I don't know i like him or not and or if he is going to leave me for a other
2007-06-20 04:20:58 · 26 answers · asked by littlebri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you went out the first time why did you break up? If it was over something major like he cheated on you or lied constantly then don't go back out with him. However if you left on good terms and you want to see what would happen then get back with him. If its not right then break up.
2007-06-20 04:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart hear what it tells you what to do and if it is meant to be inside chances are you were meant to get together again. If you broke up for a reason ask yourself does the reason still apply or has it changed do you feel there is a chance to try this type of relationship again, only you can decide what is best for you. Do not do anything for someone else, only do what is best for you. Think only of yourself. Never discount 'self. Follow your gut, look with your heart not your mind, listen to you spirit not your pride. Do not be afraid to fail, for in chosing the path less travelled we discover what others on the beaten path have yet to find: life. Good luck to you. Many cherokee blessings.
2007-06-20 11:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by KENYA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about what he wants its about what you want..
Just think about why he is your ex in the first place!! Does he deserve a second chance? Its up to you and if you have to question it then its probably not a good idea.
I would suggest you say, "I don't feel the same way about you and I dont think we should go out again." Simple as that!!
2007-06-20 11:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by MonaLisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has done that before and things didn't work out with the other and now he is going back to you. I think you should really consider moving on. He had the chance with you, and although I believe in second chances, if you are worried about him leaving you then don't be with him. You don't even know if you like him. Don't bother tell him he had the chance and f***'d it up... Girl be strong...
2007-06-20 11:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Henry, if he left before don't take the chance of letting him back into your life. It's not worth the pain. On the other hand, if you both decided to break up, and now you both have feelings for each other again, then give it a try. If you have feelings for him still, but can't trust him completey, then start off as close friends and see where it goes from there. Best of luck to you!
2007-06-20 11:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by ricangurl3591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, depending on what happened between you and him, is it worth getting back together with him? before you make the decision, you truly need to know how you feel about him. if he treated you badly, but you still have some feelings for him, i would personally say no, because he could just treat you badly again, and leave you heart broken. but if he was nice to you, and you have those feelings, i would say yes.
but remember to speak from your heart, i know how hard this can be. but make sure you are 100% sure that you aren't saying that you like him again, just because he wants you. make sure you actually do have feelings for him. so that your relationship will go smoothly.
good luck girlll.
2007-06-20 11:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by meb123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember he's an ex for a reason and if you have all these insercurites about the realtionship then don't do it .. the worse thing you can do is get back with him and get your feelings all into him and he hurts you.. remember "do me wrong once shame on you do me wrong twice shame on me".. good luck girl
2007-06-20 11:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lady1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, like the other person said dont bother if he left you. If you left him and you are reconsidering your actions you should talk to him and apologize and telll him you are worried that the relationship will just end again. Get some assurances that he will try and commit to try yourself. Don't open up to him fully until you are sure he is down for the long term. The end.
2007-06-20 11:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without comparing him to any other men and without your best friends input; re-evaluate why he is your ex. Take those reasons anf figure out if they are things you are willing to deal with. Good Luck, matters of the heart can be complicated.
2007-06-20 11:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Fire Side Water Side 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Move up in life, dont go backwards
2007-06-20 11:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by hypnotiq8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋