I am from a very rich family...my parents r spending alot for me...but, i m in love with my mom's cousine...we married secretly..he can live without me and i cant...but, its bit abnormal in society to marry mom's cousine.....i dont want to give such insults to my parents..they dont deserve it...but, i love him a lot and we r already married......am i doing wrong? people will say bed...should i sacrifice our both's life for people?? i m in very mental pressure...plz advicee me....
2007-06-20 03:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is my mom's cousine mean's my mom's, mother's -sister's son. he is 8 years elder than me....i suffered a lot from my childhood...i had lots og money but no family life....no one never loved me, my parents didnt had time for me....that time we married..he used to love me a lot..slowly my parents got it that i m so far from them..so they started to love me again...started to give me lots of time...by this time, i m of him...i cant leave him...i cant hurt my parents also...i feel to do suiside.....please tell me some positive words...which will give me bit mental satisfaction....
2007-06-20 04:53:29 · update #1
if you are from a rich family, get them to spend some money on your education. You sound ignorant and uneducated. As far as your relative is concerned, you are separated enough that it wont cause congenital defects in any offspring that may occur during your marriage.
2007-06-20 04:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by carpathian mage 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is there a big age difference (you know,mother's cousin,he must be around yours mother's age)?Have you thought about any children,how that may affect them?You can have sick children if you decide to have any.If he can live with out you and supposedly you love each other to go as far as getting married,why can he live without you?Is he faithful,does he care?You need professional help and you need to tell your mother.Don't you have a mother and daughter relationship,it could have prevented this.
2007-06-20 04:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by MS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your mom cousin means your second cousin. So i guess it would be ok to marry him. Since you already have there is nothing you can do but tell your parents, or get a divorce. This is up to you.
2007-06-20 04:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by maverick29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the truth. By the way, your mom's cousin is your second cousin. Be careful of having children, they may be greatly effected. Your blood lines are too close.
2007-06-20 04:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think it is a little late to be worried about insulting your parents. You made your bed now lie in it.
2007-06-20 04:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to come clean it's a little to late to hide it now.....
2007-06-20 04:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋