i love my bf..i met him before two month... we still have this relationship with us..he's in grade 12 now...and i am 17 years old..which have one more year in high schooll...i'm glad that he'll be in university but he got admission in Laurentian University...which i can't go there...and we both are in now in toronto....he'll be moved there..just for university... i wanna stay with him..i don't wanna leave him no matter what....we have not a lots of time together..cuz' it's june now..in september he'll move in sudbury..where i'll never be..i wanna stop him..but can't.... can u help me about it..??? plz..i can't control myself from crying..i love him more than my life....i mean he's my first bf and first love....how do i stop him??? what do i tell me ????
2007-06-20 09:51:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Welcome to the excruciating pain of young love, the most common severe pain in all the world. Calm yourself, evaluate your choices, and make a wise decision.
2007-06-20 09:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you two live together in Sudbury while he goes to university? Lots of people move out at your age.
Or, you can just stay in Toronto while he's up there, and keep in touch. Once in awhile you can meet each other either there, in Toronto, or somewhere else. If you really love each other, distance shouldn't be a huge problem.
I actually don't see any problem here, so I think you're being overly upset. However when I was 17 I probably would've been the same.
2007-06-20 09:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Does he love you? Is he in love with you?
Distance does not have to mean break up...unless of course, your boyfriend is asking for a break up.
Time apart will allow you to give you more of an identity. Loving your boyfriend is great. However, he has become your life, which leaves very little of who you are.
Sudbury Ontario is not too far from Toronto. He can come home weekends or on holiday.
While you are waiting on him to come home for a visit to spend time with you...find a job or hobby. Go out and go to a school to improve on your english. Plant a garden. Write a book. Do things that will bide the time and help you to grow as a person.
Be thankful for the opportunity to have this time apart, for by it...you will find yourself.
No man should be our every breath, even if we do love him. First loves are cherished forever, however...very few first loves ever find it to a happy forever.
First loves are a stepping stone to our future.
If your boyfriend loves you...he too will tell you that he needs you to be a whole person.
He's going to school to better define himself.
You should too.
Then when the two of you get together the relationship will be more fun and less draining.
They say that the heart grows stronger when the loved one is away.
Get a grip and get a degree, and a hobby and a group of friends to keep you busy.
The time will fly by fast.
Take care
2007-06-20 10:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by cadvadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 17 year old right now. You are still young as hell and you have your whole life ahead of you, literally. Why waste it for this boy of yours. Your question is "how i can broke up with my bf???? " easy, just say bye......It'll be hard in the beginning but then you'll get over it. Don't waste your tears on him because you are not married to him and you don't have a kid with him. You hardly know him first of all. You will have many other loves in the future and I guarentee those loves will be better then this one.
2007-06-20 10:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let him go. After he is gone a month, you will probably have met someone else anyway. Or, try it long distance and if it's meant to be, it'll work out. Plus, sweetie, I think you need to concentrate on your studies too because your spelling and grammar is just horrible!
2007-06-20 10:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that. Maybe talk to him about it and see if you can still hold your relationship together until he gets back. Visit him whenever you can, or maybe you two might have to move on. But anyway, I wish you the best and I know it sucks cuz ive been there too. GOODLUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-20 09:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hun.. this is the worst place to be in a relationship...
i was in it two years ago. but the roles were switched it was me who was still in high school! but what he did with me.... we went to my favorite coffee shop.. talked about him going to college and how hard it would be for us. he said that he was lucky to have me, sad to lose me, but didn't know how it would work. and i know it's hard but you can visit him and he can visit you. that's what we had to do. now he's my best friend.
just an idea for you. best of luck. hope it all works out. here if you ever need to talk.
2007-06-20 10:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by ktpink08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stop him its his dream just follow him you two can buy a cute little apartment togeather. and while he is in school you can go to school and you both can get part time jobs.
Good Luck Maddy
2007-06-28 08:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by MadisonsFriend134 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are sad, but you will grow apart. The best thing you can do is cry, let it out. The pain you are feeling is only temporary, it will go away. I know you don't think it will, but it does.
2007-06-28 06:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by It's me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..hunnie it sounds that u r in serious love...well u no that..hahh
okay ask him if he can wait a year or change schools.if he loves you the same he'll try his hardest to be with you
â¥Best Wishes
I hope evrything works out okay!
2007-06-20 09:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by KayKayD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋