Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

Okay. I dated this guy (Person A) at my job for about 5 or six months. There wasn't really anything there for me, but I was trying to make it work because he really liked me. However, before we started dating, I began to have a slight interest in someone else I work with. (Person B) I thought he was a really nice guy, and could be a good friend and maybe more.
Now, I'm not with Person A anymore. And, I don't really want to date or get in a relationship, but I would like to know Person B better.
The problem is, I don't want to come off as anything negative at my job because of this. I don't want people to think I'm just moving from co-worker to co-worker, because that is not the case at all.

2007-06-20 10:03:09 · 40 answers · asked by RP 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 10:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 09:56:53 · 32 answers · asked by barbosa_art 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When we met and were dating everything was great, of course, but after a few years of marriage the intimacy was less and less and now, although we still have sex there is no mouth to mouth kissing unless it is the type you would kiss your mother, you know, mouth closed, no feeling...I don't know if I can honestly remain married to someone who does not like what I consider to be an important part of an intimate relationship. I don't really ever even want to have sex because I resent the change. And yes I did talk to him about it but the outcome is the same and this has been going on for so long now I don't think there is any hope for change. I know other relationships have more "serious" issues but please I am only 40 years old and would like a more intimate relationship with a man and lately, a man other than my spouse....LOL :) No, I don't have one picked out yet either....please advise

2007-06-20 09:55:49 · 32 answers · asked by Unluckyinlove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

love signs

2007-06-20 09:52:19 · 7 answers · asked by anil 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my bf..i met him before two month... we still have this relationship with us..he's in grade 12 now...and i am 17 years old..which have one more year in high schooll...i'm glad that he'll be in university but he got admission in Laurentian University...which i can't go there...and we both are in now in toronto....he'll be moved there..just for university... i wanna stay with him..i don't wanna leave him no matter what....we have not a lots of time together..cuz' it's june now..in september he'll move in sudbury..where i'll never be..i wanna stop him..but can't.... can u help me about it..??? plz..i can't control myself from crying..i love him more than my life....i mean he's my first bf and first love....how do i stop him??? what do i tell me ????

2007-06-20 09:51:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-20 09:50:30 · 25 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Weddings

It's to save the relationship.

2007-06-20 09:49:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 09:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by abrennan01 3 in Weddings

I have 2 older brothers. I'm the youngest and my the only girl I'm 13. My brothers are 25 and 15. Okay the 25 eyar old one my dad gives money to . My dad pays for everything for him and has paid for lawyers for him over $1,000s of dollars waisted on him. My other brother the 15 year old one is dumb !! He always needs summer school and my dad's gonna waist $500 on him this year and he has waisted $500 on him every year . Me on the other hand is smart i never needed summer school and my dad never gives me a any money and its not fair. I mean my birthday's coming up and i said dad cna i have 500 $ and he said no because my brother needs it more than me im always left out . i even wanted to have it at a nice cheap but he said no . do you think this is fair ?? Also i spend all day babysitting my 25 year old brother's kid and they dont even pay me its not fair !!

2007-06-20 09:47:51 · 19 answers · asked by GiRLY GiRL xO0 4 in Family

Like most guys in highschool and college I pretty much had sex with every girl I dated. I considered it a prerequisite. now that I am more mature and don't see it as such. now that I try to play it cool and get to know women, I have discovered that if I dont try to fugg them, that they end up trying to fugg me.

Just yesterday I recieved oral sex from a co-worker in the parking lot after work. That kinda of thing NEVER happened when i was young and wanted to happen. Now it seems to be happening with regularity. What the heck is going on with women these days? Is that I am dealing with older shick who aren't afraid. Are is it something else?

2007-06-20 09:47:11 · 15 answers · asked by $0.02 4 in Singles & Dating

17 female california
no perverts
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I need practice. Advice columnist at school.

2007-06-20 09:45:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that they are still trustworthy?
or should the husband move on and find wife number 2?

2007-06-20 09:41:10 · 35 answers · asked by stick it to my heart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with a guy for a year now---and about two months ago we were really arguing alot...I will admit mostly my fault--inseucrities etc.... Well at the height of it all, i found out he was surfing Match.com and other really bizarre sites....Nonetheless we worked it all out and whatnot---he said it was because he felt lonely because we were barely talking..Now my question is..is it stupid of me am I being naieve and there is more? Or could it be very legitimate and there is no reason to worry.. I forgive him but I am having a hard time forgetting and feeling really weirded out even after two months..

2007-06-20 09:39:41 · 12 answers · asked by the_weesh 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband died last July....he was living with my son (his stepson) because his own son and daughter didn't want anything to do with him, even on his birthday and holidays....he left a beat up boat and an old jeep. In 2005 he packed up all his belongings from the house he was living in, and moved to PA where he lived for a year; he became so sick he had to move in with his son. Things didn't work out at all so my son went and got him, with all his belongings. There was a lot less stuff coming back with him then had gone up with him a year before. This was 2006. He died a month later. His daughter and son-in-law have begun harassing us about my ex's belongings that they claim belong to them. They have not had anything to do with us for 11 months. Right after he died my son and my husband packed everything that we had that belonged to my ex and delivered it to his daughter. Now they claim we have kept things and they have a lawyer and plan to sue....what are our rights???

2007-06-20 09:37:55 · 18 answers · asked by ganderlady2001@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 09:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married on Friday. My buddies all came to town this week, and, last night, we decided to do the Bachelor Party a little early. So we go out to the clubs and I think I over indulged. Anyhow, I wake up this morning in a Motel 6 hotel with a sheep in my room. Should I be worried? Could I have caught a disease? The sheep pooped everywhere and I had to pick it up with my fingers. What do I do with this sheep? Help Me!

2007-06-20 09:34:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

divorce/ counselling not an option. I feel so lonely and let down most of the time. there are compatiblity issues that keep hurting me. how do i make myself happy and strong inspite of this?

2007-06-20 09:32:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is addicted to online forums. He will get on there and stay on there for hours on end, leading up unti lthe wee hours of the morning. I know "at least he's not looking at porn" but sometimes I just want to tear his laptop in half! The forums are things like "bodybuilding.com" "subfighter.com" and a couple of other ones that he has just recently gotten into.
He gets on there and reads the posts that other guys put up there and he replies back to them, like all of them, whether he agrees with the people or not, he either argues with them, or cheers for the same causes with others! Help me, I just want him to spend time with me when he I get home, any ideas of what I can do to in order to get him off the 'net?

2007-06-20 09:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a guy and this girl is obnoxious. I have plenty of friends. She just do is picks on all the people in my class. She just mad because she has no friends and she gets her @$$ whoop 3 times. She said to me is "I can whoop your a$$" because I said good luck, its the last day of school and I'm moving. Everytime I ask a question she always get an attidute with me. I come back and slap the ugly out of her. I'm moving next year and I'm never gonna see her.

P.S
She called me gay and she gonna report me if I call her a lesbian. I'm moving to Canada and she said I'm a dot, (I'm lonely) in school, also she said that Canadian don't like black people, I'm black. I hate her so freakin much. See what happens, in high school, she will get beatin up.

2007-06-20 09:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by KENNY T 1 in Friends

IS IT POSSIBLE FOR THIS TO WORK??? IVE KNOWN HIM FOR OVER 10 YEARS AND HE KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT ME AND I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM. NEVER HAVE I THOUGHT OF HIM BEING ANYTHING OTHER THAN MY FRIEND. WELL LAST MONTH IT WENT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. WE HAVE BEEN SEEING OTHER NOW MORE OFTEN THAN USUAL AND NOW OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BECOME SEXUAL. WHICH IS GREAT..... BUT ALSO SCARY BECAUSE IF ONE DAY THIS GOES BAD FOR SOME REASON
I WILL THEN PROBABLY LOOSE MY GOOD FRIEND.
I LOVE SPENDING ALL MY EXTRA TIME WITH HIM, I LOVE HIS KISSES AND EVERYTHING ELSE...
BUT WHAT DO I DO????

2007-06-20 09:28:16 · 8 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Friends

There is a guy that i used to work with. 2 months ago, he moved to a city 2 hours away from me to get a better job. we are very close friends and sometimes he comes here and we see each other and talk. Tonight i saw him in my dream that he came to visit me and my mom saw us and she was saying that you are young and why you want to merry him. i was keep telling her that we are just friends and nothing else. after a while i find out that he came here to ask me to marry him, and i had good feeling that he wants to be my husband. my mom agrees with our marriage and she took us to a place that nobody was there. it was by the mountain and she invites all my family and after a while flowers and gras grow up there. my aunt told me that here is a best place to celebrate your wedding and my mom was very sad that i'm getting marry, because i'm the youngest in my family. i also saw church in my dreams and i feel very good. i had different feeling when i woke up. can u tell me what's my dream mean?

2007-06-20 09:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone think the song 100 years by Five for Fighting would be a bad song for this kind of dance at a reception? Any suggestions please (other than Rap and R&B please)

2007-06-20 09:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by jmdavis333 5 in Weddings

2007-06-20 09:26:28 · 17 answers · asked by Andi B 1 in Weddings

my ex and i broke up in january but we got back together in April for about a month...we broke up again but my feelings have never disappeared. he knows i still love him but he has a gf. it kills me seeing them together but i can never get away from it as we have the same friends who we are with most of the time. i cry myself to sleep most nights thinking about him and there's no way i can forget about him as he seems to even be in my dreams...when we initally broke up in january he told me it was because he wasnt ready for a serious relationship but wanted me back in a couple of years when he was ready for one because he loved me but now i dont know what he feels as he ignores me when we see each other. please help me i think im going mad!
i love him so much and all i want is him back but he's way out of my league!

2007-06-20 09:25:58 · 16 answers · asked by Dan :) 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in a year.. and this question I think is quite interesting.. knowing people the way I do.. and having seen so many things go down among my friends over the years.. makes me wonder if anyone is ever actually totally faithful. I intend to be, but I wonder if my spouse can handle it. Forever is a long time, after all.

2007-06-20 09:24:59 · 17 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just someone you randomy see and think is hot ????

2007-06-20 09:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i basically told my bf that i couldnt put up with being in a relationship with him anymore and that we just be friends but he still approaches me with the same mental. so should i comepletely end it. it seems we get along better without being committed. but soon as we decide to do that, we start acting like we are in a relationship. he is not my future but i dont know how to let go.

2007-06-20 09:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I am more than happy to help anybody out. You can just email me and I will try to help you out the best that I can. I will keep it completely between us and I am not judgemental. I just like helping people.

Goodluck to everybody.

2007-06-20 09:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by Oops, did I say that? 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, I really like one of my good friends.
Ive known him now for 10 months, we get on so well, its always been like this even since the first time we met!!!!
We’ve already been on a few dates…but I asked him out on them…that was earlier on in the year since then we have made out loads…practically every time we see each other!
We text/instant message at least 3 times a week and even though all this has happened its been 10 months and NOTHING has happened. People who know him have said that im going to have to make the first move if I want anything more because when it comes to things like this he gets all shy and doesn’t really like to show his ‘true’ feelings but I don’t know how he will react to it
I want to tell him how I feel, because I really like him, but I am
afraid of
1) Rejection; which leads to extreme embarrassment
2) Awkwardness; Whether he likes me or not, I'm afraid that this might ruin our friendship.

I don't know if I should just continue flirting with him (as I
currently do when I see him)

Also, how can I tell him and slip it into to conversation without scaring him…what would be the best thing to say if I do go ahead with it all? Grace x x x

2007-06-20 09:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating