my bf is willing 2 pay child support.. but das it! he has d right not 2 see d baby and not 2 have any communications wit d baby n d babys mom ryt???? n den my bfs cousin is d one hu stands up as a father.. so my bf can jus sign sme papers n tell d court dat his cousin will take care of em..
2007-06-20 10:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by chat wit me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
??????????????????????? huh????????? excuse me I must REALLY be getting old. What the heck did you just ask.
2007-06-20 10:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by sred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That will depend on some issues. Has the baby been born yet. If not the let the cousin put his name on the birth certificate if the real father doesn't want to claim the child as his. This will ensure that the person that wants to care for the child is getting the rights. I think that is said that someone doesn't want their child, and doesn't want to claim it. Has something happened terribly between him and the child's mother that makes him feel this way, because he could be making a big mistake in giving up his rights, if so. The court will order him visitation and he won't have to deal with the mother. There is lots of help out there. He should be sure that he is making the right choices for the child and himself. Later in life he could be very sorry
2007-06-26 09:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. All of you need to grow up. A father needs to be interactive with his child as well as financially responsible. Your bf needs to sit down and talk about the best interest in raising the baby with the mother of the child. Your only say so in this matter is to be supportive & loving when the child comes to visit. Cousin shouldn't be in the pix, it's not his responsibility. Your bf should be ashamed & you should offer him better advice ; you're hurting him more than helping the situation.
2007-06-20 17:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Buggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Buggy' has the ideal situation in mind, not reality. The reality is that this guy has no interest in being a father, just in being a sperm donor and doing the minimum required by law.
The correct word is "that's," not "das."
The correct word is "the," not "d."
The correct word is "with," not "wit."
The correct word is "right," not "ryt."
Use "and" not "n."
Use "then" not "den."
Use "who" not "hu."
Use "just" not "jus."
Use "them" not "dem."
What is this you are using? Ghetto-speak?
You do realize that you will never get a high-paying job using English and grammar and punctuation that way, don't you?
2007-06-20 17:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if you mean he wants to sign his parental rights away then let him. I've been a single mom for years and weather I'm with someone or not Its my job to take care of my own child. Though just because you don't want him to see them doesn't mean he has to listen to you.
2007-06-20 17:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by snapdragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child support isn't supposed to be confined within FINANCIAL MATTERS alone. however, in your case, i think it's difficult to convince your child's father to accept his obligation for your child. love is inherent therefore we cannot force him to feel that. what you need now is courage to stand up and be a good mother to your child. no matter how hard it may seem, i think it's the only way.
2007-06-24 22:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
child support and placement (visitation/communication) with the child are seen as two different things in the court system. at least in WI they are
2007-06-20 17:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by alison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really....he has an obligation to pay child support, sure...but he also has an obligation to help raise his child. That other crap is just that ....crap.
2007-06-20 17:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you ask a question could you please speak english so that people can answer the question.
2007-06-20 17:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you are asking? Is it wrong that he doesn't want to see them? I dunno.
2007-06-20 17:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋