and denying me sex for no apparent reason its just like that today she asked me for money to buy a dress i also refused i told her that she deserves nothing from me and left her what am i to do i beleive tit for tat please advise me
2007-06-20 04:08:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try talking to her. I know it's a bit out there but you could maybe get to the root of the issue that way. She obviously thinks you have done something very wrong. Tit for tat type stuff is for grade school you are supposed to a grown up in a marriage. Make a lunch/dinner date and get to the bottom of the problem before you end up in divorce court all because you didn't ask her what was wrong.
2007-06-20 04:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Susan G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using nasty language and withholding sex is immature on HER part and is not right to do, even if she is mad at you for some reason. If something is bothering her she needs to be upfront about it and you work it out. However, I wouldn't give her anything until she starts acting appropriately. By the way, I don't consider that as playing the same game, it is just not giving in to her and rewarding her lousy behavior.
2007-06-20 11:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her. Discuss things and take the time to see what is really bothering her. It seems something else is going on that's rubbing her the wrong way and she's just not telling you.
2007-06-20 11:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by asprinfree_braindamage_please 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships r very delicate, n wht only they need is love n respect.
If u wanna make ur relationship go longer, then the better way is forget wht happened in past.
For n ideal hubby u must purchase tht dress which ur wife wants, just impress her.
She herself feel sorry for her bad behavior towards u.
2007-06-20 11:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by uni_wax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would talk dirty to her
2007-06-20 11:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do? what didn't you do? have you forgotten something important?
2007-06-20 11:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋