Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

touching you? Is it a compliment that he always touches you or would you tire of it? I thought it was ok, until I caught him massaging my heels at a bar! I thought it was cute, then I thought about it and got a little spastic over it..

2007-06-20 09:21:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My older daughter looks like her dad. What do you think?

BTW: To see their pictures, go to my 360*.

2007-06-20 09:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a guy friend. And recently he has become really weird towards me. He has stopped inviting me places, and he invites everyone else but me.Also, in a group, he would hug everyone except me. Why does he do it? (just to clear it up, we never went out,and i have no romantic feelings for him)
We used to do allot togeda, so whats the deal?
What do u think this is?

2007-06-20 09:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, here's the situation so far:
My cheating ex-boyfriend Connor doesn't feel anything for me.
My best friend Sasuke, is in love with me.
My ex-boyfriend Callum is still in love with me.

I am madly in love with Connor.
I have some feelings for Sasuke
I have minor feelings for Callum

I know...it's annoying that I fell in love with the cheater and not my amazing best friend...but that's the person my heart's chosen...Oh, also:

Connor says there may be a chance in the future
Sasuke is pretty much desperate to go out with me.
Callum would like a chance for us again in the future.

I'm not naive with Connor...I know that even if I go out with him I'd be paranoid that everytime he wasn't with me he'd be kissing another girl...It's just too hard to sustain another relationship I think, which is making me, well, depressed but to a clinical extent. With Sasuke my feelings aren't strong enough for him yet, and same for Callum...I just need time to get over Connor...

2007-06-20 09:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by Gee=) 2 in Singles & Dating

i want details :)

2007-06-20 09:16:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please all help wanted. especially males. do i leave him? what du think hes up to? help me

2007-06-20 09:16:00 · 33 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1 in Singles & Dating

So 2 years ago in Dec my dad goes out of town and his mom (80ish) had to get this major eye surgery, the surgery went fine but she was supposed to have someone around to help her out.so after he got there she got the surgery but he left 2 weeks after the surgery to meet some woman 20 years younger than he is...yes this is a true story that happened to me. but this all occurred while he was still married to mom, a year later he ends up going there again and got MARRIED to this other woman...so he's got 2 wives...Mom finds out...they divorce and yet he still lives in the house...i mean he acts as though nothing has happened but he just sneaks around the house and stays up in his room all day when he's home but he also has a job usually he's out of the house though.
mmk well what do you all think? he's gonna move out once i graduate from highschool (2 years) then he's gonna disappear to be with his wife that doesn't know anything about his exwife and 2 kids (presently i'm16 and bro19)

2007-06-20 09:14:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 09:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by monkkeytheblue 1 in Friends

2007-06-20 09:10:35 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi00 2 in Weddings

I know that most men like the chase at the beginning of the relationship, it's human nature. But what about those insecure guys? Like extremely shy, introvert ones? I bet they wouldn't make the first move if they were burning in flaming fire.

2007-06-20 09:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He knows I strongly go against the ENTIRE idea of it on MANY MANY personal issues and levels, and I want to know what to do..

2007-06-20 09:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

links to pics or a very descriptive idea would be great.
my girlfriend, while likeing my hair, i KNOW would like it short or at least shorter. she would NEVER tell me to do it but.......................................
i also have yet to meet her parents which im guessing would make it a little smoother as she AND ESPECIALLY them are a bit conservative.
thanks

2007-06-20 09:07:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok, so i like this boy. Hes really sweet to me & i love being around him. Hes asked me out a few times, but i keep saying no, mostly because my friends say hes a jierk and pressures girls into akward situation and all told me that if i ever said yes, they'd never talk to me again. The problem is, that as weird as it sounds, im addicted to him. hes all i can think about, and when we talk on the computer and i see its him messaging me, i get a funny feeling. I dont know, what should i do?

2007-06-20 09:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by liveitup 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it literal?... or what?

2007-06-20 09:04:49 · 16 answers · asked by bball3910 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 09:03:11 · 8 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm having a small budget wedding. I was thinking of a large candleabra with a sphere like arrangement of carnations...

2007-06-20 09:03:05 · 32 answers · asked by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 in Weddings

On a major budget, but tiffany's is just amazing. Help?

2007-06-20 09:02:58 · 21 answers · asked by stlegend 1 in Weddings

i have alot of stress and issues that hunts me guilt and depression,Iam finding hard to cope with everything what iam worried about is my husband he expressed that iam too much and i need to relax.I feel iam losing myself and trying to change is exuasting me.I feel hopeless and need to just relax and not get those stupid thoughts,memorys in my head so i can be my true self agian.I feel like iam losing it i want ot help my relationship and thinking about meds

2007-06-20 09:00:30 · 12 answers · asked by eva-li 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im really sad with my relationship right now. There are things i want my Bf to do but i dont he can and it makes me really unhappy [e.g be sweet to me as much as he can and say sweet stuff] And Im so down right now that i feel like I want to break or cool things off. My friends and everyone i know say i deserve someone better or i could do so much better. But i do love my Bf but i feel that it just had come to the point that i dont think i can compromise with how he treats me. If ever I would decide to break up/cool off with him how is the most simpliest and wont hurt both of us kinda break up. HELp? You could check both our pictures in my 360 page.

2007-06-20 09:00:27 · 1 answers · asked by Uhmmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I have been married 2 years. He came home in Sept 06 out of the military, first time living together. We have a son, but since he came home he's been totally selfish and controlling. Past 3 mths were horrible, I asked him to leave for a week so we would get our priorites in order and miss each other. He says if I wanted him to leave, then we will divorce. He's called the courthouse, found the website and asked me to print out the papers. Since then he's been out drinking all the time, got a second job bartending, staying out till 5 am, without sleep, then going golfin, sleeps all afternoon, doing drugs, lying to me about it. We have a son to take care of and he doesn't care. Finally one night he started packing my things and told me to move out NOW! I didn't have anywhere for me and my son to go then, finally I found a place and move out this week. Now he wants to work on it. He's so controlling to the point I get questioned for shaving my legs. Will he change?

2007-06-20 08:58:25 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 08:57:34 · 27 answers · asked by aaliyah p 1 in Singles & Dating

I have booked my photographer fo my wedding.. and he is very creative and easy going. basically he will shoot whatever i want and i know he does all the traditional poses as well. There was a suggestion made to make a list of all the photos i want so we dont forget anything.... just wondering if there were any good sites i could look at and get ideas for some fun poses for the bridal party and for me and my hubby to be... we are fun loving and silly and want a few pics of us that show that off.

2007-06-20 08:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

My mam will turn 50 next week and need ideas for presents because I haven't got a clue! Maybe in the region of £50.

Any ideas welcome!!!!!!

2007-06-20 08:53:28 · 5 answers · asked by !"£$%^&*() 1 in Family

2007-06-20 08:53:07 · 21 answers · asked by Sunshine Suzy 5 in Weddings

okay so there's this super hot guy. looks like jesse mccartney. i dated him for 1 week and it was awesome!!!! but then he told me that he would break up with me unless i become his sex slave! Ew!!! i'm only 16 and he's like a year or two older. i seriously thought i was in love with him. even if he were ugly i'd still be in love with him. i really wanna keep seeing him, but i don't wanna be his sex slave. don't tell me he was joking, cause he wasn't. i'm 100% sure about that. i don't know!! what should i do?

2007-06-20 08:53:05 · 25 answers · asked by kaylarose 2 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if my brother's life is better than mine. I know that I should be concentrating on my own life and trying to improve it.

My brother is 6 years younger than mine. He is happily married and has two children (daughter is 6 and son is 4). He has a good paying, professional job and is doing well in his career.

He and his family have hobbies together since they go camping every weekend and then go hiking, biking, fishing, etc.

He does have health issues since he has juvenile diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol. He is now going through the complications of diabetes (effect on kidneys, eyes and feet). He lives paycheck to paycheck.

I look at my own life. I am divorced. My daughter does not live with me and probably does not want to have anything to do with me. My ex-husband constantly pressures me to come back to him.

I am lonely at times. I do work full-time and am better off financially. I am trying to keep busy, but.....

2007-06-20 08:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for just over 5 years. Im 19 and hes 24. I love him- and i know he loves me (hes building a house we designed togeather- its almost done and im supposed to move in with him, we've talked about marriage and kids and hes bought me a lot of expensive jewlery to "prove" hes serious..) but im just not sure if i want this anymore... We argue a lot and i cant really depend on him. Like he says he'll be at my house at 5 and he doesnt get there untill 6:30. When i tell him its disrespectful and he needs to quit doing this kind of stuff he just tells me i b!*ch too much, and we wouldnt fight so much if i didnt. But thats not something i should accept in a relationship.... right? He is really sweet to me also though- he brings me out to dinner, cooks for me, brings me flowers, gives me massages, compliments me.... The good times are good- should i just deal with the bad times?

2007-06-20 08:52:06 · 37 answers · asked by CaLiBoRn&rAiSeD 2 in Singles & Dating

Another poster sparked this question that I had forgotten about.

I went to a wedding where they did the "kidnapping" the bride and demanding a certain amount of ransom before she was released. Anyway, when the bestman ran in the reception all dramatic and told us this I was pretty much offended and refused to pay. So were some other people. He thought we were kidding and two hours later a super ticked off bride came through the door demanding to know why we had refused to pay her "ransom".

I know historically back in Braveheart times this was actually a concern but is it really a tradition now to recreate that in some cultures like a money dance? In my mind it was just the bride and groom trying to be cute and milk us for more money...did I miss something?

2007-06-20 08:51:58 · 23 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

2007-06-20 08:43:35 · 25 answers · asked by alp 1 in Singles & Dating

we recently moved in a house by my husbands grandma, and his newphew and his mom live with her. His sister will call and ask us if he can come over or he will ask if we are over there, if he can he come over. my hubby doesn't think to ask me 1st if it will be okay and tells him if his mom don't care. it's not only coming over here that bothers me. it is also that if we are going somewhere he will ask to go with us and my husband has allowed it. i told my husband that i wasn't going to move in this house because his newphew would be over everyday. he said "no he want." but its not working out like that. his newphew misbehaves sometimes and all he wants to do is get on my hubby's ps game and all i want is quite family time. i done confronted my husband about it and he seems to feel bad because his newphew doesn't know who his daddy is. am i being wrong by asking my hubby to not let him come over as much. what would you do?

2007-06-20 08:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by michelecmof4 2 in Family