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Do you think sex is a Big thing in a marriage or relationship? I am married and my husbands sex drive vanished and mine is sky high.. He puts me down when I want to do it.. I cant deal with it... Its not me and I know that for sure.. He is really stressed and I think it is from that,, but to me sex makes my stress go away.. What do I do? He is only 23...

2007-06-20 04:45:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is a person and very banal woman. She has brought the steading hand of Jesus Christ into our relationship and frankly deserves more credit from you people. However, since day one I have been the more beautiful one of the couple. As time marches on, I get a little more attractive and she starts to gray up. I'm also troubled by the fact she is 5'10 tall. I mean, good lord, a woman really should never be above 5'6, can we agree on that? I tell her when her friends are over "How's the weather up there?" It's funny.

My girlfriend is from South Korea and is nearly as attractive as I am. I don't plan on being with her for long though, so I'm not going to do anything for her other than help pay for the implants. That's more for me though.

Anyway, I digress. My question is how do you manage to keep your self confidence when you are surrounding yourself with those who are chosen my the lord to enter your life. They are blessed to have me, but is it the same the other way around?

One day soon I will finally find the woman to produce an heir to my family. So far it's 0 for 3 on the kids front.

2007-06-20 04:42:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're thinking about having the wedding on New Years Eve 2009, an evening service. Then our reception would be late evening to New Years! On New Years Day we hope to have a little party with the little kids who were not at the reception and people from out of town.
I think it would save money on food, because we could have hor d'oeuvres and cake, but we'll probably spend more on services and liquor.
I just don't know how far we would have to plan in order to get reservations made, especially since all of my extended family is out of state!
I'm doing more planning right now (because I'm the starry-eyed dreamer). I think dark colors on bridesmaids, but the flower girl could wear a lighter version of the same color. Our ring bearers will be his two Bull Mastiffs (they are so cute! and a real part of his family). Flowers may be a lighter color, to accent the darker bridesmaids and white (me!!)
I don't envision this will be a huge wedding (# of people) but I want it to be special, duh!

2007-06-20 04:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is excepting jewlery from a married man cheating...specially if you are married? I believe it is what do you think?

2007-06-20 04:41:27 · 31 answers · asked by ME 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am recently engaged, i am from New Hampshire i moved down here to be with my fiance, who is from Texas. i have no family or friends here. same with him in New Hampshire. where do we get married without making everyone in the family mad or worse not able to atttend??

2007-06-20 04:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you put him through graduate school, stayed home with the kids and entertained so that he could get ahead, didn't advance your own career to help advance the family because it was best for everyone and your kids, cut the grass, took care of the house and his ailing parents so that he could focus on his career for the best interest of the family and you STILL wouldn't believe that you deserve a share of the net worth, not to mention that your kids shouldn't become poor because he has lost his mind, no matter even if temporarily while you go to school. and you would still say to let him go with all of the assets that you worked for?

And you wouldn't get your own lawyer to protect the furture of your kids? Thanks.

2007-06-20 04:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i have been living with my fiancee and her 6 yr old son for 6 months now in a house that we bought together...

she is a good girl, a very smart and studius person, and honest to a fault...who just graduated from masters school and is looking for a job.

i am having a very major situation with her over the last couple months...its that our relationship is migrating in a direction that i do not like at all...

its like i am constantly the 'bad guy' i dont do enough housework EVER! if i took off a day from my 8-10 hour a day job to clean ALL day she would still have complaints that i do not do enough...

my job, which is hard and not so rewarding on the cash end, has her bugging me everyday to get a new one, which i am actually starting to send out resumes and honestly look for something that is all around better for me...

another thing is that when we didnt live together it was sex 4-5 of the 7 days a week i would go out with her. now i am lucky if once a week i get mine

2007-06-20 04:31:57 · 16 answers · asked by ignoramous i 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have been seperated for 2 years but we talk every now n then. he wants a divorce but now he is having his girlfriend handle all his business. She is the one ive been talking to about the divorce and she brought me the papers to sign.and when i did see him he couldnt even look at me in my face. why is this

2007-06-20 04:31:24 · 16 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A common obsession with some guys, that most girls hate about them is their "lust" for porn. What is an equivalent "taboo/turn off" that most girls do that most guys hate?

Of course the guys can answer this too, but I'm really more interested in the female response to this question.

2007-06-20 04:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I thought I was very lucky but when I told my 15 yr old daughter this, she asked "what's wrong w/him and why's he with you" ? I was shocked by her response. I 'm divorced and have 2 kids. I wanted to keep an open relationship w/her so I told her about him. I have to admit she hurt my feelings. She also has a problem w/him being Italian. She says we should date our own race! W'e're Puerto Rican. I know this is her father talking. I told her I married a Puerto Rican 17 yrs ago (her dad) and look at us now. She responded - so it didn't work out date another Latin man. The conversation got ugly. Not the way I planned it. I'd like to tak to her again, when I calm down. Any suggestions?

2007-06-20 04:29:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. We have a 18 month old daughter who has to go to several diffrent therpist because she was preemie. Shes got a lot of catching up to do developmently so it makes alot of stress and work in our house.
My husband currently doesn't have a job and is working towards becoming a police officer. I stay at home with our daughter.
My husband won't pick up after himself. Its just simple stuff like his shoes or dirty clothes. Nothing hard just some to help me out a little bit. He doesn't want to do anything out daughters therpist say because it makes her cry. He would just rather let her do what she wants or give in to her tanturms so he doesn't have to deal with her crying. It not good for her.
Well today I got tired of not saying anything and I asked him to help me out and do what the therpist say because its for her beneifit. He basically sat there like he didn't care the said he wanted a divorce. I still love him. Please help???

2007-06-20 04:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by victoriabrandonoct22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my b/f were joking around and i invited him 2 church and he didn't want to go but he was kidding and he said whats my reward and i said a hug and he smiled lol...so the week after he came to church with me i went to his house and we were up stairs and i said wanna go outside? he said yeah...but hey u never gave me my "reward(hug)" so i hugged him after i worked up the courage hes 14 i'm 13 and i want to kiss him but hes shy and so am i.......what does all this mean

2007-06-20 04:27:20 · 15 answers · asked by Juiles L 1 in Singles & Dating

because you are attracted to somone else then does that mean that you dont love him.

2007-06-20 04:26:15 · 29 answers · asked by kit kat 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a full-time working student and when my old friend from highschool who had two kids between her age of 18-20 'told' me I was the maid of honor for her budgeted wedding, I was a little excited. As it gets closer, I have seen the couple fight and the groom get socked in the face by my friend, mistreat eachother, and wonder if the money for the wedding could've been used on a down payment for a house so they could get their kids out of an apartment. I am supposed to be spending a lot of time and money here on my dress/presents. My question is, has anyone ever been in a wedding they felt the couple shouldn't be getting married, and were you part of it anyway?

2007-06-20 04:25:40 · 3 answers · asked by Wonderment 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 year now. We've known each other for about 5 years though. My parents are not very fond of him. They don't approve of him at all. His parents don't have any problem with me or us dating and all. My parents are really 'old-fashioned' and I'm starting to think that me and my boyfriend are going to end up getting married and things, and I don't know what my parents will think about it. I still want my relationship to be good with my parents, but I'm afraid if he proposes soon, they won't be fond of me! What should I do? Should I end my relationship with my boyfriend to keep my parents happy, or should I go with my heart and my parents just have to deal with it? help! and thank you! =]

2007-06-20 04:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have my bfs yearbook....
i need to sign it ASAP....
i just dont know what to write...

ok we are not your typical couple....
weve been together for 9 months and havent said i love you yet....

and i dont know what to write...

im not gonna be one of those girls who puts like omg this was a great year i love you sooo much and we will be together forever,,,,cuz i want to be realistic....

idk if we will be together forever....

idk if i love him...idk what love is....*sigh....


iwant to write something along the lines of i love all the time i spend with him....he makes me laugh...im glad that these last 9 montsh i was with him....and i wish him the best of luck in the future??? no cuz that sounds like we are breakin up...UGHH...

help me
i cant make anything i want to say floww or sound right! HELP!

2007-06-20 04:24:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know i like him or not and or if he is going to leave me for a other

2007-06-20 04:20:58 · 26 answers · asked by littlebri 1 in Singles & Dating

well i was work today, well it was my last day of work because i'm being transferred across the another branch across the town. . there has been this girl that i have always liked and every so often i got the feeling she liked me. i took this book in with me to get signed by my colleagues. before she came in i asked her friend to sign it and others. later her friend and her was walking behind me and i over heard her friend say, i'll ask him for ya. then her friend calls my name and says that the one i like wants to sign my book. so i let her and she gives me an email adress and a phone number. her friend turns around to me and says "even a number, woooooo."so do you think this girl likes me and what should i do next.

2007-06-20 04:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by The Master 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal... I fell in love with my GF...we got married behind everybody's back and told my parents about it last night... They flipped out.... Tonight going to the house to discuss it with them... I am IN LOVE with her and do antyhing for her... We are planning a real wedding next year, but we just wanted to marry each other this way cause we just feel the same about each other... Should i bring my wife with me to the parents house and discuss it or just me myself to my paretns. and then maybe bring her afterwards....

2007-06-20 04:20:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I wanted to go on a cruise for our anniversary, it's for 5 days, our son will be about a year and half when we go, we would leave him with my mother and sister who watch him for me everyday anyway when I'm at work. So you think that is too long to leave him, should we find another place to go that we can take him? I know we will miss him.

2007-06-20 04:17:28 · 16 answers · asked by bad_kitty83 3 in Family

why cant i feel loved? why cant i feel like i deserve it? iam married, we have our problems but i cant seem to get out of this hole i feel like iam....why do i care so much? wish just for one day i could put me first and not him!

2007-06-20 04:13:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 04:10:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and denying me sex for no apparent reason its just like that today she asked me for money to buy a dress i also refused i told her that she deserves nothing from me and left her what am i to do i beleive tit for tat please advise me

2007-06-20 04:08:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you let go of a relationship that is hazardous to your health? I've been had an affair for 5 yrs. I know, I'm the epitomy of a terrible person but you don't know the mental abuse I went through w/ my alcoholic husband. Anyway, I had an affair and fell in love w/ this man who treated me like a princess. I left my husband and moved out to my own house. The other guy helped me financially b/c I couldn't afford to leave on my own. The other guy turned out to be a control freak. He gave me a 10:00 curfew or pay the consequences. He broke into my house & went thru my things. He grabbed me by the throat. Anyway, stupid people like me believe it's all b/c he loves me so much. when my lease was up I moved in w/ him. He actually tried to make me sign a contract that I wouldn't listen to rap music & wouldn't park in a certain spot in the driveway. I moved out & went back home to the house that my husband & I shared b/c it's my house too (nothing between us) and the other guy has had it!

2007-06-20 04:05:50 · 4 answers · asked by budambassador 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-06-20 04:03:31 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

We were married for 6 years, I went on business trip amd my wife had an affair and eventually she left the hosue with my 3 sons 1 year old and 2-1/2 year old.
I still love her and saying to her Iw ill do anything to get her back. Not Just because I love her also because our Kids are so small they need momy and Dady togather.
She is saying she is not coming back. her parents her friends everyone is on my side but she is not listing.
I feel like hell with her lets move on but as soon as i look at my kids I want her back.
She is now saying we can be best friends but She is not comign back.
Can some one sugest a plan how can i try to bring her back home.. I trusted her so much that for sake of her I did not even make any other friend in last 6 years we worked togather we lived togather and traveled all over the world togather.
I am so devestated and I am willign to do anything to win her back...any and all sugestions are welcome

2007-06-20 04:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by SJ Grewall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am from a very rich family...my parents r spending alot for me...but, i m in love with my mom's cousine...we married secretly..he can live without me and i cant...but, its bit abnormal in society to marry mom's cousine.....i dont want to give such insults to my parents..they dont deserve it...but, i love him a lot and we r already married......am i doing wrong? people will say bed...should i sacrifice our both's life for people?? i m in very mental pressure...plz advicee me....

2007-06-20 03:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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