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okay so there's this super hot guy. looks like jesse mccartney. i dated him for 1 week and it was awesome!!!! but then he told me that he would break up with me unless i become his sex slave! Ew!!! i'm only 16 and he's like a year or two older. i seriously thought i was in love with him. even if he were ugly i'd still be in love with him. i really wanna keep seeing him, but i don't wanna be his sex slave. don't tell me he was joking, cause he wasn't. i'm 100% sure about that. i don't know!! what should i do?

2007-06-20 08:53:05 · 25 answers · asked by kaylarose 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Okay. four words. FORGET ABOUT THIS BOY. You are 16, you have your life ahead of you and you cannot compromise yourself like that and become his "sex slave". Any guy who says that is not looking for a relationship he is just seeing you as a piece of a$$.

And honey, you did not love him. You may have been overwhelmed by his charm and how cute he was, but you were not in love with him. There is not a chance in hell you can fall in love with a guy after 1 week and there is no chance you would be ready to have sex with this guy after 1 week. He wants someone to be able to toss around and do whatever he wants with them whenever and you cannot be that girl. I'm sure you got so much going for you and if you can get a guy that cute, I am sure you can get more. Nice, cute boys who will care more about your feelings then getting in your pants.

Go find that guy, cause if you don't then you won't feel like a girlfriend, you'll feel more like a hooker.

Good luck :-)

2007-06-20 09:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 1 0

MIja...talk to him and say you know whats up w/ that...right now you are confused and dont know what to do...tell him what you felt when he said that and if he starts talk sh**..then dont listen to him and walk away ...youre barely 16 and you shouldnt be a sex slave for anyone...that should be something special for the right guy not for somebody thats threating you that the relationship will end if it doesnt go the way he wants to...leave that jerk...and cool down a little cuz youll be pissed off if he tells you stuff and just find a better guy that deserves having you as a girlfriend...not a hoe.←messed up but true

2007-06-20 16:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by tetanic_mariel 2 · 0 0

This guy was wrong for you, he is what he is, no matter how hot you think he is , he still wants you to be his sex slave. There are other guys who would treat you a lot better and have respect for you too, you life is not over and you can get past this, find other things to do and sometime later you find a new guy.

2007-06-20 16:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0 0

i bet their is alot more hot guyz out there (you just have to look) and well by the looks of it he dont like you back they way you do cuz of what he said....


so if you dont become his sex slave he will leave you break up with you...no offense but i would never bee with a guy like that i would be with a guyz that loves me and respects my decision and will be with me no matter what...i think you should do the same...

2007-06-20 16:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If i was in your position and a guy said that to me, I would of Slap the hell out of him and told him to go find a stupid hoe to be his sex slave.You sound like a super nice girl who deserves respect and a great guy! Just Forget About Him!

2007-06-20 16:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jacquelyn Michelle 2 · 0 0

Uh, he just wants you for the sex it seems, so if you want something more then that keep looking. If you just want to give it up (he probably won't even take care of your needs either), but your best bet is to just get another guy.

2007-06-20 16:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Often times. 2 · 0 0

Easier said then done-leave his ***. You want to go through that the whole time you are together? Sounds like he is just in it for the sex. Becareful because it could get violent

2007-06-20 15:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He need to get a lifeee...his a loser that wouldn't want u as his girlfriend just someone to have sex with when ever he feels like it and thats not cool...if u respect yourself you wouldn't allow such a thing...obviously his after one thing..

2007-06-20 16:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by ShyAngel444 2 · 0 0

tell him how u feel and if he still wants u to be his sex slave then i suggest u get rid of him

2007-06-20 15:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ha ha ha ha...this is hilarious how are you in love with someone and you dont even know if he is 1 or 2 years older than you...i suggest you keep your dignity and walk away

2007-06-20 15:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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