Are there any guys like this? And girls, what would you think?

Question

I'm a guy:

1. Twenty years old and had one short dating experience (one gf)

2. A virgin with no intentions of going hog-wild...

3. Non-smoker, light drinker

4. Smart and conservative

The reason I ask: I'm a guy with these qualities. Call it insecure, but the combination seems to be enough to keep the girls away. Maybe it's time for a change...?

Answer 1

Mate, you've got to give women a vision of something. Like, Irish woman tend to be attracted by a loud type who can make em laugh. Those points you listed are for when they get to know you. Just put on a wild act. It works trust me. You will get noticed. Throw as much money and attention around as you can

Answer 2

You sound like the kind of guy that my parents would want me to marry. That's good. Just as long as you know how to have fun, and you're not boring, I wouldn't worry about finding a girlfriend.

Answer 3

There are plenty of people like that around the world, but are you asking this because you feel insecure or do you feel like you want a change?

Answer 4

Don't change into someone your not just to attract girls. You'll find someone who wants you for you. I say good for you for being a good guy. Wish there were more out there like you.

Answer 5

you sound like a good person who knows how to control himself, and has good values... though the light drinker part sorta bugs me but other than that you sound perfect

Answer 6

I think that I wish I was 20 and lived near you. :-) You sound like a catch!

Answer 7

i don't know but that sounds like one perfect guy. good luck finding him. it might be hard.