If you did, how long did you stay? Where children involved? Do you still love them?
2007-06-20 05:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by K B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lack of intimacy is usually due to a problem with the relationship or with one of the individuals. We are biologically programmed to want sex. When someone stops wanting or having sex, its usually because of an emotional, psychological or physical problem.
I am sure many people have left their spouses because of lack of intimacy, but the lack of intimacy wasn't the problem..it was just a symptom of something else.
2007-06-20 05:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I left my spouse for other reason too but lack of intimacy was a big reason. I stayed with him for almost 10 years and only the first year was the best (if you want to call it that). We have 2 children which was the main reason I stayed for as long as I did. Do I love him, hell no! He treated me like a roommate (and not a very good one either).
2007-06-20 05:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed 6 years without intimacy, mainly because of our son. Eventually I could not stand it any more so I left. Probably the hardest thing I ever did because I still loved her and in some ways still do. I discovered that there is a big difference between loving someone and being able to live with them. I still care about them both, a lot.
2007-06-20 05:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental or physical intimacy? Need to know...there's a lot of different ideas out there as to what "intimacy" is.
But, of course, people have left for lack of both of those kinds of intimacy, and they usually disappear concurrently anyway.
I left for that reason...yes, a child was involved...I stayed ten years after we started to grow distant...and I suppose that yes, I will love him to some degree forever. You don't spend 20 years knowing someone and then all love disappears. Caring for someone doesn't work that way.
2007-06-20 05:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Legally here where I live, if there is no intimacy in a relationship for 2 years or more, the marriage is already considered ended and divorced.
2007-06-20 05:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God created marriage as a potential for the two companions to have an outlet for wholesome intercourse interior the relationship. except your husband has some actual or psychological concern combating him from satisfying you, then he has an legal accountability to ensure that your sexual desires are happy interior your marriage. If each and every thing develop into advantageous up until 5 years in the past, then what occurred at that evaluate time to alter issues? develop into there a undeniable life incident he develop into dealing with that could have made him turn off intercourse for some reason? develop into there something that shook his self-self assurance, particularly interior the overall performance branch? talk with him and spot in case you may get him to open up approximately it: "that is previous hat, uninteresting" is a cop out and tells you no longer something.
2016-10-18 03:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't left my husband but I think about it all the time. He treats me like a roommate. We do have four small children, and yes I still love him.
2007-06-20 05:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by redneckcowgirlmo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After I gained 450 lbs, my wife left me and took our 6 children, but she says she still loves me
2007-06-20 05:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason God gives for divorce is adultery. Your spouse is not doing right by you, because God also says you should not with hold yourself from your spouse. Get your self a New Living translation of the Holy Bible and read it for your self.
2007-06-20 05:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes, but most just have an affair.
2007-06-20 05:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋