Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

My grandmother has cancer and has a limited number of days left. I am heart broken. My parents think my brother is so close to her and that im not. But i am, there sending my brother to see her on her last days, i dont get to go only him and my dad. I have told them everything but they dont understand. To show my respect for my grandmother i want to sing her a song, But i dont know how to ask, if they havent cared about all the other things, why would they care now? Does anybody have any suggestions on how i could ask? i would deeply appreciate it. Thanks.

2007-06-20 11:05:57 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family

his style the atmosphere, confidence girls what do you like?

2007-06-20 11:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

Where do I start, we just moved and we live in a duplex that has one above it. There are 3 kids that live there (mother leaves them alone all day) they stomp around and scream all day and ring my doorbell and they are just always noticeable. I have a newborn baby... they are in my garden tromping my flowers leaving trash on my patio furniture, messing with our stuff, harrassing my dog. I've asked them nicely to just STOP before I kill myself. That of course didnt work because these are devil kids. I addressed my concerns with their mother and she acted like I should just get over it, that there was no problem and that leaving 3 young children alone all day is acceptable. I feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown. I just cant hear any more stomping. We pay WAAAY too much to live here to deal with this. Should I call the landlord? I have postpartum depression and a 6 week old child, I feel like I have more than enough to deal with. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-06-20 11:03:30 · 7 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family

2007-06-20 11:01:38 · 19 answers · asked by Sidereality 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you feel they do all day? How do you percieve them? (Don't worry, I am a stay at home mom too, but I want an honest answer good or bad).

2007-06-20 11:01:07 · 14 answers · asked by arian13 2 in Family

Iam visting my mom in seatlle and me and my girlfriend got in a fight she got mad at me because I want to help my mother who has been an Alcoholic for 10 years I went to go get my mom a car and she got mad at me when I went to auction for the day trying to get my mom a car resonabablly priced when she found out that she whould probablly have to take me tomorrow she got really pissed at me. I started to scream at her then she wanted to use my cell phone because she gave her mom her's for the time being anyways I was like 3 feet away from her and she said she wanted her space. I didn't give her her space later we went back to my grandma's house and I said I want to talk to you. She said five minutes after 2 minutes of talking she got in her car I got on top of her car and she drove off I got second degree burns because my elbows layed on her car. Who is in the wrong I see my mom on average once a year. Who is in the wrong their more details Ill put up later

2007-06-20 10:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by a.hawari@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 10:59:25 · 28 answers · asked by Gaby A 1 in Family

2007-06-20 10:58:43 · 36 answers · asked by livin_long_ago2 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been married almost 13 yrs now this is my second marriage and have three great kids.My eldest son is 15 yrs old he is from my first marriage that lasted 6.5 months and my twins girl/boy are 12.5 turning 13 soon.I am starting to feel a bit old i am 35 yrs old and starting to question what i have done with my life?I went to college got pregnant then married sons father soon after divorced.I graduated from college by the skin of my teeth with a lot of help from my parents.Met my hubby started dating got married had twins.Went into business with my mom who owns landscape design company,also doing house flips and am in process of trying to add interior design branch to her small company.I love my job and family but feel as if time went by in a fast blur?I always thought i would make a difference i world somehow but really i have not done much in grand scheme of things.I want to start trying new things maybe to feel bit younger again.Is this a midlife crisis?

2007-06-20 10:55:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for 4 years we are getting married in a year from now. We have lived right next door to eachother since i was 12 and he was 13. everyone knows that we are childhood sweetharts so I wanted to do something really clever to express are "fairytale" if you will. Any cute ideas?

2007-06-20 10:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by AmBeR 2 in Weddings

Your daughters' mother-n-law to be; offers to take her and buy her wedding gown without me being present. Says she will pay for it and I can pay her back?

2007-06-20 10:44:28 · 26 answers · asked by Janet C 1 in Weddings

It says "You're Invited"
For:
Date:
Time:
Place:
Regrets:???

2007-06-20 10:40:16 · 20 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

My GF of a couple of months Mom is planning to move out of the state.. We decided we like eachother too much and will shack up be it temporarily or just eventually get married or just stay together and true to eachother forever... only time will tell.

However.. I wonder of the particulars...

Is it true that even if we never do get married nor draw up a cohabitation agreement... we are still considered married to the law if we live together for a certain amount of time????

I ask since I have property and assets and she doesn't and would like to be very aware of the implications of us innocently living together might have.

Thanks

2007-06-20 10:39:56 · 16 answers · asked by mikeo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 10:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by C. Xavier 5 in Singles & Dating

I was out with my grandmother and we started talking about the fact that my cooking skills aren't too hot. Basically I can cook spaghetti and Hamburger Helper, and that's about the extent of the things I can make...that actually taste good. lol Anyway, my grandmother is 76 and VERY old school...so she tells me that I will never get a husband if I cannot cook. I told her that of course I will, this is 07, and men can cook as well these days. Then she asks me "well if he can cook, then what would he need you for?" WOW I don't know why I was surprised because as I said, my Grandma is old fashioned. However I have talked to several men, and the majority of them did say that since they can't cook, then they'd prefer a woman that can. So what does that mean? Is there no hope for me? lol I mean I do experiment...it's just that I have a hard time getting the food to taste like it's supposed to. Am I destined to be single???!!!

2007-06-20 10:33:18 · 52 answers · asked by Sassy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 10:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter would like to sing a song at my upcoming wedding. She is 11. Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-06-20 10:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by dtl1995 1 in Weddings

2007-06-20 10:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here's a good one for you all.
The Bride-to-be likes her Engagement ring. She always dreamt of another kind of ring though. People consider her to be a genuine person who is neither materialistic nor greedy. She plans on spending the rest of her life with this man. Is it wrong for the Bride-to-be to ask for the ring she really wants?

Now wait a minute! Just for the record before anyone attacks me for not being greatful for the ring period.....hold on!!! :)
I am taking a wedding etiquette cource at my local college and this is a question I have to answer. I would just like to get a poll of how people would handle this, and weather or not they would say something.
Thanks all!! I'll choose a best answer in a few hours!

2007-06-20 10:27:16 · 19 answers · asked by countrygyrl 2 in Weddings

I have been with my b/f for the last 4 years and im thinking about telling him I want a break, I feel like I have lost who I am in this relationship, there is no one else.

2007-06-20 10:21:04 · 15 answers · asked by vanessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 10:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i am a married woman who has 3 kids i have noticed self confidence and feeling good in general to helps me a lot with sex.So here is the question do you think women should meet men half way when it comes time to getting in the mood ?I am talking out maybe doing stuff to make yourself feel better about you even if its something small to get the mind set ready to be in the mood.Do you think some women rely to much on the husband to get in the mood?I have noticed female friends complaing they are never in the mood even with loving hubbys who try to romance them.

2007-06-20 10:15:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have fallen for my best friend. We were talking last night and he told me that I am like the only one of his friends that still talks to him. He ended up telling me b4 the conversation was over that if I need him he's there 4 me. Anyway, we have never dated before, and as a matter of fact he has a GF. I had actually asked him b4 if he would ever date me, and he said that he didn't know cuz he hadn't thought of me that way b4. Whether he was telling the truth, i don't know. He almost always opens up to me and tells me whatever is bothering him, so we're pretty close. My thing is that whenever i think of actually getting serious with someone, he's always the one who comes to mind. When I think of getting my first kiss, he's the one i think of. When I think of someday getting married, he's the one i think of marrying. Is there actually a chance this might happen, or am I just so close to him that he's the only one i think of?
Please answer...I really need help here

2007-06-20 10:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by fast~car~luver 2 in Singles & Dating

how can you make yourself last like 30 minutes when having sex without stoping

2007-06-20 10:12:33 · 4 answers · asked by L.R 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf is willing 2 pay child support.. but das it! he has d right not 2 see d baby and not 2 have any communications wit d baby n d babys mom ryt???? n den my bfs cousin is d one hu stands up as a father.. so my bf can jus sign sme papers n tell d court dat his cousin will take care of em..

2007-06-20 10:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by chat wit me 1 in Family

I enjoy sex much more than my partner and I cant help it. I have 3 kids with my husband and I still cant get enough - what can I do... I think about it all day long and want it all day long?

2007-06-20 10:10:16 · 22 answers · asked by Bellatres 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant stande it!!!!!

2007-06-20 10:10:07 · 11 answers · asked by jordan k 1 in Singles & Dating

then why do people get so embarassed when they get caught masturbating? If there's nothing wrong with it and it's completely natural then why does everybody worry about getting caught?

2007-06-20 10:07:02 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Understood 2 in Singles & Dating

Details, details please!

2007-06-20 10:05:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently divorced but still living with my ex. I feel stupid for being with him. He cheated on me, why we are divorced, he denied his own son while I was pregnant with him, and I had a baby girl after we got together but the whole time he claimed she wasn't his. When she was born we found out she was going to pass away. I hate him for that. He has lied to me a few times too. I know I'm stupid, but how do you leave from a realationship like that?

2007-06-20 10:05:00 · 15 answers · asked by just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce