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Ok, be logical and rational (if you can)..I know is going to be a bit hard to do but try.

what exactly are the benefits for a man to get married? and be specific! don't give me this crap about good for his health , live longer etc. tell me what he will get that he couldn't get if he stay unmarried? let see how many of you take the challenge and answer in an intelligent manner.

Thank you!

2007-06-20 12:51:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Weddings

1. you don't need to get married to find someone to spend the rest of you life with.

2. you can't still share chores, you don't need to be married to do that.

3. being married does not guarantee, loyalty or fidelity!

4. If you are an intelligent person you can avoid paying taxes by investing your money (see financial consultant)

5. legimate kids? are you kidding 75% of the population now days are bastards! so women don't care about legitimate kids, this is so 1950's mentality

2007-06-20 13:10:13 · update #1

15 answers

Of course there's the normal blah, blah answers, but here's the real truth:

1. Tax breaks - it is known that you would get more out of your federal taxes then you would if you were single. Of course, there is the possiblity of paying more.

2. Health insurance - Everyone needs health insurance. Now, not only would you have your own from whatever company you work for, but you would also be covered under your wife's insurance (my fiance is a teacher, great medicial benefits, totally surpass mine) and vice versa. God forbid either one of you gets sick or seriously hurt, the medicial bills that rack up will not be unpayable thanks to dual coverage.

3. Credit - Banks are more inclined to give people loans with good credit (but of course.) Hypothetically, let's say you have bad credit, but your wife has flawless credit. If you wanted to take out a loan, or second mortgage, there is your co-signer. You would be approved in no time.

4. Money - Double the income = double the material things you can buy, vacations you can take, bigger the retirement fund

It looks like everything I listed is financial, and it is. There are financial cons to getting married too (assuming more debt, etc.), but I think the financial pros to getting married far outweigh the cons.

2007-06-21 01:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0 0

There are many complexion and responsibilities for a married man, as the head of the family. However, quite often it would help financially to be married and split the costs of everyday expenses, and satisfy the need for sexual activities. Plus if the relationship has little issues and the two actually get along well, it would be quite worthwhile for both. Another factor is that a married man would have a wife to look after, cook for, limiting him from partying too much and focus on the more essential elements of life. And if they really into each other they would change their everyday lifestyle to be better thus become better people.

2016-04-01 08:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The same benefits a woman gets from being married...

A best friend for life...Someone to grow old with, who'll love you even when your teeth have fallen out...A good parent to your children...A truly intimate sexual partner...

Some of the less ethereal benefits...Someone to help you get the chores done on Saturday...Another paycheck coming in on a regular basis...Someone who will clean up the bathroom after you puke...

Truth be told, many people can make this happen without the official document that says they're legally tied. Not getting married is definitely not the worst thing that could happen in your life, but missing out on the partnership would be a true loss.

2007-06-20 13:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 2 0

1. I have someone who loves me in spite of myself.
2. My children are legitimate.
3. I don't have to do all the chores around the house, I have someone to share them with.
4. I have someone who cares when I have had a bad day.
5. When I am so old and ugly that I can't buy a date I will have someone who loves me.
6. I have someone who has lived with me long enough that she probably knows me better than I know myself (because she is more honest)

I know you probably think that you can get all of that and more without the marriage but I have walked both sides of the street and I don't think so.

2007-06-20 13:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by brotherlove@sbcglobal.net 4 · 3 0

1. Benefit of showing the world you're straight and not gay.
2. Benefit of showing the world that you're not a complete loser; you've found a woman whose willing to put up with
you and call you husband.
3. Benefit of showing the world you actually do know
what true commitment means.
4. Benefit of knowing that you are making another human
being (other than yourself) feel secure and showing the world that the person you're committed to is above a casual friendship or live-in.
5. Benefit of knowing that your children will view you as a real father whose committed and not just a stray dog.
6. Benefit of knowing that your children will feel that they were planned for, and not the result of a mistake.
6. Benefit of knowing that you have found the perfect person
who you are proud to call wife.

2007-06-20 15:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, my friend, there is no answer on earth that would satisfy you in your current mental outlook twards marriage. Why isn't living longer valid? That is fact. And not everyone wants to live with someone or reproduce outside of marriage..myself and my fiance included. It doesn't matter to me that "75%" of the population is bastards, as you say, or that so many marriages end in divorce. I choose to make a formal and lifelong committment to my fiance, and we are happy aobut that decision. Just because your marriage failed, does not mean there is anything wrong with marriage, it means there was something wrong with YOUR marriage.

2007-06-20 13:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0 0

Well, if the man and woman are truly in love you get a feeling of completeness. Because your significant other is supposed to be your other half. Also when you're married it's better for your taxes, there's one thing. I'm not married yet, but I'm getting married soon. My fiance loves me and he says once we're married he finally has me as his own because neither of us believe in divorce. So I hope this sheds some light on your question.

2007-06-20 13:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

unconditional love - if anything goes wrong in your life (lose a job, family members passing) someone to console you. if great things happen -you'll always have someone to celebrate with. always a dinner date.. no matter if you're home or out - someone else to have a conversation with. and a WAY to pass your name on. if you decide to have children out of wedlock the woman may choose to leave you're name out of things since you dont seem toooo commited. especially if you have a boy you get someone to carry your last name on... monogomy also ensures you'll never contract an STD!

2007-06-20 13:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If it's someone you love and loves you back. Companionship and knowing that she will be there for you and you for her. Benefits..I really couldn't say because my marriage ended in a divorce..hell i shouldn't be even trying to answer this one lol sorry

sonia

2007-06-20 12:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by dam_i_give 2 · 0 0

You get a better tax break. I can't think of much else.

2007-06-20 13:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0 0

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