I'm getting married in a year.. and this question I think is quite interesting.. knowing people the way I do.. and having seen so many things go down among my friends over the years.. makes me wonder if anyone is ever actually totally faithful. I intend to be, but I wonder if my spouse can handle it. Forever is a long time, after all.
2007-06-20 09:24:59 · 17 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are absolutely right, Forever truly is a very long time. Never the less, LOVE is one of the most unusual medicine for many human disorders. For example, if you love someone you think about them all the time,You care about their feelings, You ignore their imperfections e.t.c. My suggestion for you is to let the LOVE in your marriage speak for your DOUBTS. No human being is perfect but LOVE is. If you LOVE each other "GIRL FRIEND" you are alright.
ONE MORE THING, do not allow yourself to accept the illusion that love is everything. Love is the "only" thing that makes everything else make sense. YOU need to know who you are marring before you make the commitment of marriage.
2007-06-20 09:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rebeccah M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say there are very few women, fewer men out there that can find cheating to be something they never give a try, for inherent reasons.
Obviously she's a sl*t if she cheats while married and might need to be tar and feathered, and get those feathers plucked. : )
I'd also say it has allot to do with her upbringing and values... sometimes the energy you can percieve between the women and her parents key to gauge the relevance of those analytics.
Women don't need to worry if their man cheats anyways.. if were good men we will/should cheat..
(women started all this).. its a natural right endowed to us because of how women are.. it makes a better world as long as you don't sleep with married women.
and even if man does cheat it also won't matter because a good man/KINg will NEVER dethrone the queen for A SKANK... + has choosen his queen very properly.
So just remember 2 things with your marriage...
1. you have the right to cheat if its a quality/discretionary cheat if your a good man.
2. if your a good man you would've choosen the wife that won't cheat on you.
Sorry for those that don't agree.. but behold soon enough this will be published fact.. and I get all the credit for its inherent and natural discovery/illumination of this. So you can either see the light or stand in the darkness... the choice is yours!
2007-06-20 09:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by mikeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on this one. I have been married for about six months and have been wondering the same. I think that not enough couples are faithful. People use too many excuses for their behavior these days. I wish you all the luck in the world, and if nothing else there are two of us out there who are going to be good to our husbands and hopefully get the same in return from them!
2007-06-20 09:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it is pretty high for those that put in the work on their marriages. I have been married for 12 years. I haven't cheated in that time. I don't plan to either since I figure that if I were going to cheat I might as well leave the marriage. I don't like sneaking around for anyone and when you cheat that's all you have time to do. It's better to be single again given that as an option.
2007-06-20 10:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to observe your parents, and your girlfriends parents marriage. Did they survive? Surround yourself with couples who are still together, hopefully you and your spouse, plan to lead a christian life.
There are plenty of "faithful" people, but most of the time, they were the ones, who tried to make the marriage last, until there was nothing left to fight for. As long as you are loyal, and your spouse has the same beliefs as you, your love and trust, will be enough to last forever.
2007-06-20 09:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Emerald 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never get the truth one can only speak for their self and most won't be honest.. But one thing is certain you will never know for sure if your spouses has cheated or not and thats a fact.
2007-06-20 09:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, half of all married couples get divorced, and half of the ones that don't probably had one or the other cheat at least once, so I'd say about 25%.
2007-06-20 09:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
0% oh hell i'll give some guys the benefit of the doubt - .1% I just came to my office seven months ago and got offers from every married man here. I never thought this many men cheated, even the "happily married" ones who sleep with their wives 5 times a week (according to them) have asked me to fool around.
2007-06-20 09:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia L 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure there are, but you also have to consider how few couples stay married "til death" these days...serial monogamy is more the norm but I still think there are a fair number of couples that do not cheat on one another while they are together...
...sadly, the number of people that do cheat is MUCH too high.
2007-06-20 09:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Married 24 years and never cheated. I think the percentage is alot higher than you think.
2007-06-20 09:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by mjmayer188 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋