and doesnt want to look at other women while in a relationship? its just like every time i see someone with their gf they are checking women out. i mean, why do men do this? i dont think every man does it, but who does not do it?
2007-06-20 03:53:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um hello... I live in chicago. Im 23, and thats what i look for. My current partner is all i could have asked for. She came out of a really difficult relationship and i like that, because i can really help her see that there is better guys out there. Now as far as looking a girls different then her, i dont really do that. The reason behind it is because im attracted to her and only her. Now there is about 4 more guys that i know that are similarly good, and nice to girls but for some odd reason they cannot get a girlfriend. They are not ugly or anything so there is really no reason for it. The general perception for everyone is: If you are in a relationship and things are wonderful you bore yourself with the person, but thats not right, because then u start looking for someone better and they turnout worse. Then you kick yourself in the *** for leaving the person you have been happy with. Bottom line find yourself a passionate guy prefferably a taurus.
2007-06-20 05:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dj Volt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said this time and again. This question can be directed at both sexes. I could just as well ask you "Is there a girl on here that actually wants commitment?" Just because you can't find one, doesn't mean that they don't exist. People have personal preferences, feelings, and opinions. It's called human nature, and there's nothing anyone can do about it but accept it. Some guys and girls may not be looking for a commitment. If the guys you've been with didn't want one, then that's their choice, for reasons entirely their own. You should just keep looking. Keep on dating, keep on searching. You'll find the right one, sooner or later, and then you'll look back at this question and laugh. You've just got to have the patience, and the determination.
2007-06-20 04:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some guys are dogs and i completely agree with you but dont pretend girls dont do the same. The guys that want commitment
usually end up with the loose girls that cheat on
them and cause them to be insecure and by
the time you get to the good guy he's all messed
up because previous girlfriends ruined hes
standards for girls. Causing him to think
that all women are the same which isnt
true. But he may feel as if it is. But most of the guys that want commitment are usually arleady comitted to somone maybe someone who doesnt or does love them but they will still try to make it work because they desire commitment.
2007-06-20 03:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And every woman does it also. Sorry but humans as a whole are visual creatures. We all yes all look at what we find attractive regardless of how devoted and committed we are. Yes even you do it though obviously you call it something different or rationalize it to yourself.
As to the first part regarding commitment, perhaps if your definition of commitment involves the man gouging out his own eyes perhaps there probably aren't too many who want what you call commitment.
2007-06-20 03:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by elurle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, is there a guy who wants commitment AND doesn't look? No.
I have a wife who is very pretty, and I still look at other girls. We're visual creatures, males are, and we like looking. Plus, only when I see a girl who's going out with a guy, and doesn't check out guys OR girls, then I'll stop myself.
Girls are pretty. Both sexes check them out. You can't NOT do it, so it's not fair that we can't either. But, all guys check out girls. Even gay guys. it's the way of the world. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar.
Good luck.
2007-06-20 03:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me, when I am with some one I am totally commited, I want long term relationships and I try to treat my woman like a queen, and do all that I can for them, When I am in a relationship no other women exist!!!
2007-06-20 04:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tactical Medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married to a wonderful woman, and since i started dating her, i fell completely head over heals for her. I do not look at other women in a sexual manner. My heart and soul belong to my wife, that's all. I am a christian, and I think that with the love of God and the return love from a Woman Companion, it is very possible to stay away from looking at other women; I can do it, so......it is possible for more guys to do the same. Most guys just don't want to give their "all" to a lady
2007-06-20 04:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by WV_Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont do that, its all about the girl im with when im dating someone...
I would like a nice commited relationship, but being single works right now I guess.
2007-06-20 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that men look at other women doesn't mean they are cheating, it's in our nature, I got a pretty stable relationship, and when I see a nice piece of ***, I gotta look... that's why I always wear shades...
2007-06-20 03:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by back to haunt u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a woman: "You can have my heart and soul, but not my eyes."
And this has nothing to do with commitment. If a girl breaks up with me because I looked at another girl, she's a hypocrite. If I make a comment about another girl, welll then... That's a different story.
2007-06-20 03:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋