I have a loving wife, but she has devolped a problem lately and it's arguments and which leads into fight. The worst part is that when we meet a discuss later on, she forgets most of the things, she says that she never said that. All she remember, what i said, but don't remember what she said. I know that she is forgetting for real. Is she depressed ? She is 31 years old
2007-06-20 05:19:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she could be facing the onset of menopause some women reach that in their 30's and should start taking hormones to help calm the nerves and it is not unheard of for women to expieirience a rise and fall level of hormones . get her to see a gynecologist and see what he or she reccomends . good luck .
2007-06-20 05:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Possibly depressed....bored maybe... or it could be something more serious... Could she be pregnant?
Alot of the time when my husband and I argue (which always leads into a fight) I can always CLEARLY remember what he said and often forget what I have said or hate to remember some of the awful things... Maybe thats whats up with your wife... maybe she feels bad for some of the things she said, is embarrassed and feeling guilty so she chooses to "forget....
Talk to her about this... Maybe she should make an appointment with the doctor or a counselor to find out whats bothering her so much... Arguing all the time is not pleasant on either of you and sometimes can cause A LOT of damage to a relationship..
All the best to you and her!!
2007-06-20 05:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by busymum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife is going through a lot of stress or an early phase of menopause. Stress can be caused by work or children if you have any.
Your her husband through good and bad your there for her no matter what. If she comes home and argues your the only person she can probably take it out on. It doesn't mean its a bad thing. Maybe you can take her somewhere to relax for a weekend to a spa or a romantic place. That will give you a chance to talk to her and ask her what is really bothering her.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-06-20 05:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have a problem, you guys need help, have a marriage councelor or something to talk aobut her problem cuz she's being really physical and you can't just sit there and apologize for the rest of your life. You need to understand at the time is that when a woman is on her period, she is very moody, hormones are some times imbalance. But when some people get upset, id leave them alone not touch them, especially if they mad at you.
2016-05-20 22:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like there is something thats bothering her. People can bottle stuff up and it can over time effect how the project themselves. Im sure you love and care about her so i would try to start agreeing with her, stop the fighting and try to get to the underlying problem.
You wont solve the problem if your fighting over trival things. Do something to make her feel special, and the biggest secret they dont teach yah in school. Women dont always come out and say things clearly so your going to have to LISTEN she probably is telling you its just not being presented in a clear msg. LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN
When men fail to act on these hidden msgs it drives women nuts.
Good luck
2007-06-20 08:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jason P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that arguments are hardly one sided. If she has been arguing, I guess you haven't been sitting quite either. Don't try to be authoritative or dominating on your wife. Listen to her point of view patiently. Things will become peaceful very quickly in that case.
2007-06-20 05:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sam,
Not to be an alarmist here, but you should get your wife in front of a medical doctor RIGHT AWAY!! These symptoms are not the signs of a normal brain, and if you want to salvage any of her previous personality, you MUST get her in to see the doctor. Move, guy, don't just sit there!!
Good luck!!
2007-06-20 05:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, tape her argument. Then later play it back. Stop frequently and say "Can you see how that would make me feel bad?" Then press to find out what is really bothering her.
2007-06-20 05:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Creamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be caused by hormonal changes! Just try giving her a big hug when she gets like that and see if it doesn't help. Good Luck!
2007-06-20 05:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need counseling. She needs to see a doctor if she is really forgetting things.
2007-06-20 05:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋