Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

i used to like this guy about 7 years ago and on the last day of school his friend told me that he actually like me too. he didnt come back the next year because he moved away. i had no way to verify if this was true. just today i searched his name on myspace and found his profile. should i ask him if he remembers me?

2007-06-20 12:58:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 12:53:34 · 10 answers · asked by pinay 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and myself have been seperated for about 3 years and he as never paid any childsupport and he doesn't see her that often maybe once a month on a good month maybe twice! He as never had her over night(never wanted too not my choice) Now that I am asking for a divorce he says he is not going to pay child support and that he will go after custody of her! Can this really happen? I know he as rights and I am all for them but what about mine? I have raised her own my own with no help from him can they really reward him by taking her away? Why punish me? Please help!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-20 12:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by rere 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She wanted a pearl neckles and I had bought her one to have given to her the morning of the wedding but her parents ruined that and went and got her one this past weekend. She does not like jewelry that much. I want really bad to give her something special that morning and since we will only get married one time, this is my only chance.

2007-06-20 12:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by mkostelnik@sbcglobal.net 2 in Weddings

I went to college up until I had my baby. I was a stay at home mom until my daughter was 4. Unfortunately my husband left me so I was forced to enter the working force to support the 2 of us. I have only been separated for a year so she is still adjusting. I already feel guilty about working full time. I was thinking of just taking one or two classes per semester. Will this have a negative effect on my child? Or will it be better in the long run if I get a degree? Please help.

2007-06-20 12:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by nina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, be logical and rational (if you can)..I know is going to be a bit hard to do but try.

what exactly are the benefits for a man to get married? and be specific! don't give me this crap about good for his health , live longer etc. tell me what he will get that he couldn't get if he stay unmarried? let see how many of you take the challenge and answer in an intelligent manner.

Thank you!

2007-06-20 12:51:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why is it that every guy just wants to "hook up" and then leave you... Thats all I had in my past and it was fine then but Im almost 17 and want a "real" relationship. Is their something wrong with me???

2007-06-20 12:49:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and on what matter?
how do you react then?

2007-06-20 12:47:17 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Family

I really really like this guy, and we've been talking a lot the past few days we've hung out a few times. he said he would call last nite and he didn't and he still hasn't. the past few days he was calling and texting a lot and he kinda just stopped... is he not interested now? what should i do... should i call or text.. or should i just wait?

2007-06-20 12:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've liked this guy for so long since 6th grade and well i love him so much and he liked me too but i know that its not right to share him with another girl aka his girlfriend. So please help me go on without the direction of finding another guy cause most of them seem to not treat girls right so i dont think I want that right now! Thanks so much for taking the time to help!

2007-06-20 12:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im nice. I always answer your questions. And everytime you need a friend, I have always been there for you. Remember?

2007-06-20 12:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by ramon f 3 in Friends

is confidence more iportant then looks? i notice that sometimes i get checked out constantly, and othertimes i feel invisible. i have no self confidence, because growing up i really was ugly. however,im not anymore, and i'll hea girls that i dont even know whispering behind me "she's so pretty she makes me sick". so i know im attractive. i just cant figure out why guys dont hit on me much and sometimes i feel invisible even. what are ways to atleast fake being confident? i can be really shy and quiet and i HATE it. does smiling constantly make a difference?

2007-06-20 12:28:26 · 3 answers · asked by lil333 2 in Singles & Dating

I am old enough to get a permit but they want to wait till Im 16 and a half becuase they said it will interfer with my volleyball scedual, and I know that it wont. They said the only way I can convince them to let me get one is to come up with a good reason. I have tried many things any suggestions will help. Please help!!! Thanks! :)

2007-06-20 12:24:08 · 3 answers · asked by michelle 2 in Family

I was in a chat room last night and i could not believe how many people do not support our troops.They think by supporting our troops we are supporting the war.In this case
one has nothing to do with the other.We can support our troops without agreeing with the war or why we are there.
Let our troops no we are behind them by answering this question.Show them how many Q&A people are behind them all the way.

2007-06-20 12:24:00 · 16 answers · asked by Teenie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been only married with my husband for 6 months and already he's been verbally abusing me and sometimes being physical already. I am 5 months pregnant with his first child, but he constantly blames me for everything, even if its not my fault, which causes me to be insecure with myself, and he gets even more upset when that happens... Help, is it my fault why he's acting this way with me? How can i stop it. I tried leaving him for one night and yet he didn't realize anything, i was the one who went running back to him.

2007-06-20 12:23:01 · 33 answers · asked by Valerie K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy i know at my sports center is always teasing me in a nice way that makes me laugh at myself, and saying nice things to me too, and keeping his eye on me and likes to stand up close behind me. One day at lunch there was a bunch of us eating and he wouldn't talk to me. He didn't even look at me till someone else talked and then he joined in. talks about divorcing his wife. I don't say anything as i don't want to be party to any of that but i am just wandering if he really likes me or just flirting for his ego. He asks me questions and we find we have so much in common. I feel all nice when he is around. I find i can open up with him in a way i can't with other men. I feel so comfortable and he even said he feels he has known me a long time though we just met 5 months ago. what is going on in his head..i know, i know...who really knows, but you know..i just want some speculation and thoughts and maybe some one has had these things going on inside of them too and can clue me in..

2007-06-20 12:21:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting a divorce soon and i don't want to claim anything from my husband. If i claimed ''his'' house he will give me hell the rest of my life. Money is his god and his baby. I really want to leave in peace and forget him and get on with my life. The money would be used to pay off deep debts he made anyway. I could make a deal that he pay off the loans that are in his and my name that he wants me to pay too but i have no money! That way i could not have any bills and he could have his money, house, etc. what do you think?

2007-06-20 12:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 12:12:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Anyone have any recommendations on online stores that have nice and reasonably priced plus size wedding dresses?

2007-06-20 12:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

he is 56,married 4 years,both never had kids. now he is trying many ways to force me by saying how happy other people are with kids. but for 4 years,he never satisfied with anything,complaining everything,job,boss,his did,his mom,his brothers,my ways of living,my way of cleaning.......i really dont want to have kid with him. but what should i deal with him.

2007-06-20 12:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy asked me to be his date to a wedding on Saturday night. I do not know the bride or groom or anything about the wedding plans. The guy that asked me to go is standing in the wedding.

2007-06-20 12:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by elaine 2 in Weddings

Last year while at a rally some lady gave my old man her phone number and he put it in his wallet. I found the number, called the lady and then went to her house. She says she didn't know my old man and that if she had met him at the rally that she was drunk and doesn't remember giving him her number...... I showed her pictures and the number which she admitted was in her handwritting..... She completely denies knowing him.....

I then went home and asked him about it and he said she gave it to him at the rally and he didn't even realize he had it.... I questioned him as to why he placed it in his wallet since we have been together for several years. He claims he didn't remember doing that. He did though, or the number wouldn't have been there....

ANYWAY.... today my home phone rang and this woman's name and number came up on my caller ID. It was her daughter and come to find out my daughter and her daughter are good friends from school.

2007-06-20 12:05:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have worked since i was 16, from age 18 to 40 I worked 2 jobs. I have been married for 30 years, raised 4 kids. am now 47 and quite frankly I am exhausted. I did manage college with 3 smalll children and 2 jobs. My husband is turning 50 and complains he needs to cut back at work, "getting too old to work 50 hours per week. i work 60 because I am in management. We don't have lavish items such as boats, jewlery, or vacations, last vacation was 8 years ago (a weekend camping trip). We eat out 3-4 times / month, cook mealse from scratch, don't drink, smoke or gamble. We have little to no savings, and live in a small house, about 1,000 square feet and have 10 years left on our 30 year mortgage. No retirement savings.and are in age group being punished by social security, but have paid over $200,000.00 into social security. & no financial help for kids college.

2007-06-20 12:03:16 · 15 answers · asked by C D 2 in Family

2007-06-20 12:02:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father for my whole life takes any money that i had even if it is a dollar. its to the point that i have to hide my money. He takes my hard earned money that i worked for an says that he is holding it for me an sometimes i never get it back. me an mom tell him its wrong to do that because this is the age (15) that i need to make my mistakes an learn how to spend. dont get me wrong my dad is a good father an spends alot of money on me. its just that it angers my everyday i wake up to see that 5 dollars in my dresser gone. why do parents do this. i dont buy drugs/achohol or any of that. why can he just let me in my money be?

2007-06-20 11:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by jordan l 1 in Family

Iam 23 and my girlfriend is 22,when she came to visit me she refused to go back, we had been in love for three years and we had been staying together for one year ,the probleme is that i do not want to marry at this age because i want to continue with my studies, but when i tell her to go back to her parents and i consertrate on my books , she say that she will kill herself than going back home, am confused i do not want her to die.another probleme iam not financially stable to look after her and again pay my scool fees. when i told her about this she did not listen to me, i had tried to send her home/parents but she goes there and comes back to my place. please help me?

2007-06-20 11:58:46 · 18 answers · asked by muroarli 1 in Family

me and my bf broke up 4 over the summer hopefully well get back 2gether but i really miss him and cant stop thinking about him I wont even call him cause he wont call anymore we use to talk 5 times a day I dont no wat 2 do someone help!!!

2007-06-20 11:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Emilie S 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a really good, easy, quick way to get high legally?
I want to forget about how bad I hate my life... about how bad I hate everything... I just want to forget it all.

2007-06-20 11:53:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It comes natural to like them...but if we went back to our roots of adam and eve and were still naked to this day would we still find them as attractive...Why is adipose(fat) tissue so attractive??? Insight please

2007-06-20 11:52:44 · 36 answers · asked by John m 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a huge issue with my fiancee watching porn. he promised not to watch it anymore and even gave away all his dvd's. its been almost a month and i found him sneaking it like a little kid. his defense is that hes a guy and he needs it and since im just a girl i will never understand.
am i wrong to think once you decide to get married to someone its time to put away things like beating off to some other chick????!!!
what do i do?
do i give in and say whatever and just resent him for it for the rest of my life or do i stand my ground???

are there guys out there who dont watch porn all the time??

are there guys that would give it up if their fiance asked them to?

please help.... this is driving me crazy and starting to make me rethink getting married.
the real problem is that i cant get excited because i keep thinkin of him getting off to some s.l.u.t. it turns me off and i dont want him to touch me,, what do i do?????

2007-06-20 11:51:25 · 48 answers · asked by in the big easy 2 in Marriage & Divorce