is it a good idea to kick it with someone that you know is not right for you?

Question

i basically told my bf that i couldnt put up with being in a relationship with him anymore and that we just be friends but he still approaches me with the same mental. so should i comepletely end it. it seems we get along better without being committed. but soon as we decide to do that, we start acting like we are in a relationship. he is not my future but i dont know how to let go.

Answer 1

The best solution if you don't like him is just to cut ties and move on. If you have him hanging around, he is likely to play games with you and try to sabotage anything new you have going for you. Most of the time guys have a way to get under your skin and ruin your self esteem preventing you from moving on. It happens alot when married couples get divorce. Even though its fun to hang around you can get that elsewhere, he is not the only one who can provide that for you. Find someone new, move on, leave the old guy behind.

Answer 2

Tell him that you don't want to be bf and gf anymore, but that you wouldn't mind a bootycall every now and again. And that he will not be the only one in your life. Good luck.

Answer 3

Its not really healthy (mentally) to hang with him if you guys act like your still dating when you do so. Gradually stop hanging with him so much or flat out tell him again.

Answer 4

either cut him off, or drive home the fact that you dont see him in your future. also, make sure you dont string him along. some females do this without realizing it.

good luck.

Answer 5

well .. once ina relationship always ...u cant act as if ur friends.as that intimacy is always thetre u have to cut it completely...
give it some time.. may be u know better what u want in life expalin it to ur friend

Answer 6

yes

Answer 7

yes, end it completely