we have some things in comon but we have incredable passion, passion like i wouldnt believe existed if you told me about it. what my gf lacks in maturity and independance the new woman has. gf went back to college and we moved in to my moms house so we could afford school and rest of bills. i am bored and dont know if gf will make me happy in marrage, espically if I have already kinda cheated. gf and i quit smoking pot a year ago and since then our relationship has become a routine. i know the grass is always greener on the other side but am i crazy to want to leave gf for this new woman?

2007-06-20 03:39:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the situation. My fiance and I have a 18 month old daughter. He wants me to get a job so bad he can't see straight. I would love to make more money for us but I don't see that its worth it. If I were to get a job making $8.50 an hour (which is what I've been offered) and work 40 hrs a week I would roughly make $340 a week before taxes. So take out taxes and benefits then it would be about $275. So around here full time daycare costs $175 to $200 a week. So that knocks me down to $75- $100 a week in profit. let's not forget how much gas costs now too. I would easily spend $30 - $50 a week in gas. So to me its not worth it for me to pay someone else to raise my child for me to make less than $50 a week. Help me explain this to him, he is so dead set on me working he doesn't understand what I'm trying to tell him.

2007-06-20 03:38:43 · 12 answers · asked by alayna5 1 in Family

2007-06-20 03:36:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And there's bad talk goin' around that Papa had two outside children, and another wife...(and that ain't right)

2007-06-20 03:32:35 · 5 answers · asked by Perky_gurl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if you seen a goodlooking girl that you thought was attractive would you not go talk to her on the account of her breast size? (too small!)

2007-06-20 03:29:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i;m getting married in 7 wks and will be changing my last name to my fiance's. i really want to change my first name also cuz since i was a kid, everybody's always called me by another name. i don't even recognize my first name if you call me out if you see me in the streets.

any suggestions? is it hard?

2007-06-20 03:29:23 · 9 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Weddings

Me my self i like the gothic look and love the gothic music and all the gothic stuff,
do you?

2007-06-20 03:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by DENISE 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and we love each other very much. The only problem we have is the sex issue. It is great .... when we get time! We are both 20 and we both still live at home with our parents. This is very frustrating as we never get time to be alone and to have sex. We dont have loads of money at the moment either so neither of us can afford to keep going to hotels etc. The one time my parents are going to be out this week - i am on my period! We havent had sex for about a month now and we are both finding it very frustrating. I dont want it to end up that either of us ends up going elsewhere for it. We do love each other very much but i cant see a way around this problem. He refuses to have sex if anyone else is in the house even if we are in my bedroom or his bedroom with the doors locked?!

Any advice?

2007-06-20 03:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy:

1. Twenty years old and had one short dating experience (one gf)

2. A virgin with no intentions of going hog-wild...

3. Non-smoker, light drinker

4. Smart and conservative

2007-06-20 03:25:17 · 7 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend/fiance already own our home and really dont need anything. How would you request monetary donations for the bridal shower/wedding present. We dont expect anything, but want to make sure we dont get stuff we dont need. Please dont take this the worng way it is just a question.

2007-06-20 03:23:16 · 25 answers · asked by To The Point 3 in Weddings

My husband left me and the three kids six months after he started having an affair with another woman ( I discovered this after he left.)
I asked him to leave me the car. He wouldn't. He then bought himself a luxery car. So then he had two cars and I had none.

I eventually bought a car for me and the kids.

Anyway, he has given the car to the girlfriend's mother ( who I also understand is a home wrecker)! He couldn't leave it for us ( the kids are little and need to be driven to school, doctor's appointment, etc.)

I still have a key to the car and as I live in a community property state, I can legally just go and get it. Part of me wants to do that. The other part says that this is God's way of showing me that I am better off without this azzhole.

What would you do?

2007-06-20 03:21:32 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be ex wife cheated on me back in October. She got drunk crashed my car and she called home to tell what she had done. during the conversation we started yelling cause she was drunk and then she says thats ok cause i'm *****&% mike and he fuc*% better then you. so I said ya but hows the car? well I stayed with her for a few days but I noticed this guy Mike kept calling her cell phone. Then one day she told me I had to get out and she wasnt going to let me see my son anymore. Now 9 months later she is begging for me back and she is pissed cause I am finally getting the divorce. She cheated on me and tried to keep my son from me why the hell wont her psycho *** get over me

2007-06-20 03:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...i will be meeting him in a few days...he is a simple and a family man...and as it has been said that the first impression is the last impression..so i want to leave a lasting impression on him..how should i go about it???ny suggestions...

2007-06-20 03:18:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-20 03:17:54 · 27 answers · asked by eagan_babe2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is to guys and girls, when you have an argument with a fella, why do they do they punch things like punch a wall? does it mean they want to hit you?

its stupid, you cant win a fight with a brick wall lol

2007-06-20 03:12:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating