He knows I strongly go against the ENTIRE idea of it on MANY MANY personal issues and levels, and I want to know what to do..
2007-06-20 09:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are strongly against Porn, you definitely should not expect it, get over it, or watch it with him. This is a personal issue between you and your boyfriend. I would not let it go. As someone who is also strongly against it, I suggest confronting him. He should already know how you feel about it. If you have a serious relationship, this should be something that both of you are willing to work out. If he is not willing to work it out, it's time to start looking for another man. You do not need these kind of problems. I have had to deal with this issue on a personal level and I can tell you honestly that it destroys families and relationships. Don't get caught up in it.
2007-06-20 09:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by lchardy70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of guys look at porn and that it's not something to worry about too much.
However, it is probably more healthy for him not to look at porn, and I do agree with your sentiment.
I'm just saying not to get too upset about it.
You also have to be careful about being too angry at him about it, because of course it could backfire and he ends up having to hide it (more).
What do you do that is a sort of guilty secret? Maybe you can work on whatever that may be. Are you a closet Christian fundamentalist? Do you have a habit you'd rather people not see? Do you have any friends that you don't tell your bf about?
2007-06-20 16:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop. All guys look at porn. Just leave him alone, because if you ask him to stop, he'll only be lying to you when he says okay. Don't worry... it's not what you think. It's just a tool to help us release, you know. It's not like cheating.
2007-06-20 16:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with watching porn. If you dont want him to watch it maybe you should get naken and dance around for him...
I like watching porn with my fiance. Its fun, gives us ideas, keeps things exciting... i'm glad he doesnt feel he needs to keep things like that a secret from me BECAUSE I UNDERSTAND THAT HIS BODY HAS PERSONAL NEEDS THAT I'M NOT ALWAYS THERE TO FULFILL.
2007-06-20 16:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alorie C Give him a choice, you or porn !Write on a peice of paper even and both of you sign it ! If he breaks it you"re gone !
2007-06-20 16:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try having my guy lmao....it's innocent girlie. If you push negatively on it he's gonna still do it but lie to you. Watch it together...have some FUN!!!
2007-06-20 16:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by EMPRISSEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if he is let him there is nothing wrong with it, you would be suprised who looks at it. If that is all he is doing let him. You should try looking at it with him you might like it, i know i do!
2007-06-20 16:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by sweetbuglove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have sex with him every day, don't worry about it. Most guys just want to get off.
2007-06-20 16:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Brett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch it with him. Get over it.
2007-06-20 16:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-06-20 16:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋