After few year marriage life, couple usually stop kissing (tongue kissing)why? when making love, how many couple do it with out kissing their wife or husband?
2007-06-20 03:45:34 · 19 answers · asked by sarah@520 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
while making love or having sex, some couple may not tongue kissing or kiss their partner mouth to mouth. that what i mean not kissing during make love or sex.
2007-06-20 04:07:02 · update #1
I am a freak ( sexually) ( In a good way) and I will never change. I have tons of passion and have always been a hopeless romantic. We are both 37 and still young and vibrant. I have been married for 15 years and we still kiss very passionately. I have been busted by friends when we are in the kitchen trying to sneak some kisses in. We kiss very passionately during love making. We never allowed ourselves to fall into the slump of " you want to it?" ok, no effort sex. We save it up and we go at it like we did when we first met. Even with 3 kids we make the time. I believe that if you let the passion die it Hurts your marriage. It takes work but it is awesome to kiss and still have your heart beat fast. I am really glad that we still have that. It is a intimate thing it is not more intimate than making love for me but I believe that it adds to the love making experience a great deal. It is hard to imagine not kissing before sex? I totally believe in foreplay and I think that when you take your time and do not rush things it just makes for a better experience all around.
2007-06-20 03:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mario L 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, because usually kissing is how sex is initiated. Yes, there's arousal, but kissing just heightens it, along with other stuff, and then when sex happens, it's awesome. But to answer ur question, in my opinion, I do find that kissing is more intimate than sex, simply because u can do more, and when it's intimate, usually hands are involved, but doing that while having intercourse could turn into a work out. Maybe after a few years of marriage, life gets in the way, and u relize u have ur mate reguardless of how good the "love" is, so ur just like, get it over with, I need to get up early in the morning. Whereas, when single, ur trying to get the person to be urs for all eternity, so u do whatever it takes, especially in the bedroom. Plus, the newness wears off after a while. U still love each other and want to be with one another, but instead of a passionate kiss, u'd settle for plain sex and the laundry being done.
2007-06-20 10:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex without kissing is a very bad sign. Kissing is very intimate. When a couple stops desiring those deep kisses, I think it's a sign of deeper problems. I think they are not taking the time that a relationship as deep as a marriage should take. They are rushing through life (and sex) and losing one another.
2007-06-20 11:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lovers only kiss bcoz it is a limitation before marriage . but after marriage after few yrs some people are doing sex just for a sake i mean before going to sleep they will just have a fast sex and then sleep.bcoz kissing n all will take time . that is why some partners are not getting satisfaction in sex.but not all do like this .sex should start with kissing and end with kissi ng that is my way.
2007-06-20 10:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by pirsa363 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know where your from but where I am from we do kiss tongue and all when we have sex , before during and after. Not unless we are the only one's in this world but I do it all the time.
2007-06-20 20:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband he loves me but he loves to kiss and i dont but when we do its intimate and usually leads to the act of intimacy but i dont really like to kiss just to get sex or initiate it we kiss every day so it isnt a big deal to me if we dont kiss alot during intimacy cause we still tongue kiss
2007-06-20 23:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is very intimate. Maybe even more so than sex. That is why hookers or prostitutes don't kiss and why kissing may not be allowed for swinging couples. Its ok to f*ck the daylights out of someone else, but don't you dare kiss one another.
2007-06-20 10:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing is the most tender and intimate contact… A kiss is more intimate because it’s not just physical, you feel the romance and each other breath and soul in a kiss… try to never lose that passion…
2007-06-20 11:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that kissing while making love or kissing in general is usually intimate.to me it is a closeness that you only get when your being held by your partner or even just a quick peck. theres a warmth there and the feeling of sentuality..im not married been there done that..but i like kissing in general..who knows maybe your partner doesnt like the way you kiss or your kisses arent passionate enough..hard to tell ..hope you find out tho.
2007-06-20 10:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love tongue kissing my wife during sex! We have been married for 20 years. So, I don't know what you're talking about.
2007-06-20 10:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋