I enjoy sex much more than my partner and I cant help it. I have 3 kids with my husband and I still cant get enough - what can I do... I think about it all day long and want it all day long?
2007-06-20 10:10:16 · 22 answers · asked by Bellatres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband doesnt have the same drive and I think I drive him crazy. Of course he loves it once I get him in the mood but I'm always the one to start. Its dissapointing.
2007-06-20 10:15:13 · update #1
Were only 29 ... Im not at my prime thats closer to 40
2007-06-20 10:16:49 · update #2
I cant see myself with anyone else - I need a partner to get going, masturbating isnt for me unless I have someone next to me. Himhum - just so you know I go to church I read the bible but God created me as I am, I'm a faithful married woman who wants to have SEX - nothing wrong with it. just wanted feed back to know I'm not the only horny lady out there.
2007-06-20 10:20:24 · update #3
You need to get your self some "Toys" to play with to take the edge off.
And you can try to work something out with him so that he can give you the attention that you desire.
Perhaps, if you write him a love poem or something that will get his attention and signal to him that he needs to give you more quality time alone with you.
You have to convince him that this is something that you need him to do for you. It doesn't have to be an unpleasant chore...but more like an intimate hobby.
Try setting the stage with him by finding out what turns him on and gets him in the mood. The key thing is that you both can make time for each other to be intimate and satisfied.
If you need inspiration go to the book store and read "Sexual Ecstasy: The Art of Orgasm" by Margot Anand. If her books very helpful.
Good Luck
2007-06-20 10:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partner first. See if he'd be willing to help you out with some of that. Try some masturbation...could be fun. If all of this doesn't help...perhaps the two of you could get involved in an "alternate lifestyle."
2007-06-20 10:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rance D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can try different sexual roles with your husband. He might be more and willing to be up to speed with you. Toys is another good idea, different sizes and all. Honestly, you probably need that BIG BOOM a few times and you should be fine.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-20 10:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL .... he should be classed as lucky but is probably on here asking why he ain't gettin any????
Perfectlu normal for ladies 30+ to want sex more your reaching your prime it called the body clock ticking and getting louder
2007-06-20 10:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to meet with Mr. Vibrator more often! You could get yourself a friend with benefits but I don't think your looking to cheat on your husband.
2007-06-20 10:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by G Money 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask your husband if you can have a playmate, or a friend with benefits. If he says yes, you can have all the sex you want without feeling guilty about it.
2007-06-20 10:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have u tried to keep busy . try that . keep urslf busy enough to keep ur mind off of ot try reading the bible . try praying , i know u wont and if u don't ull stay the same way.
2007-06-20 10:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by himhum03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the same. We have two girls and i want it all the time. You have to either masturbate or tell him what you want
2007-06-20 10:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by humble servant 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put a sign in the lawn.
2007-06-20 10:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make sure the kids are not in the house!! Or u could lock the doors. Sorry that your husband doesn't make you happy, or doesn't really care for sexxxx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-20 10:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by ~prettyn'pink~ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋